Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 In a message dated 1/4/2006 10:01:40 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, pam writes: she has decided to let 'nature' take its course and not to have the traditional D & C - ok, I usually don't post about anything, but is that really wise? being that far along, there's already a considerable amount of tissues and such built up in the uterus and if it doesn't all come out, she could get really sick with infection, and possibly ruin her chances of having another child. Sorry, JMHO... back to my corner.. Michelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 I have a gal that I know on my ladies newsgroup that has lost her baby - I think she was about 8 wks preg and she has decided to let 'nature' take its course and not to have the traditional D & C - Is there anything that she could do more naturally to help things along ... and to feel a little bit more relaxed and calm? Blessings ~ Pam TLC Naturally http://tlcnaturally.com (revamped and a work in progress!) E Web Express Website Design & Hosting http://www.ewebexpress.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 Hey, you know I'm all for the most natural approach possible. However, I must say that (in my opinion), this is one of those times to utilize modern medicine. I experienced this exact thing about 10 years ago and I too thought about passing on the D & C. I chose to go for it after researching it a bit further. All the best, Michelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 I'm sorry to hear about your friends loss. I had 2 miscarriages about 5 years ago. the 1st one at 12 weeks and the 2nd one at 7 weeks. I did not have a D & C with either. All the Dr's have to do is an ultrasound to be sure that there is nothing remaining in the uterus. They are really moving away from the notion that D & C's are mandatory, as they are discovering that they are often unnecessary and may actually cause further problems. Physically, I healed relatively quickly. It was a devestating experience emotionally though and took a long time for those wounds to heal. I found Rescue Remedy to be a big help. I would also think that Rose essential oil would be useful as it can help with grief. I am happy to say that I am now a mother of 2 beautiful children ages 2 & 4. -Tammy , " Pam " <pam@e...> wrote: > > I have a gal that I know on my ladies newsgroup that has lost her baby - I think she was about 8 wks preg and she has decided to let 'nature' take its course and not to have the traditional D & C - > > Is there anything that she could do more naturally to help things along ... and to feel a little bit more relaxed and calm? > > > Blessings ~ Pam > TLC Naturally > http://tlcnaturally.com (revamped and a work in progress!) > E Web Express Website Design & Hosting > http://www.ewebexpress.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 Ginger it helps the uterus contract. It's also said to be a blood cleanser... For the emotional upset, any citrus eo's, and just knowing there are people out there praying for her might help. Deep breathing exercises to get through the pain and take it moment by moment... And to remember that there is a reason for everything even if we don't know what that reason is... Jennifer On Behalf Of gaia_829 Wednesday, January 04, 2006 2:55 PM Re: Help for friend - lost baby I'm sorry to hear about your friends loss. I had 2 miscarriages about 5 years ago. the 1st one at 12 weeks and the 2nd one at 7 weeks. I did not have a D & C with either. All the Dr's have to do is an ultrasound to be sure that there is nothing remaining in the uterus. They are really moving away from the notion that D & C's are mandatory, as they are discovering that they are often unnecessary and may actually cause further problems. Physically, I healed relatively quickly. It was a devestating experience emotionally though and took a long time for those wounds to heal. I found Rescue Remedy to be a big help. I would also think that Rose essential oil would be useful as it can help with grief. I am happy to say that I am now a mother of 2 beautiful children ages 2 & 4. -Tammy , " Pam " <pam@e...> wrote: > > I have a gal that I know on my ladies newsgroup that has lost her baby - I think she was about 8 wks preg and she has decided to let 'nature' take its course and not to have the traditional D & C - > > Is there anything that she could do more naturally to help things along ... and to feel a little bit more relaxed and calm? > > > Blessings ~ Pam > TLC Naturally > http://tlcnaturally.com (revamped and a work in progress!) E Web > Express Website Design & Hosting http://www.ewebexpress.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 Raspberry leaf tea is said to help tone the uterus, which may help the ginger be more effective? I agree with the citrus, and knowing people are thinking of her. Kirstin --- Jennifer Janek-Markey <pixieladie wrote: > Ginger it helps the uterus contract. It's also said > to be a blood > cleanser... > ________ DSL – Something to write home about. Just $16.99/mo. or less. dsl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 Pam & all, I have had 9 pregnancies & 2 children - I have numerous miscarriages & 1 tubal/ectopic pregnancy & with the miscarriages - I have had 1 D & C - there are times when they are warranted & times when it is not necessary - I would pass along the advise of many of the wise women who have responded about teas to sip & also the use of Rescue Remedy - perhaps your friend has a Naturopathic clinic or practitioner in her area that she can go to, that would not do a D & C as routine practice I had a N.D. / midwife who told me that a D & C was in order when I had it done & referred me to an M.D. who treated me well my thoughts & opinion lesley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 You did say she's 8 weeks not 8 months correct? Julia Graber Girl By Julia Julia Graber Cregger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 I too had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. They wanted to schedule an d & c, I just got the hell out of dodge. BUT... I also knew what to look for in terms of " things hadn't cleared out right " . Also they had done an ultra sound and said I was clear. So I didn't feel the need. It was sorta like the last pregnancy. " THEY " wanted me to come in at the first sign of labour (I had had a c-section previously), strap me down and monitor everything. " Just in case " . Again, I had prepared for signs of trouble and just stayed home... I was a " 10 " when I went in. BUT... if you're not comfortable with taking these kind of decisons into your own hand, or with the amount of information that you have, then by all means be guided by the professionals. After all, it could be that I was just plain LUCKY. In the case of the miscarriage, I BELIEVE that it was " empty sac " pregnancy. I never felt pregnant (althought the test and swollen boobs said I was) and didn't grieve a minute when it happened. I was annoyed that the miscarriage took place on me birthday, but that was the extent of it. Unlike all my other pregnancies, it just never felt " right " . This is not advice, just my experiences. K On 1/4/06, Michelle <michelle wrote: > > Hey, you know I'm all for the most natural approach possible. However, > I must say that (in my opinion), this is one of those times to utilize > modern medicine. > -- > Cheers! > Kathleen Petrides > The Woobey Queen > Http://www.woobeyworld.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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