Guest guest Posted October 10, 2005 Report Share Posted October 10, 2005 Hmmmmmmmm And what if dad ISN'T sleeping around, the uncle ISN'T abusing the kids, The kids are actually getting a decent diet and mom doesn't drink (okay, I had a glass of champange last night, the first alchoholic drink in about a year). Sometimes.. you know.. the problem really is a problem and NOT symptomatic of something evil going on at home. Contrary to public opinion, not EVERYTHING is my fault. ;-) K >who for some reason took this post personally and I KNOW it wasn't meant to be, but then... sometimes that's just the way the old cookie crumbles ;-)< -- Cheers! Kathleen Petrides The Woobey Queen Http://www.woobeyworld.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2005 Report Share Posted October 10, 2005 Thanks for that long post, Anna White. I totally agree with everything you say. The reason I asked about essential oils, was as just one more trick in the toolkit. Since I know very little about E.O.s. and the people on this list know a great deal, I thought I'd ask. One of my favorite tools right now is FlyLady. A great, face-saving loving way of getting the family out of chaos. Check it out at http://FlyLady.net Ien in the Kootenays, anti-ritalin crusader ********************************** " No illness which can be treated with diet should be treated with any other means. " ~Moses Maimonides, 12 century My fave Superfoods: http://wildhealing.net *********************************** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2005 Report Share Posted October 10, 2005 Yes, but when the diet is fairly healthy, there are no food allergies, the family is loving and supportive, and life is generally good... then OTHER things need to be considered. We rejected the idea of medicating my daughter for a long time... I am a teacher, she got a lot of extra help at home after school... she needed more... a low dose of some ADD meds were all she needed to be able to focus enough in school. Even she agrees that the medication helps, it actually was HER that said that she wanted to try the meds when we talked with her doctor. SHE says it helps her. I see a difference. It took until she was 10 before we gave in... almost 11. she has no behavioral issues... it's all her ability to focus long enough at school to help her learn what the teacher is explaining... and even when the meds are supposed to have worn off, she still retains what she learned so that she can do homework. And on the days she doesn't take it, we can see a difference when she tries to play a board game with us. No, it's not the answer for every little issue... but it's not ALWAYS given just to quiet a wild child. This from someone that swore I would never medicate my child... and couldn't understand how anyone could... my nephews benefit from it as well... and I believe my only niece as well. Steph }) www.foxesdensoap.com On Behalf Of awhite777 What this taught me, in general, is that the family must be the first place to begin to make changes, and diet come next, medication is to be very closely monitored, prescribed for a short term while the other areas are explored. What happens is that medication is the first and usually the last " treatment " and explored. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Stephanie K. Fox wrote: <Yes, but when the diet is fairly healthy, there are no food allergies, the family is loving and supportive, and life is generally good... then OTHER things need to be considered. > Absolutely. Sometimes even a short period on " medication " can help the child to experience what it is like to be focused and organized, and she may function better later. As Dr. Gabor Mate (author of " Scattered Minds " ) says, neurons that fire together wire together. Ien in the Kootenays ******************************* Stop. Breathe. Smile! ~Padma ( my TV yoga teacher) See my smiling face: http://www.greatestnetworker.com/is/ien ******************************* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Yeah, my daughter still needs to use the meds to help out. I hope eventually we can wean her off and she can still function. Steph }) www.foxesdensoap.com On Behalf Of Ieneke van Houten Absolutely. Sometimes even a short period on " medication " can help the child to experience what it is like to be focused and organized, and she may function better later. As Dr. Gabor Mate (author of " Scattered Minds " ) says, neurons that fire together wire together. Ien in the Kootenays Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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