Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe menstrual cramps. She said they just hit her about 4pm and she couldn't stop crying. They were so bad I took her to the hospital. The doctor gave her 2 percoset at 5:45pm. He said they would take effect within 30 minutes. He sent us home. 2 hours later they still hadn't taken effect. I called the hospital and the nurse on call looked at her chart and said I could give her 3 ibuprofen. She took those and threw them up within 5 minutes. She waited about 10 minutes and asked if she could take them again and I said " yes " . She did, at 8:00pm. They should have taken effect within 20 to 30 minutes and they haven't. She's pacing the floor and almost in tears from the pain and I don't know what to do. She's also tried sitting in a warm-water bath, that didn't help either. Does anyone know if there are any essential oils that could help her. I have quite a few but I don't know which ones to use for this type of severe pain. :-( If you can help, I would greatly appreciate it. It's so hard to see her in pain. She is my daughter that can bear a lot of pain with minor complaint and this is tearing her (and me) up. Regina Taylor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 My advice would be to take her back to the hospital. She may have a cyst or something else they didn't check for. Cramps should not be that severe for that long, especially after so much medication. They can at lease give her something to relax and monitor her at the hospital. She also may have a blockage in her tubes, like a blot clot or something. Sindy Ps please be sure to check back in and let us know how shes doing. - Severe menstrual cramps My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe menstrual cramps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 I didnt' think to mention it, but when I was 16 I was having my period or near the end of it can't remember and had severe cramps, so had to go to the dr's office. My GM's old army dr took one look at me and said appendix~ 12 hours later I was in surgery. But they have to give me demoral (sp) all day before that so I could relax cause my cramps were so bad~ Sindy - Severe menstrual cramps My advice would be to take her back to the hospital. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 Cindy, I never had menstrual cramps but my oldest had server cramps. It was something serious and I want share what it was because your daughter is very young. My advice take her to a Female doctor who specialist in adnormalties in female problems. Keep us posted.. Janis --- sindy anderson <sssoap wrote: > I didnt' think to mention it, but when I was 16 I > was having my period or near the end of it can't > remember and had severe cramps, so had to go to the > dr's office. My GM's old army dr took one look at > me and said appendix~ 12 hours later I was in > surgery. But they have to give me demoral (sp) all > day before that so I could relax cause my cramps > were so bad~ > Sindy > - > Severe menstrual cramps > > > My advice would be to take her back to the > hospital. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 , taylor@a... wrote: > My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe menstrual cramps. She said > they just hit her about 4pm and she couldn't stop crying. I have had severe cramping all of my life with my period. It began when I was 10 years old. My period started and I had vomiting and cramps and my mother thought I had food poisoning because we were on vacation at the time. From then on, I would have cramping, diarrea and vomiting and severe bleeding every month. The Drs. kept telling me this was normal and I kept telling them they were full of ......well, you get the idea. The Drs solution to all this was to stop my periods chemically. I think they were just trying to shut me up! ;-) I am now 45 and have finally figured out to trust my instincts where the Drs. were concerned. I started exploring natural alternatives and here is what I have found. I gradually stopped all synthetic drugs and hormones. I started taking Dong Quai and Chaste Tree Berry. I take them every day to keep my hormones balanced. If I start to feel any cramping at all I take Cramp Bark in tincture form and all cramps are gone within 1/2 hour. By all means, you should have your dtr. checked with ultrasound to make sure that there are no cysts or abnormalities, but if the Dr.s start giving you the line that she is " normal " and that they want to put her on birth control or other synthetics, I would urge you to try the herbals first. Try to find a naturopath in your area that specializes in woman's issues. I wish you luck! I suffered with this for years and years and only just now as I am getting ready for menopause did I finally find something that works for me!!!! Hopefully your dtr will not have to suffer that long! Elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 If going to a Doctor go to a female specialist.Very important.I went to my family dr. for years until someone recomended I see a specialist.The differance was amazing.Ravenstone --- Elaine <horseaholic wrote: > , taylor@a... > wrote: > > My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe > menstrual cramps. She > said > > they just hit her about 4pm and she couldn't stop > crying. > > I have had severe cramping all of my life with my > period. It began > when I was 10 years old. My period started and I > had vomiting and > cramps and my mother thought I had food poisoning > because we were on > vacation at the time. From then on, I would have > cramping, diarrea > and vomiting and severe bleeding every month. The > Drs. kept telling > me this was normal and I kept telling them they were > full > of ......well, you get the idea. The Drs solution > to all this was > to stop my periods chemically. I think they were > just trying to > shut me up! ;-) I am now 45 and have finally figured > out to trust my > instincts where the Drs. were concerned. I started > exploring > natural alternatives and here is what I have found. > > I gradually stopped all synthetic drugs and > hormones. I started > taking Dong Quai and Chaste Tree Berry. I take them > every day to > keep my hormones balanced. If I start to feel any > cramping at all I > take Cramp Bark in tincture form and all cramps are > gone within 1/2 > hour. > > By all means, you should have your dtr. checked with > ultrasound to > make sure that there are no cysts or abnormalities, > but if the Dr.s > start giving you the line that she is " normal " and > that they want to > put her on birth control or other synthetics, I > would urge you to > try the herbals first. Try to find a naturopath in > your area that > specializes in woman's issues. > > I wish you luck! I suffered with this for years and > years and only > just now as I am getting ready for menopause did I > finally find > something that works for me!!!! Hopefully your dtr > will not have to > suffer that long! > > Elaine > > > > > Peace,Love,Good Health,Hope,Prosperity, Ravenstone Willowbend(Renae) List Mom of UTBD,Pagan-Belly-Dancers,StudentsofThia. co-moderator of scififanmoms __ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 So sorry about your daughter's sever pain. Once you deal with this acute issue, please look into the herb Vitex agnus-castus. Many women use this herb to regulate their menses and ease severe systems of PMS. But that's after this situation is deal with. Any questions on Vitex, email me. Ellen Zimmermann Good luck. - taylor My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe menstrual cramps. She said they just hit her about 4pm and she couldn't stop crying. They were so bad I took her to the hospital. The doctor gave her 2 percoset at 5:45pm. He said they would take effect within 30 minutes. He sent us home. 2 hours later they still hadn't taken effect. I called the hospital and the nurse on call looked at her chart and said I could give her 3 ibuprofen. She took those and threw them up within 5 minutes. She waited about 10 minutes and asked if she could take them again and I said " yes " . She did, at 8:00pm. They should have taken effect within 20 to 30 minutes and they haven't. She's pacing the floor and almost in tears from the pain and I don't know what to do. She's also tried sitting in a warm-water bath, that didn't help either. Does anyone know if there are any essential oils that could help her. I have quite a few but I don't know which ones to use for this type of severe pain. :-( If you can help, I would greatly appreciate it. It's so hard to see her in pain. She is my daughter that can bear a lot of pain with minor complaint and this is tearing her (and me) up. Regina Taylor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 I agree with a lot of the other messages, take her to a OB/GYN and have her checked. She might have endometriosis. The main symptom of endometriosis is painful cramps. Early treatment is vital if you want to have children later on. I have a sister and a daughter with this. By the time my sister was diagnosed with it the damage was so severe she couldn't have children. My oldest daughter has it and has been on medication and had surgeries to remove scar tissue since she was a junior in high school. Only a specialist can diagnose it. Good luck and I hope your daughter feels better and doesn't have endometriosis but knowing what is wrong is half of the battle. Jo Ann Nourse taylor wrote: My 15 yo daughter is suffering from severe menstrual cramps. She said they just hit her about 4pm and she couldn't stop crying. They were so bad I took her to the hospital. The doctor gave her 2 percoset at 5:45pm. He said they would take effect within 30 minutes. He sent us home. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 My daughters have severe menstrual cramps; I have had excellent success for them with Wild Yam Cream (10%), which you can find at a health food store. In that cream, I put about 15 drops of clary sage, and mixed well. The girls told me that it worked for them within 15 minutes. Hope it helps. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2005 Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 Hi Barb: Do you just apply this to their abdomen ? I have a granddaughter that could use something for hers too. Thank you, Jenn in Oregon http://www.bellamiaskin.com We love herbs !!!!! - " Barb Jenson " <ravensara Sunday, July 31, 2005 8:53 AM Re: Severe menstrual cramps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Maybe you should look at her diet first. Is she eating too much salt or caffeine? Both can make menstrual cramps unbearable. I cut back on salt and caffeine and no longer have cramping problems. My dr. wanted to send me in for all sorts of tests for fibroids and to see if I had endometriosis. I saw something on the VIEW and they said to stay away from caffeine and salt to reduce the cramping and bleeding. It worked for me. Veronica Davidson http://www.veronicaslavishlathers.com http://www.friendswithms.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Hi, My friend suffers from severe menstrual cramps and she has had amazing success by taking a motherwort tincture. As far as essential oils go, I use chamomile, ginger, cypress, and juniper. It's a terrible thing to experience - I hope that you find something that works well for your daughter. Jessica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 My mother has had sever cramps with severe bleeding all her life, has been to 48 doctors in 38 years (her reproductive life) and no one has been able to explain it to her. I had very similar monthlys until I had my daughter. Doctors told me to buck up and get over it. Some docs even specialists will ignore you. Had one ER doc say I was crazy and wanted to be put in for miscarrage at 13. I was a virgin. Can't always trust doctors but I do so very much hope you can get help for your daughter. I sent a private messag on what I used to do for my cramps. Maybe if you can find a female doctor it will help. We are only now seeing women doctors here for things other than child birth. Kathy Geini & Kathy A shop of love and warmth. Hand made gifts or personal luxuries, made by a mother and daughter team. http://www.geini-and-kathy.com ----------------------- http://geini-and-kathy.blogspot.com We now have a blog to announce new items and sales! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Try Reflexology. It works for labor pains! Sit across from her, and cup both her heels in your hands. Your middle fingers will almost naturally rest in the centre of the inner heel. This is the reflex to the uterus. Just hold with fairly firm pressure. If you don't have the right spot feel around a bit. For a reflex map see here: http://uk.dk.com/static/cs/uk/11/features/reflexology/extract.html Ien in the Kootenays **************************** " To treat life as less than a miracle is to give up on it. " ~Wendell Berry Rainforest Miracles: http://wildhealing.net **************************** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Hey folks, >Maybe you should look at her diet first. At school, I was interested to watch a few women decide to get off pain killers and get to nearly pain-free menstruation. The whole-foods, mostly vegetarian, diet was a big part of that. They also love Butch's Vitex oil ;-) Our book, Healing With Whole Foods, has a lot of info... here's a bit: Avoid: alcohol, tobacco, coffee, cold-temp foods, refined sugar, hydrogenated fats (shortening and most margarines), polyunsaturated cooking oils, over-consumption of fruit and/or raw food, commercial red meats and poultry (residues of steroids composed of female sex hormones can interfere with human menstruation) Emphasize: filtered water (to avoid fluoride & chlorine especially), asparagus, and sufficient nutrients via legumes, vegetables, whole grains. It says cramping and pain can be associated with excess arachidonic acid and PGE2, which are usually overabundant in those with a history of heavy meat-eating. Cutting back and adding chlorophyll rich foods like chlorella or wheat/barley grass, and/or flax seed or clod-pressed flax oil, as well as a GLA supplement such as evening primose oil, black currant oil, borage oil, etc can help. It also goes over the Chinese Mixture of Four Herbs: 3 parts dang gui, 3 parts prepared rehmannia, 3 parts peony root, and 1.5 parts ligusticum root... supposedly very common. There are some contraindications, though, so obviously you'd want to talk to a Chinese herbalist before taking anything. Lists two different types of cramping & pain, cold/deficiency dysmenorrhea and heat/excess type dysmenorrhea... with different indications for each. If you are seriously interested in a natural or herbal solution, I'd definitely pick up the book for the dietary guidelines and see someone trained in the TCM herbs for the rest. Sometimes even small steps in the right direction can have tremendous impact. Best of luck, Josh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 For me my cramps were/are aggravated by two Cesarean sections and a buildup of scar tissue.I tried diet changes but what helped the most was stretching. For a young girl I would make sure to have a DR. check her out FIRST before I changed diet etc.Just in case.Ravenstone ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ --- Joshua Alexander <listservs wrote: > Hey folks, > > >Maybe you should look at her diet first. > > At school, I was interested to watch a few women > decide to get off > pain killers and get to nearly pain-free > menstruation. The > whole-foods, mostly vegetarian, diet was a big part > of that. They > also love Butch's Vitex oil ;-) > > Our book, Healing With Whole Foods, has a lot of > info... here's a bit: > > Avoid: alcohol, tobacco, coffee, cold-temp foods, > refined sugar, > hydrogenated fats (shortening and most margarines), > polyunsaturated > cooking oils, over-consumption of fruit and/or raw > food, commercial > red meats and poultry (residues of steroids composed > of female sex > hormones can interfere with human menstruation) > > Emphasize: filtered water (to avoid fluoride & > chlorine especially), > asparagus, and sufficient nutrients via legumes, > vegetables, whole > grains. > > It says cramping and pain can be associated with > excess arachidonic > acid and PGE2, which are usually overabundant in > those with a history > of heavy meat-eating. Cutting back and adding > chlorophyll rich foods > like chlorella or wheat/barley grass, and/or flax > seed or > clod-pressed flax oil, as well as a GLA supplement > such as evening > primose oil, black currant oil, borage oil, etc can > help. > > It also goes over the Chinese Mixture of Four Herbs: > 3 parts dang > gui, 3 parts prepared rehmannia, 3 parts peony root, > and 1.5 parts > ligusticum root... supposedly very common. There are > some > contraindications, though, so obviously you'd want > to talk to a > Chinese herbalist before taking anything. > > Lists two different types of cramping & pain, > cold/deficiency > dysmenorrhea and heat/excess type dysmenorrhea... > with different > indications for each. > > If you are seriously interested in a natural or > herbal solution, I'd > definitely pick up the book for the dietary > guidelines and see > someone trained in the TCM herbs for the rest. > Sometimes even small > steps in the right direction can have tremendous > impact. > > Best of luck, > Josh > __ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Yes, about a teaspoon (more or less) of 10% yam cream with clary sage applied to the lower abdomen and rubbed in like lotion works well. Probably need to reapply every 4 hours or so. My daughters refused to put this cream with clary on before they went to school, no matter how bad their cramps were. (The girls are now 24 and 21.) They said they didn't like the smell at school. However, I noticed that they used it profusely while they were at home. The girls much preferred this cream to Midol, etc. It does work! Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 , " Veronica Davidson " <mommyv3@c...> wrote: > Maybe you should look at her diet first. Have been missing all the posts but I am at it again. Just wanted to have a little say on this subject. In my early years when I started my menstration, I had the most severe cramps I could have imagined. I was also very irregular, which throw panic attacks at my mother and grandmother. They were both very regular and normal. I unfortunately was anything but. But anyways back to the cramps. I would talk asprin or anything we had in the house at 4-6 at a time every 3 hours or so. It was wonderful when I finally fell asleep. Well life was hell at that time of month when ever it came, I mean I could miss for 4 months and then have it. Later on I discovered because of a misscarriage that my left ovary was not functioning at all and I had massive scare tissue in my left side. All this contributed to the cramps and the severity of them. But it took an operation to find all this out. So all I am saying is that sometimes no matter what we do we can not know for sure why something is so severe. I wish sometimes that we had a window into the body to see if all things are working or that there are no abnormalities. It would have saved me a lot of grieve if we knew this before I tried to have children. Hope you do take some of the advise and see if it can be lessened by some of the suggestions. I understand exactly how it feels. Always walk in the Creator's footsteps. Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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