Guest guest Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 Hi again folks. I know I don't post often but I have been watching this discussion with much interest due to its relevance to my situation. I don't think its extremely informative, more of my personal opinion. So please read it in the light it is intended. I am not trying to be argumentative or dismiss anyone's personal beliefs or feelings. (from Ien) > > Thom has some interesting ideas about what > > he calls " the Edison gene " . I have not heard of this so before I say anything I will research it more. It sounds interesting tho. Will check my local library to see if they have his books. The only thing I have noticed about many of the large number of books I have read om various childhood disorders (ADHD, Agression, ODD, Bi-Polar)is they really seem to be saying the same things over and over and not really providing alot of new and useful information in addition to their theory. I look forward to reading these. (from Andrea) > my disagreement with the psychiatric labels. > I think that people who get into such esoteric > terms, or 'deep thinking' regarding the psychiatric > labels that are being tossed around like candy > couldn't be more off the mark and out in left field. While I agree there is way too much labeling and some seriously quirky ideas, and a medical community that feels the need to label everything, some of it does have its value. I think we have to separate those trying to make a name for themselves v. those who could care less if they end up in a resesarch journal but would happily advance any malady that could be made better for the sufferer. It seems to me that the medical community cannot function without psychiatric labels which is one of those things that I think education causes (ie: I have learned this from my book and therefore I must label it as such even if it doesn't quite fit perfectly) and which is intensified by the insurance companies who must often foot the bill for treatment and demand a firm diagnosis (which is not always able to be done - I know this from personal experience with my son). I think this in itself is a leading cause of label-mania. Somehow I think there has to be a mid-point. I have a 9 yr old son who was extremely premature. For the first 2 yrs of his life everything that happened in his development was deemed to be caused/expected due to prematurity. He was initially diagnosed early on with Cerebral Palsy (incorrectly). Then I was told he was mentally retarded (he wasn't - in fact if he could stay on task long enough to complete IQ testing he would probably be upwards of 140ish). Then I was told he was Autistic (he has some of the main characteristics of Aspberger's but is not a true Autistic). When he was 2 they decided that he had severe ADHD (I won't argue that diagnosis at all). What I have learned about labels is that if you lay out the symptomology for the various childhood disorders: ADHD, Oppositional Defiance Disorder, Bi-Polar Disorder - all of which they have suggested about my child and that are commonly diagnosed, you will find that most of the symptoms are common to each disorder. So where do we go from here? I am not a huge advocate of medicating children, but I made the decision to try it. Not for my benefit, but so that my son who missing out on so many things could finally find a place in this world that he wants to be a part of desperately. We have not had favorable results from meds. He has been on Ritalin (reg and extended release), Adderall (reg and extended release), Tenex, Strattera, Zoloft, Zyprexa, Depakote, Seroquel, and a few more I can't think of at the minute. I have had him on a no preservative/no artificial coloring diet, tried many of the ones that came " highly recommended. " All to no avail with all of these. Yes, I have wondered what I am doing to my child and his future. But I also am looking at how can I improve his present which will directly affect his future as now is when his personality and emotional stability is being formed not later. I also realize that most drugs are used " off label " in children and have only been significantly tested in adults. How's that for scientific research. But.... > This group that talks about scientific research and > how important it > is in making decisions.... Good gravy people.... I > would love to have > anyone point me in the direction of actual > scientific research done > that PROVES this gobbedly gook as scientific fact! To get accurate and complete research, how many parents are willing to place their children in a blind-study to determine the viablility of a particular drug? We have to realize that is the only way. I surely won't allow my child to be a part of the group for purely selfish reasons (fear being the top of the list). > Next, the drug companies are what we call them. > Profit seekers who do not care one whit I agree, the movitation to the pharmaceutical industry is profit. However, I believe that many of the underlings working for these companies do care about the people they are looking to find relief for. > I do not see any need to 'figure out the thinking > behind the labels'. I do not think that there one > can figure out the logic in something that has no > logic. I, too, get disgusted with labeling for the sake of labeling. Somehow, I try to keep in mind, without some basis to work from, how can I expect any help for my child? He has been mislabeled, misdiagnosed, and continues to be an enigma to the medical professionals who are trying to help me help him. But what can be offered as an alternative? > I have an Aunt whose life is forever ruined... it > was not before she > started seeing a shrink and taking the first of many > harmful drugs. Not all drugs are harmful. In fact, I would say the vast majority are useful for a properly diagnosed condition and used properly. This does not mean there will not be problems. Problems strike the minority rather the majority, so how can we know for certain who will be stricken? Perhaps this is because we are all individuals and no drug manufacturer can include every single factor. No one can know for certain what physical factors of each unique individual's physical make-up will or will not affect the outcome of medication use. Basically, its much like a crap-shoot. I think the best measure is to seek a like-minded physician, find out their philosophy about conditions and treatments. That is what I do now. When I first seek out a new doctor, I talk to him/her and let them know I do not want drugs to be a first measure of relief, rather testing (if available) and alternative treatments. Remember, we have to make the ultimate decision about our health care. If we can't then we need a trusted person to help us in that decision. But the bottom line is, there are no guarantees in life, including this. I expect an advanced knowledge from our physicians, but I can not expect perfection. > I have 2 brothers on them. One is lost to everyone > now... I feel your anguish and pain. I know that nothing I say or do will help. I have watched drugs take my happy loving child into zombie like states, made him full of agression, and stop eating. But I don't know any other way of helping him become a part of this world because this is what it is. He will have to adapt to the majority as the majority will not be adapting to him. It has caused him intense emotional distress. My heart breaks for him. So I continue to try. If something doesn't work, I stop it. it should seen fairly quickly (before serious harm is done) if something shows promise or should be abandoned. I don't know what is inside of my son that makes him different than those who have successfully used these medications, but there is something. I still have hope that we will find something one day that will allow him to feel more " normal " in this world. Until then all I can do is keep trying. I try to keep my mind focused on the fact there is so much we don't know about the human body and the brain. I can't blame anyone for trying, unless they are ruthlessly callous, which I have only met in one doctor. I do sometimes hope/expect for them to provide me with a miracle solution (because they are doctors and specially trained I figure they SHOULD be able to fix anything), and get upset and even angry when it isn't forthcoming. But when I finally get it straight in my mind, that these are simpy humans doing the best they can with what they have to work with (just like me) I can only wait and hope. Andrea, I know you are hurt and angry, I know that feeling well. I hope for a happy ending for your brother. He'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Shortly I plan to start my own little research project (using my child) and essential oils. I will be using some of the ideas that psychiatrists and physicians use now as a basis. If I find anything that may be of some interest and worthy of discussion I will post it and see what others think. If anyone has done any experimentation with the use of oils and ADHD, agression, and/or depression with your kids, and wouldn't mind sharing what you have learned I would appreciate any input. I'm not sure, but I think that would have to be sent to me offlist (?). If so, txstormlvr or txstormlvr is how to reach me. Laura Mail - 250MB free storage. Do more. Manage less. http://info.mail./mail_250 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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