Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Hello. Well I'm not quite sure where to start. I have had alot of responses to this blog and I thank you for your time and consideration. Here is a more detailed blog of his condition. There has been so much paper trail and no medical attention or treatment. This happened about 3 years ago, my father had a mole on his neck and scratched it. Later on when he came in from work that night, after he had a shower, it began to throb. He went to the mirror and saw that it was hanging so he clipped it off. He had some crusty pallets in his ear that was uncomfortable to touch. Well, as time has gone by it has developed into a condition that has eaten a hole as big as a quarter all the way through his ear and where once was a mole is now a large mass (larger than my hand) of tissue where once was skin. This condition has spiraled. It drains, bleeds, or seeps creamy fluid. This never dries because it is on the cavity of neck so where he turns his head from side to side or catches on his shirt it cracks or begans to seep drainage or blood. He has lost at least 65-80 lbs. His appetite has decreased. He is always in pain. He has unknown chest pains, headaches, and he is always tired. He has been 3 to 4 times hospitalized for what we thought might have been heart attacks. He now has some colored spots coming up on his back, a small crusty spot on his nose, and his other ear has become infested with these crusty pallets. He was given a prescription by the hospital back when this first happened to treat this as a open wound (cephelaxin). My father was not able to take these pills because it made him very sick and he started to vomit. My father has lately started to show signs of other problems that may or may not be related to this condition. However, I am very scared that before he will get medical attention he will die. I have contacted all the resources available in his county and mine and still has not been eligible for assistance to be seen to be diagnosed or start some type of treatment to get him back to a normal state. There is so much more that involves paper work processes, denial after denial, and just no customer relations are available to help me. I have on several occassions asked for help through the social security representative and he has no answers to any questions, very impatient, rude, tells me all that he can do is have me go online and request more applications or reconsiderations or appeals and he can forward this to Austin. The hospital turned him away when we had a referral to come back as a outpatient for his neck to be examined, some tests run and cleaned by surgeon. The doctor is no longer there and the hospital has been recently seen on the local news of considerations of closing down due to bankruptcy. I am so afraid that I am going to lose my father before he is heard or seen to be determined eligibility for benefits. This condition is starting to ear my fathers ear off away from his face. I know that this is very sporatic so please feel free to ask me any questions. You are certainly welcome to contact me by email. I do have pics to show the changes or progress of what this condition has done from one visit to the next. If you would like to see them I will be happy to attach them as an email for you. Thank you for taking this time out to listen to my cry. Desperate, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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