Guest guest Posted April 23, 2006 Report Share Posted April 23, 2006 I and Dan made a very big decision just yesterday..we're selling our house and we're moving into my mother's apartment ...it's quite small, but enough for what space we need...we have a buyer for our house and we'll have until the end of July to be out...We aren't sure how long we'll wanna stay there, but it will at least get us out of the city and away from the hustle & bustle...and asshole neighbors who like to constantly steal, sell drugs, and just being plain annoying... I have written out the pros & cons of living with Mother, again...even did the risk sheet from the old support group...ten times...chuckles...NOTHING can be as stressful as this area has become for me...constant chaos...at least with my mother I know what to expect and I know a lot more coping skills than when I lived with her before...I also have the Army survival guide nearby... Echo is moving in with her b/f, so I'll have the baby full time, alone...Being Dan works from 1pm til around 3am...and with my heart as it is right now it'll be nice having my mother close by in case I need any help...Plus, she's getting up in years and she could use a lil' help now & again as well... I have been up most of the night, as I'm anxious about it all...Making the final decisiom was hard but now that it's been made I'm kind of excited...the apartment is about 2 miles out in the country...a creek bed right out behind the house...a HUGE yard...the dog will even love it there...woods all around...my mother has a beautiful quarter acre flower bed spread with ponds, chairs, stone walk ways...I'm really looking forward to connecting with nature again...I will never move to any city ever again... Now it's going to be weeding out time & getting rid of a lot of our belongings...yard sale time...we're giving a lot of our stuff to Echo, as she has basically nil...that'll take a lot of the stress of getting rid of things away... Knock on wood, but my heart has been behaving pretty well the last four days...with Echo no longer living with us I will no longer have kids fightinmg all the while as well...Ev now has a steady g/f ,so he's not around a whole lot...guess I'm heading into another phase of my life, but with a baby included...lol... Anyways, guess I better go try and get some sleep...lol... Hugz, Love & Blessings, Robyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2006 Report Share Posted April 24, 2006 - Hawthorne has always helped me tame the Mitral Valve Prolapse. -- In herbal remedies , " Robin Bellows " <strawberryvines wrote: > > I and Dan made a very big decision just yesterday...we're selling our house and we're moving into my mother's apartment ...it's quite small, but enough for what space we need...we have a buyer for our house and we'll have until the end of July to be out...We aren't sure how long we'll wanna stay there, but it will at least get us out of the city and away from the hustle & bustle...and asshole neighbors who like to constantly steal, sell drugs, and just being plain annoying... > > I have written out the pros & cons of living with Mother, again...even did the risk sheet from the old support group...ten times...chuckles...NOTHING can be as stressful as this area has become for me...constant chaos...at least with my mother I know what to expect and I know a lot more coping skills than when I lived with her before...I also have the Army survival guide nearby... > > Echo is moving in with her b/f, so I'll have the baby full time, alone...Being Dan works from 1pm til around 3am...and with my heart as it is right now it'll be nice having my mother close by in case I need any help...Plus, she's getting up in years and she could use a lil' help now & again as well... > > I have been up most of the night, as I'm anxious about it all...Making the final decisiom was hard but now that it's been made I'm kind of excited...the apartment is about 2 miles out in the country..a creek bed right out behind the house...a HUGE yard...the dog will even love it there...woods all around...my mother has a beautiful quarter acre flower bed spread with ponds, chairs, stone walk ways...I'm really looking forward to connecting with nature again...I will never move to any city ever again... > > Now it's going to be weeding out time & getting rid of a lot of our belongings...yard sale time...we're giving a lot of our stuff to Echo, as she has basically nil...that'll take a lot of the stress of getting rid of things away... > > Knock on wood, but my heart has been behaving pretty well the last four days...with Echo no longer living with us I will no longer have kids fightinmg all the while as well...Ev now has a steady g/f ,so he's not around a whole lot...guess I'm heading into another phase of my life, but with a baby included...lol... > > Anyways, guess I better go try and get some sleep...lol... > > Hugz, Love & Blessings, Robyn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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