off the topic but need a shoulder please.

[Guest guest]

I know this dose not have anything to do with topic and that I dont particiapate

much in the group but something has happened and I really need a shoulder of

some friends if anyone will be there for me right now.I went on vaction to see

my mom for 3 weeks and I just got back and my cats are missing. I mad

arrangments with my dad and step mom to take care of them while I was gone but

now they are no were to be seen. They say they saw them but if thats true then

were are they. I been crying I can't eat, or sleep. I feel exzulsted and

depressed. My best friend goldee a cat I know of 3 years is now gone and my life

feels like its over. i have gone up and down the street asking people have they

seen my cats. I have called for them and HOPPED AND PRAYED. I WANT MY FRIENDS

TO COME HOME. I MISS THEM SO BADLY! I feel so bad. I know its not my fault but

it feels that way. I feel like they felt I did not love them and they left. I

left my goldee before and she was still here a while back. But the kitten thats

another story. I was so scared it might happen. Did my best to protect them but

I failed and now I have to tell my 2 kids the pets they love are gone and they

will ate me. They will hate me because I wanted to go away which I never get to

do and have fun but at what coast. I should have staye home! Now look what I

did. They come home in a week and I have to tell them I was to selfish and left

there cats and they left. I am crying and crying. I loved my cats.SO so much it

hurts. I tryed to have them look after. My friends say I did all i could but why

do I feel so dame gulity then? They were not just cats they were apart of me of

this family and i give any thing to have them home agian. I dont know what I am

going to do. I feel so helpless and empty with out them in my life. I just want

to die. Dad said he get me another cat but another cat is not my closet

companion is not my buddy who sleep at my bed and was there for me through the

worest of my times. Look what I done. I think I am a terrible person. Even if

others say I am not I am and what are my kids gona think of me. I am a shame. I

don't know what to do or how to feel. Thaks for listening to me. I really need a

firend right now I am so lost. Connie

 

Ps: I just found out the kitten died by a tom cat and my dad did not want to

tell me because it was my brithday when it happened. I hurt but its closer. I

still want my goldee back . come home girl.

[Guest guest]

I'm new here but I just want to say I'm sorry and I know how you feel. Our pets

are a part of the family. Have you tried looking at any of the shelters? One of

mine went missing for 3 weeks and suddenly just showed up at my door one day. He

looked like he hadn't eaten for a while and had a couple of battle scars but he

was home. I'll say a prayer that he returns.--- In

, " connie harris " <cnn_harris

wrote:

>

> I know this dose not have anything to do with topic and that I dont

particiapate much in the group but something has happened and I really need a

shoulder of some friends if anyone will be there for me right now.I went on

vaction to see my mom for 3 weeks and I just got back and my cats are missing. I

mad arrangments with my dad and step mom to take care of them while I was gone

but now they are no were to be seen. They say they saw them but if thats true

then were are they. I been crying I can't eat, or sleep. I feel exzulsted and

depressed. My best friend goldee a cat I know of 3 years is now gone and my life

feels like its over. i have gone up and down the street asking people have they

seen my cats. I have called for them and HOPPED AND PRAYED. I WANT MY FRIENDS

TO COME HOME. I MISS THEM SO BADLY! I feel so bad. I know its not my fault but

it feels that way. I feel like they felt I did not love them and they left. I

left my goldee before and she was still here a while back. But the kitten thats

another story. I was so scared it might happen. Did my best to protect them but

I failed and now I have to tell my 2 kids the pets they love are gone and they

will ate me. They will hate me because I wanted to go away which I never get to

do and have fun but at what coast. I should have staye home! Now look what I

did. They come home in a week and I have to tell them I was to selfish and left

there cats and they left. I am crying and crying. I loved my cats.SO so much it

hurts. I tryed to have them look after. My friends say I did all i could but why

do I feel so dame gulity then? They were not just cats they were apart of me of

this family and i give any thing to have them home agian. I dont know what I am

going to do. I feel so helpless and empty with out them in my life. I just want

to die. Dad said he get me another cat but another cat is not my closet

companion is not my buddy who sleep at my bed and was there for me through the

worest of my times. Look what I done. I think I am a terrible person. Even if

others say I am not I am and what are my kids gona think of me. I am a shame. I

don't know what to do or how to feel. Thaks for listening to me. I really need a

firend right now I am so lost. Connie

>

> Ps: I just found out the kitten died by a tom cat and my dad did not want to

tell me because it was my brithday when it happened. I hurt but its closer. I

still want my goldee back . come home girl.

>

[Guest guest]

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I had to go out of town once and my cat was missing when I came

home. Two weeks after I was back my cat finally came home. DOn't

give uup hope. You kids won't hate you , you did what you had to do.

I know you love your animals and they are a memmber fo your family,

but they aren't humans and unfortuntely sometime we loose them. I am

not mean I cry when I loose my animals, but I try and keep it in

perspective. Sounds like you might have some other issues also and

the cats just seem to be making everything surface. Good luk and

hopefully they will come home. You know they might of gone to look

for you.

 

Diann

 

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[Guest guest]

Connie,

Do you have an animal shelter in your community? Once when we were away, our

outside cat was picked up by the shelter. We went there to look in the cat room

to see if we could find him, but he wasn't there. A few days later we learned

that when animals are taken to the shelter that they do not put them with the

other animals right away. They put them in a quarantine room. We went back

again and this time asked to see the cats in that room and there he was...weak

from spending a couple of weeks in a cage, but otherwise fine. It was just a

thought that came to me. I hope you find your sweet cats.

 

Earlene

 

, " connie harris "

<cnn_harris wrote:

>

> I know this dose not have anything to do with topic and that I dont

particiapate much in the group but something has happened and I really need a

shoulder of some friends if anyone will be there for me right now.I went on

vaction to see my mom for 3 weeks and I just got back and my cats are missing. I

mad arrangments with my dad and step mom to take care of them while I was gone

but now they are no were to be seen. They say they saw them but if thats true

then were are they. I been crying I can't eat, or sleep. I feel exzulsted and

depressed. My best friend goldee a cat I know of 3 years is now gone and my life

feels like its over. i have gone up and down the street asking people have they

seen my cats. I have called for them and HOPPED AND PRAYED. I WANT MY FRIENDS

TO COME HOME. I MISS THEM SO BADLY! I feel so bad. I know its not my fault but

it feels that way. I feel like they felt I did not love them and they left. I

left my goldee before and she was still here a while back. But the kitten thats

another story. I was so scared it might happen. Did my best to protect them but

I failed and now I have to tell my 2 kids the pets they love are gone and they

will ate me. They will hate me because I wanted to go away which I never get to

do and have fun but at what coast. I should have staye home! Now look what I

did. They come home in a week and I have to tell them I was to selfish and left

there cats and they left. I am crying and crying. I loved my cats.SO so much it

hurts. I tryed to have them look after. My friends say I did all i could but why

do I feel so dame gulity then? They were not just cats they were apart of me of

this family and i give any thing to have them home agian. I dont know what I am

going to do. I feel so helpless and empty with out them in my life. I just want

to die. Dad said he get me another cat but another cat is not my closet

companion is not my buddy who sleep at my bed and was there for me through the

worest of my times. Look what I done. I think I am a terrible person. Even if

others say I am not I am and what are my kids gona think of me. I am a shame. I

don't know what to do or how to feel. Thaks for listening to me. I really need a

firend right now I am so lost. Connie

>

> Ps: I just found out the kitten died by a tom cat and my dad did not want to

tell me because it was my brithday when it happened. I hurt but its closer. I

still want my goldee back . come home girl.

>