Guest guest Posted January 14, 2004 Report Share Posted January 14, 2004 Dear Butch...and yes...I feel you are a dear :-) thank you so much for your 'spirit' ... I feel it in every one of your messages...you're ... real...even thru the b/w of the emails knew there was a reason why I connected with you...must be barn lovers just somehow connect on a spiritual level LOL!! I love to hang out in my barn and curry my favorite equine....Lita ... she .... hears me... anyway.... I KNEW deep inside that MLM was NOT the way to go...I KNEW It...no matter how good the oils were, no matter how good it sounded...MLM was NOT the way I wanted t go....BUT....my mom is SO persuasive...she is one of those people that are REALLY high...or REALLY low.... (manic/depressive?) and I do like natural stuff - raise my own chickens for butchering/laying....love nature...love wildflowers..ect ect... and thought what the hey...so I went against my better judgement and bought into it....had my first party - went great...people bought...commission looked good (need another income besides my webdesign/hosting) and people are still buying/wanting parties .... and now I'm in a quandry because my conscience says NO and my wallet says YES........but.... I know me...conscience will win out.. I'm a person that needs to know the facts...needs to put the pieces together and know the beginning from the end (actually, that's the same thing that led me OUT of religion and INTO relationship with YHVH) so I am used to upsetting the applecart and bucking tradition and culture....I am truly the so-called skeptic and need things proven - however...one thing that really bothers me with the YLO .... when I read the bio.......my first reaction was ...yeah....a person CAN BE forgiven...but man oh man...... if a person has THIS type of history.....what ELSE is he capable of ???? and THOSE are the types of people that I am wary of...and tend to look at with skeptical eyes.......and like you say ... if they can do THIS?? what else are they capable of ??? I have been thru the gamit - not speaking oils - but maybe you could call it oils -snake oils of the ultimate kind - religion...I've been involved in bringing speakers in from Israel to US to speak at churches and synagogues - from various TOP notch ministries in US ....unbelievable stories I could tell you...all corrupt...from the inside out... just to take advantage of people AND THEIR MONEY.... so yes...I totally understand CHARISMATIC ... and at the time... I just totally turned a deaf ear and blind eye because I just couldn't believe people were capable of lying so boldly...but I know differently now...some people are just born liars... anyway....I better quit now... 2 glasses of good wine..and I'm rambling.......but I do so appreciate the education! Pam - Butch Owen Wednesday, January 14, 2004 6:54 AM YL and MLMs ** Was: Distillation Methods ** Therapeutic Values III Hey Pam, > Well, Butch ... I must say - I thoroughly enjoy your posts! every part > of them - Thankee ma'am. > and yep....being an avid horse luver with 4 of my own....you could def > sell me perfume from manure!!! LOL...I lOVE the smell of my barn! That's two of us .. and why I easily come up with that analogy .. I miss the smells of fresh turned earth, mown hay, tobacco barns, cattle/horse barns and the manure we spread on the fields as well as shoveled out of the barns. So such an odor would bring back pleasant memories to me. > seriously.........I'm digesting all that you and others have said and > am still looking at various sites concerning YLO, its practices and > various other companies/individuals that sell EO's...it's a big world > out there :-) It is a big world .. and there are far more folks selling good oils than there are selling bad oils .. so pricing and service and size and lots of other things will have a play in it. I don't really care who you buy from .. with one exception .. I would hate to see you get involved with that YL bunch. But ask yourself this .. how many times does a person have to get caught in out and out lies .. to be considered as a liar? And if a person in business is lying about one thing .. why not lie about other things? Gary and Mary Young are con-artists .. they can get on a stage and cry and win hearts and minds .. they can make their followers feel guilty if they question anything they say. This is one of the characteristics of a charlatan .. of a con-artist .. of a charismatic. But its not possible to be a successful con-artist if one does not have charisma. Many people have caught Young lying. He used to claim to be a Dr. and that is now dropped. He claimed all kinds of humma-humma in one of his biographies a few years back .. most of it stuff that went down in his dealings with famous folks here in Turkey. I knew those folks .. and I knew Gary Young. I did an investigation on ALL of his claims and got verbal and written statements from those he alleged to have done this and that with .. it was all BS .. total BS. I published my findings on a number of lists .. and the biography was soon after changed. I am not afraid to make any of the comments I have made in this post. Long ago .. back when they had me and 9 other folks on their TOP TEN hit list .. I defied them .. dared them .. and still dare them .. to sue me. Understand that you are a novice at this .. but so many folks who have been around just shuddered when you came on at first with a YL lean .. its because we are NOT novices .. and we've all seen, for years and years and years .. thousands and thousands of posts from folks who have been scammed and hurt and embarrassed .. and we know the history of the organization and the con-artist guru Gary Young and his whole damn yo ying staff. We haven't touched beyond the tip of the iceberg on this list. I think of the followers of Reverend Jim Jones and David Koresh when I think of the ramblings of some of the YL groupies. YL preys on those who lack knowledge .. no way can they sell their crap to folks who know oils and AT .. they take those who are tabula rasa and brain-wash them to think that only YL has quality and only YL has therapeutic properties. This is a part of the CULT mentality of YL .. and its all for greed. Those who spend the money to purchase the kits and crap rarely get back their initial investment .. the cost to become a distributor is a good part of the YL overall profit. Remember .. it is a CULT .. using RELIGION to push crap!!!!! > since I originally had red flags concerning this company (YL) and > should have listened to it... YES .. and you should understand that NOBODY on this list is trying to win your heart and mind so we can sell you oils. I treat everybody who buys from me equal .. be it a $29.95 or $5,995.00 order .. and I'm of the opinion that you are more toward the former figure than the latter so do believe me when I say we are not trying to win your business .. I think I can say this for the other sellers here too .. I know them pretty well. > now I must make a quick decision (the answer which I already know) one > of the ladies that came to my first YL party wants to have another > party - the biblical oils...I can not in good faith have this party > under the YLO banner - I'll have to figure out what to do now as I > don't want to discourage them from the oils...just the distributor - Well .. you are getting into (slowly) what some others on this and many other lists have been into .. and escaped from. This whole MLM deal is the quickest way in the world to lose friends and influence people in a most negative manner. I doubt that anyone here can say that YL oils are good or bad .. there is no proof coming from YL in the way of testing .. though in year's past there were some independent tests showing some oils were not what they were represented as being .. it might have changed. But pricing alone is something to consider .. when there is an up and down line then there is a sharing of profit. This means you either make less profit .. which I'm not willing to believe greedy Young would accept .. or you reduce the quality of the oils .. in one manner or another .. and there are many ways to do this. Even you can offer pure but mediocre oils. > but don't feel like I know enough about any of it to make informed > decisions that will influence them at this point....what a headache I > have.....what oil was good for that? LOL Sniff a bitta Peppermint .. and/or Rosemary, Cineole .. ;-p But what you are experiencing now is just the beginning. Its a bit like being introduced to a blind date by a family member or friend and you knowing you aren't comfortable with this person but fearing a rejection might harm the relationship with the family or friend. Sometimes we gotta just bite the bullet and do whatever the hell makes us feel right. I recommend you read this .. it might help a bit .. and this is not the only site around that recommends against participating in MLM activity http://www.vandruff.com/mlm.html > thank you all so very much for putting some light on the subject....I > think I'm going to learn a LOT from this list - Welcome you are from my corner. And you will learn a lot from this list .. its the best one around. For many reasons .. its the best. > blessings > Pam > E Web Express - Web Design & Hosting > http://www.ewebexpress.com > Daystar Ranch > http://www.daystarranch.com And to you .. and keep smiling. :-) Butch http://www.AV-AT.com Step By Step Instructions On Making Rose Petal Preserves: http://www.av-at.com/stuff/rosejam.html To adjust your group settings (i.e. go no mail) see the following link: /join Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2004 Report Share Posted January 14, 2004 Hey Pam, > Well, Butch ... I must say - I thoroughly enjoy your posts! every part > of them - Thankee ma'am. > and yep....being an avid horse luver with 4 of my own....you could def > sell me perfume from manure!!! LOL...I lOVE the smell of my barn! That's two of us .. and why I easily come up with that analogy .. I miss the smells of fresh turned earth, mown hay, tobacco barns, cattle/horse barns and the manure we spread on the fields as well as shoveled out of the barns. So such an odor would bring back pleasant memories to me. > seriously.........I'm digesting all that you and others have said and > am still looking at various sites concerning YLO, its practices and > various other companies/individuals that sell EO's...it's a big world > out there :-) It is a big world .. and there are far more folks selling good oils than there are selling bad oils .. so pricing and service and size and lots of other things will have a play in it. I don't really care who you buy from .. with one exception .. I would hate to see you get involved with that YL bunch. But ask yourself this .. how many times does a person have to get caught in out and out lies .. to be considered as a liar? And if a person in business is lying about one thing .. why not lie about other things? Gary and Mary Young are con-artists .. they can get on a stage and cry and win hearts and minds .. they can make their followers feel guilty if they question anything they say. This is one of the characteristics of a charlatan .. of a con-artist .. of a charismatic. But its not possible to be a successful con-artist if one does not have charisma. Many people have caught Young lying. He used to claim to be a Dr. and that is now dropped. He claimed all kinds of humma-humma in one of his biographies a few years back .. most of it stuff that went down in his dealings with famous folks here in Turkey. I knew those folks .. and I knew Gary Young. I did an investigation on ALL of his claims and got verbal and written statements from those he alleged to have done this and that with .. it was all BS .. total BS. I published my findings on a number of lists .. and the biography was soon after changed. I am not afraid to make any of the comments I have made in this post. Long ago .. back when they had me and 9 other folks on their TOP TEN hit list .. I defied them .. dared them .. and still dare them .. to sue me. Understand that you are a novice at this .. but so many folks who have been around just shuddered when you came on at first with a YL lean .. its because we are NOT novices .. and we've all seen, for years and years and years .. thousands and thousands of posts from folks who have been scammed and hurt and embarrassed .. and we know the history of the organization and the con-artist guru Gary Young and his whole damn yo ying staff. We haven't touched beyond the tip of the iceberg on this list. I think of the followers of Reverend Jim Jones and David Koresh when I think of the ramblings of some of the YL groupies. YL preys on those who lack knowledge .. no way can they sell their crap to folks who know oils and AT .. they take those who are tabula rasa and brain-wash them to think that only YL has quality and only YL has therapeutic properties. This is a part of the CULT mentality of YL .. and its all for greed. Those who spend the money to purchase the kits and crap rarely get back their initial investment .. the cost to become a distributor is a good part of the YL overall profit. Remember .. it is a CULT .. using RELIGION to push crap!!!!! > since I originally had red flags concerning this company (YL) and > should have listened to it... YES .. and you should understand that NOBODY on this list is trying to win your heart and mind so we can sell you oils. I treat everybody who buys from me equal .. be it a $29.95 or $5,995.00 order .. and I'm of the opinion that you are more toward the former figure than the latter so do believe me when I say we are not trying to win your business .. I think I can say this for the other sellers here too .. I know them pretty well. > now I must make a quick decision (the answer which I already know) one > of the ladies that came to my first YL party wants to have another > party - the biblical oils...I can not in good faith have this party > under the YLO banner - I'll have to figure out what to do now as I > don't want to discourage them from the oils...just the distributor - Well .. you are getting into (slowly) what some others on this and many other lists have been into .. and escaped from. This whole MLM deal is the quickest way in the world to lose friends and influence people in a most negative manner. I doubt that anyone here can say that YL oils are good or bad .. there is no proof coming from YL in the way of testing .. though in year's past there were some independent tests showing some oils were not what they were represented as being .. it might have changed. But pricing alone is something to consider .. when there is an up and down line then there is a sharing of profit. This means you either make less profit .. which I'm not willing to believe greedy Young would accept .. or you reduce the quality of the oils .. in one manner or another .. and there are many ways to do this. Even you can offer pure but mediocre oils. > but don't feel like I know enough about any of it to make informed > decisions that will influence them at this point....what a headache I > have.....what oil was good for that? LOL Sniff a bitta Peppermint .. and/or Rosemary, Cineole .. ;-p But what you are experiencing now is just the beginning. Its a bit like being introduced to a blind date by a family member or friend and you knowing you aren't comfortable with this person but fearing a rejection might harm the relationship with the family or friend. Sometimes we gotta just bite the bullet and do whatever the hell makes us feel right. I recommend you read this .. it might help a bit .. and this is not the only site around that recommends against participating in MLM activity http://www.vandruff.com/mlm.html > thank you all so very much for putting some light on the subject....I > think I'm going to learn a LOT from this list - Welcome you are from my corner. And you will learn a lot from this list .. its the best one around. For many reasons .. its the best. > blessings > Pam > E Web Express - Web Design & Hosting > http://www.ewebexpress.com > Daystar Ranch > http://www.daystarranch.com And to you .. and keep smiling. :-) Butch http://www.AV-AT.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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