12 Stress Reducers for You

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If you are familiar with the concept of "Inside Out Thinking," then you already know that I don't conceptualize stress as something that exists outside of you. It is actually something you create inside. Stress is a behavior you create to help you get something you want. The only way to reduce stress is to empower yourself to take control of what you can control—namely your actions and your thoughts. You may not believe you can control what you think but with patience, persistence and practice it is not only possible but critical to maintaining a positive state of mental health.Because the holidays are often a stressful time of the year for many, I wanted to give you a dozen ideas for things you can do or think differently to help reduce your stress level.1. Rational Thinking — often irrational thoughts contribute to your stress levels. What are irrational thoughts? Things like "everyone must like me for me to be worthwhile." Or, "I have to complete everything on my 'To Do' list everyday in order to be a success." Or, "I can't let anyone in my house unless it is spotless." Irrational thoughts are not true—that's why they are called irrational. However, you can actually convince yourself these beliefs are true, and when you believe them your stress level can soar. For example, if I actually think the only way for me to be worthwhile is if every person I meet likes me, can you imagine the stress I will create for myself trying to get everyone to like me? Check your thinking and make sure your thoughts are rational. You may need to ask someone you trust to help you with this because if you actually believe the irrational thoughts, then you will have a difficult time recognizing they are irrational.

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