Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Darren it just so happens that you may have to. You can put it two ways. 1. Leave me alone and mind your own business, my life is my own. 2. If you continue upon this course I will not speak to you until you discontinue discouraging me in finding my own solutions to my problems. Or something to that effect. I tried to tell my family that a cousin of mine was having sex in trade for drugs. My Grandmother nearly took my head off and told me to mind my own business. Wow, I had thought that it was my business. Anyway I decided that that is not what I want out of my family and do not communicate a much to that side. On the other side of my family when I brought this up they went through whatever " adult " channels they use and got the thing checked into. So that was the side of my family I talk with a lot. I guess you need to draw the line and watch who crosses over it without a care and those are the ones you stop talking to. You are doing something good for yourself, they should support you. Ask for that support. If they are unwilling to give it to you whether out of ignorance or malice then you need to simply choose. Is this good or bad for you to have in your life while attempting to heal your body? Every single MASTER herbalist will tell you that there is a mental part in healing that must be considered. If you have disagreements and upsets in your life the healing will go slowly if at all. So take them out or separate them from you and go from there. Maybe even disconnect from all of them and let them back in one by one really looking at who wants to truly help you. Lots to say but your decision and your life. I hope this helps a little. Zeb herbal remedies [herbal remedies ] On Behalf Of Darren Thursday, May 19, 2005 1:28 AM herbal remedies Herbal Remedies - Family protest Hey all, Well it was bound to happen, my family found out i was looking into Herbal/natural remedies. they have turned on me. saying that i am wasting my time etc. i tried to explin to them that medical science has failed us. that the " Dr.'s " just want to treat symptoms not the problem. I cited the death of my mom at the hands of " Dr.'s " she was mis-diagnosed and died of lung cancer. has this happened to anyone else? how should i handle this problem? i dont wish to just tell them to mind thier own business but........ Darren Federal Law requires that we warn you of the following: 1. Natural methods can sometimes backfire. 2. If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using any natural remedy. 3. The Constitution guarantees you the right to be your own physician and to prescribe for your own health. We are not medical doctors although MDs are welcome to post here as long as they behave themselves. Any opinions put forth by the list members are exactly that, and any person following the advice of anyone posting here does so at their own risk. It is up to you to educate yourself. By accepting advice or products from list members, you are agreeing to be fully responsible for your own health, and hold the List Owner and members free of any liability. Dr. Ian Shillington Doctor of Naturopathy Dr.IanShillington Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2005 Report Share Posted May 19, 2005 Hey all, Well it was bound to happen, my family found out i was looking into Herbal/natural remedies. they have turned on me. saying that i am wasting my time etc. i tried to explin to them that medical science has failed us. that the " Dr.'s " just want to treat symptoms not the problem. I cited the death of my mom at the hands of " Dr.'s " she was mis-diagnosed and died of lung cancer. has this happened to anyone else? how should i handle this problem? i dont wish to just tell them to mind thier own business but........ Darren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2005 Report Share Posted May 19, 2005 Well Darren, if they really do not want to know, the best is to allow them to have their opinion, and insist they allow you to have yours, gently and with love LOL I have a similar situation with my family, and I'm sure others on this list have also. love Lisa - Darren herbal remedies Thursday, May 19, 2005 6:27 AM Herbal Remedies - Family protest Hey all, Well it was bound to happen, my family found out i was looking into Herbal/natural remedies.they have turned on me. saying that i am wasting my time etc.i tried to explin to them that medical science has failed us. that the "Dr.'s" just want to treat symptoms not the problem. I cited the death of my mom at the hands of "Dr.'s" she was mis-diagnosed and died of lung cancer. has this happened to anyone else?how should i handle this problem? i dont wish to just tell them to mind thier own business but........Darren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2005 Report Share Posted May 19, 2005 Dear Darren We all went through this stage, but if you are sure what are you doing just don't use too much energy to defend yourself. I did that at first and there is no use to that. Now after almost three years they are coming one by one to ask for help. Go your own way and be strong. Regards JasminaDarren <exodia71 wrote: Hey all, Well it was bound to happen, my family found out i was looking into Herbal/natural remedies.they have turned on me. saying that i am wasting my time etc.i tried to explin to them that medical science has failed us. that the "Dr.'s" just want to treat symptoms not the problem. I cited the death of my mom at the hands of "Dr.'s" she was mis-diagnosed and died of lung cancer. has this happened to anyone else?how should i handle this problem? i dont wish to just tell them to mind thier own business but........DarrenFederal Law requires that we warn you of the following: 1. Natural methods can sometimes backfire. 2. If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using any natural remedy. 3. The Constitution guarantees you the right to be your own physician and toprescribe for your own health. We are not medical doctors although MDs are welcome to post here as long as they behave themselves. Any opinions put forth by the list members are exactly that, and any person following the advice of anyone posting here does so at their own risk. It is up to you to educate yourself. By accepting advice or products from list members, you are agreeing to be fully responsible for your own health, and hold the List Owner and members free of any liability. Dr. Ian ShillingtonDoctor of NaturopathyDr.IanShillington Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2005 Report Share Posted May 20, 2005 Thanks Jasmina, Yeah i know what you mean. i did give up fighting with them. AND my step sister came to me asking for help. lol DarrenJasmina Alisic <jalisic579 wrote: Dear Darren We all went through this stage, but if you are sure what are you doing just don't use too much energy to defend yourself. I did that at first and there is no use to that. Now after almost three years they are coming one by one to ask for help. Go your own way and be strong. Regards JasminaDarren <exodia71 wrote: Hey all, Well it was bound to happen, my family found out i was looking into Herbal/natural remedies.they have turned on me. saying that i am wasting my time etc.i tried to explin to them that medical science has failed us. that the "Dr.'s" just want to treat symptoms not the problem. I cited the death of my mom at the hands of "Dr.'s" she was mis-diagnosed and died of lung cancer. has this happened to anyone else?how should i handle this problem? i dont wish to just tell them to mind thier own business but........DarrenFederal Law requires that we warn you of the following: 1. Natural methods can sometimes backfire. 2. If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using any natural remedy. 3. The Constitution guarantees you the right to be your own physician and toprescribe for your own health. We are not medical doctors although MDs are welcome to post here as long as they behave themselves. Any opinions put forth by the list members are exactly that, and any person following the advice of anyone posting here does so at their own risk. It is up to you to educate yourself. By accepting advice or products from list members, you are agreeing to be fully responsible for your own health, and hold the List Owner and members free of any liability. Dr. Ian ShillingtonDoctor of NaturopathyDr.IanShillington Federal Law requires that we warn you of the following: 1. Natural methods can sometimes backfire. 2. If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using any natural remedy. 3. The Constitution guarantees you the right to be your own physician and toprescribe for your own health. We are not medical doctors although MDs are welcome to post here as long as they behave themselves. Any opinions put forth by the list members are exactly that, and any person following the advice of anyone posting here does so at their own risk. It is up to you to educate yourself. By accepting advice or products from list members, you are agreeing to be fully responsible for your own health, and hold the List Owner and members free of any liability. Dr. Ian ShillingtonDoctor of NaturopathyDr.IanShillington Post your free ad now! Canada Personals Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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