OT/Really off Topic

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I know I am older than most on this list and I have no problem

with that.

 

A situation came up I thought I would alert you to:

 

A relative brought his date to meet the family 6-8 months ago.

 

Overall she was nice but I had a gut feeling, she was not what she

would have us believe. Okay, not my business. They are just getting to

know one another and I have been wrong before.

 

During the holidays something was said that just did not feel right, Okay

that is two. In February, when my relative was talking about asking her

to marry him, there was a major red flag in something this girl said.

i.e. " You need to change your life insurance over to me, before you

ever think about us getting married. "

 

Now I am old fashioned, but doesn't it seem odd that would be

the 1st thing thought of or talked about before a ring, a place to live, etc.

 

Well I decided to do some checking....

Oh my god, this child has been in trouble with the law as far back

as I can check without getting juvenile records released.

 

We are not talking a couple of speeding tickets.

We are talking an average of 4-5 criminal and civil complaints

a year for 20 years.

 

I am not sure how my relative is going to react although I have

a good idea how he going to feel, and yes I am sending this

mountain of information to him. Why, cause the girl made a comment

that the worst thing that had every " happened " to her was getting

a ticket she did not deserve.

 

She currently has felon charges pending in a state other than her own.

 

There is a lot of public information out there, in some states it is

much easier to get than in others, but you can get it.

 

When In doubt check them out. This child is an example of someone

I would not want house sitting in my home or caring for a family members

child. Oh, she looks good on the surface, Love those nails.

 

Hope you never have the need to use this information but you just never know.

 

Back to pouring candles and smelling wonderful eo's, my world is much

simpler in the kitchen.

 

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