Guest guest Posted September 10, 2004 Report Share Posted September 10, 2004 Hi Brian Ok. Here's a woman's voice. I thought that women only lost jing (in a sexual sense) though gestation and childbirth and that the sex act was potentially nourishing for women; that the meeting of man and woman could create energy for both, especially if the man were interested in conserving his ejaculation and promoting his mate's for cultivation. I know that it certainly promotes harmony in the household if not the zang fu!!;-)This is the story I tell my boyfriend anyway!! As for women in the sex industry, could it not be that their aging is more due to working long hours, day and night often, malnutrition, drug abuse and general negative outlook on life? I doubt many of them are having orgasms on a regular basis. As for male prostitutes...??? Sex had in the context of unhappiness or disconnection, IMO, is quite draining and unhealthy for anyone. It seems that it creates more desire than it satisfies (think sexual addiction) and is perhaps sought out mistakenly--is it really love we desire? Of ourselves? From others? Validation? Accpetance? Personally, I think if ejaculation makes a guy very tired, it's not contributing much to his health, just like anything else. The daoists offer guidelines but no answers. Each man or woman can only go by his/her own experience of effect and aftereffect. But, as a woman, I don't experience any fatigue with orgasm so I consider it quite healthy and appreciate a good partner who can understand the great benefits inherent in contributing to mutual happiness. Maintaining personal happiness and relationship harmony is, IMO, one of the best ways to conserve jing and live a meaningful, joyful life. Stress and unhappiness also drain jing, don't they? Shanna > > Have you noticed that there are no women participating in this > discussion? But do you think women are any less affected by becoming > drained from too much sex? They have the same issues as men, but > this issue never seems to get any attention. You can see this by > looking at how people age who are involved in the sex industry over a > long period of time. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 10, 2004 Report Share Posted September 10, 2004 As others have mentioned, it depends on individual constitution and condition, on the one hand, and goals or preferences, on the other. a) As also Rich pointed out, any consideration of how often one can afford to ejaculate (lose Jing), such as Dr. Chang's algorithm or other guidelines, would be always qualified relative to the individual. Some would be hurt quite easily (function compromised, life shortened). Others may be more " dragon " types, as, reputedly, Chang Kai Chek, who was known to have multiple women (or times) per day continuously, without compromising his extraordinary strength. b) As others have pointed out, an answer would also be relative to the individual's goals, or destiny/fate. (A teacher once made the distinction: destiny (ming) is what is given you; fate is how you play it out.) c) Thu, 09 Sep 2004 12:10:58 " salvador_march " <salvador_march wrote: >> After all energy like money is to be used. question is, do we use it for quick 5 minute gratification?. A bit like never having enough to buy anything better that a cheap pair of sandals, or do we accumulate enough to be able to afford a pair of good hiking boots that will outlast the sandals ten time over. >>But like people with money not everyone has the skill / knowledge of how to manage / invest it. nor is it necessary or appropriate. Looking at the MaWangDui sexual manuscripts, the YiShimPo literature, and directives in Dr. Chang's book (which appears to be YiShimPo stuff plus further, probably family-held tradition) as to how to create optimal conditions for conception of an optimally endowed child. It's apparent that in some threads of Chinese tradition there is a lot of attention paid to optimization, refinement, etc. in this area. Perhaps like the Kama Sutra - a cultivation or art, that can be motivated by self-strengthening, religion, eugenics, etc. This may be shed some light on why the Chinese population has, across a long period of history, been one of the larger, if not the largest human group on the planet. Thu, 9 Sep 2004 14:00:22, " Attilio D'Alberto " <attiliodalberto wrote: >> Through personal experience, I have noticed that my Wei Qi is weaken after losing Jing through ejaculation. I believe that Macocia talked about the link between Jing and Wei Qi before, although I haven't read this anywhere else. Perhaps others can shed some light on this. Anyone recall the source, or what Macocia's ideas were? I've also heard about a connection between WeiQi and Jing (considered as YuanQi) - that the Divergent/Distinct (bie jing) are the metaphorical representation of this functional linkage. I.e. perverse Qi can invade, overcome the WeiQi defenses, drives the battle into the main channels to head directly for the internal organs. The Divergent channels " divert " it away from the channel pathways to the organs, often into the major joints where it is then held latent, and manifests as insidious, chronic generative and auto-immune conditions (Wei attacking Jing). The anatomical mapping of the divergent system also shares a lot with the modern lymphatic system theory, whose functionality clearly resembles WeiQi dynamics. Lymphatic fluid might also map into one of those varieties of the thicker forms of Jin-Ye, relating to the Jing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 10, 2004 Report Share Posted September 10, 2004 Hi H. Peter Many people fail to realize that the success to proper chi kung training revolves around building a firm foundation. In the beginning of your practice the cultivation of jing and transmuting it to chi (lieng jing hwa chi) is extremely important. I am in agreement with Matt when it comes to the regulation of jing it is a fine balance. That balance is not arbitrarily or universally assigned. It is different for everyone. I suggest that you visit a local reputable master. She or he should be able to guide and direct you. Now as to you feeling energize after sexual activity that is natural phenomenon for practitioners of energy work. The feeling of energy you receive, however, is not an indicator that jing is not being wasted or that you are improving. What happens when we engage in sexual activity is the slight opening of our lower energy centers and the root of carnality (uretha), thus making it possible for the transmission of seminal fluid and internal energies into the vagina- procreation and energy sharing. Sensitives and non sensitives alike can't help but experience a beautiful buzz- duration of this buzz is dependent upon many factors, so never take it as a sign of improvement or that no harm is being done to your internal energy system. Chi Kung is a system with many different branches. If you really do love cultivating your enerygies utilizing sex, like Matt and many others that belong to this group, I suggest you do some serious reading on Tantra, Sexual Cultivation, and Consort Practices. I believe that the proper use of sex can be an expidiant way to developing your internal energies and prolonging your life. However, right approach and right understanding is key. Because though it is an expidiant method it is also a method that is full of many pit falls and dangers. Guidance. . . . correct guidance is key. Kevin Dockery of the Foundation for the Advancement of Human Knowledge www.fahk.org Matt Bauer <acu.guy wrote: Dr. H. Peter Nussbaumer wrote: <Matt ! I´m 62 years old and we have sex 3 - 4 times a week (me and my wife) and every time i feel great ,like loading energie !!!!!!!!! Regards H.Peter> H. Peter, Could you have your wife contact my wife? - Matt But seriously folks, the advice on frequency of sexual activity will vary for different people. The main point, I believe, is that unless you are practicing specific spiritual techniques under proper guidance, moderation (as it may apply to the individual) is the key to all health aspects. This is what is meant by the " Middle Way " neither overdoing nor under-doing. Matt - " Dr.H.Peter " <medoriental <Chinese Medicine > Thursday, September 09, 2004 12:49 PM Re: Re: Is it necessary to Conserve Jing? Centro de Medicina Oriental Acupunctura,Laserterapia,Shiatsu, Dr.H.Peter Nussbaumer 351 269 827272 +351 967 044284 medoriental ---- Chinese Medicine 09/09/04 17:55:05 Chinese Medicine Re: Re: Is it necessary to Conserve Jing? The rule of thumb advice I learned was that a man in his 20's could have three ejaculations a week, two a week in his 30's, one a week in his 40's, one every two weeks in his 50's and so-forth without suffering too much damage. Of course, this is a rough rule of thumb and there are always individual variations that effect such a equation. .. Matt Bauer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 10, 2004 Report Share Posted September 10, 2004 Ming, Thanks for your comments. Everything has it's good and bad side. A knife can be used to injure someone or fix a delicious meal for friends. My opinions on this matter have definitely been colored by what I've been exposed to at this point. I will keep this in mind for the future and try a new perspective on it. --brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 11, 2004 Report Share Posted September 11, 2004 Shanna, > Ok. Here's a woman's voice. I thought that women only lost jing (in > a sexual sense) though gestation and childbirth and that the sex act > was potentially nourishing for women; that the meeting of man and > woman could create energy for both, especially if the man were > interested in conserving his ejaculation and promoting his mate's > for cultivation. I know that it certainly promotes harmony in the > household if not the zang fu!!;-)This is the story I tell my > boyfriend anyway!! > I guess this is yet another example of how my perspective is limited by my experiences. I know women like yourself who are energized after having sex, and others that become tired and can't outlast their partners. I've consequently assumed that the same jing loss process could be possible for women as well. This, however, could have more to do with qi deficiency that is already there than losing jing during the act. > As for women in the sex industry, could it not be that their aging > is more due to working long hours, day and night often, > malnutrition, drug abuse and general negative outlook on life? I > doubt many of them are having orgasms on a regular basis. As for > male prostitutes...??? Sex had in the context of unhappiness or > disconnection, IMO, is quite draining and unhealthy for anyone. It > seems that it creates more desire than it satisfies (think sexual > addiction) and is perhaps sought out mistakenly--is it really love > we desire? Of ourselves? From others? Validation? Accpetance? > I actually wasn't just thinking of prostitution, but also if you look at strippers who are not performing intercourse the same is true. But the lifestyle they lead and doing something where you are disconnected would be the same. > Personally, I think if ejaculation makes a guy very tired, it's not > contributing much to his health, just like anything else. The > daoists offer guidelines but no answers. Each man or woman can only > go by his/her own experience of effect and aftereffect. But, as a > woman, I don't experience any fatigue with orgasm so I consider it > quite healthy and appreciate a good partner who can understand the > great benefits inherent in contributing to mutual happiness. > Maintaining personal happiness and relationship harmony is, IMO, one > of the best ways to conserve jing and live a meaningful, joyful > life. Stress and unhappiness also drain jing, don't they? > I agree. Stress and unhappiness both require extra effort and force us to divert some of our resources or attention to deal with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 11, 2004 Report Share Posted September 11, 2004 With so much thought to the spermly tadpole who rides on Watery Jing, one wonders what kind of qi the romantic heart uses, or misuses, to woo the weal, of the one with share the most delicious Woe. Can someone love in the finest sense if the Heart is deficient? One might have any number of organisms [have always had a problem with the word, as though one has one, and the organs will spill out]; or seminal emissions, [shades of the Seminary and a sex life gone out of commission], one might have any number of orgasms and still be crippled in the experience of love. Watery jing for splurging, and Fiery qi for engaging in love. When the masters of yore, who apparently had nothing better to do at the time, worked out the frequency of shmorgasms permissible in any given flow of the Clepsydra, they never seemed to go the other way and also work out the schedule for falling in love a set number of times, and if one did this more than one should, what kind of a qi will one waste to the wanton taste. I have seen folks who have the finest physique and a harmony in elements, with a dreadful fissure down the tongue to the very tip, and, I don't do this nay more, one will get a sadly history of a broken heart. The spent Jing expresses at the hollow K 3 and a sunken suprapubic Ren. The broken Heart, at the torn asunder tongue, of the riven ear lobe. O Teachers in the Western Sky, how many times is it permissible to fall in love, before one reaches the limitations to HT qi of the golden sort? Dr. Holmes Keikobad MB BS DPH Ret. DIP AC NCCAOM LIC AC CO & AZ www.acu-free.com - 15 CEUS by video. NCCAOM reviewed. Approved in CA & most states. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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