Guest guest Posted December 28, 2005 Report Share Posted December 28, 2005 Dear Jack, Victoria Dragon, & All, Many thanks. I deeply appreciated that you were able to share your insight. I've been at a lost concerning my brother's death - I feel like I should be doing something in this life to help him in his new realm, or maybe it's to help me in this world. I have prayed and prayed for him; and even had an lds ritual, baptism for the dead, preformed on his behalf. But,... now a few years later, I am still having strange " calling " feelings. This may seem a little morbid to some of you, please forgive me, but I have a small portion of his ashes high-up on my book shelf in a fire-proof container. I can't seem to toss him into the wind, or the sea, or the woods,... etc. My brother suffered from years of depression. He took Prozac - I'm not certain if he was using other medications. I don't feel that his Doctor/s ever helped him with his emotions but only kept giving him an eternal re-fill on a prescription. As you already know, this western method does not cure. One thing interesting... the coroner had mentioned... for a suicide victim... my brother's facial expression was at peace. He had wanted to die for years. A personal situation occurred that pushed him over the edge to successfully commit it. He had many thoughts of it and had attempted it before,... but maybe without good reasons to finalize his end in this world. Well,... I don't feel that my brother could see how much his death would have affected me. The more time and distance that is place between his presents and myself has not healed my broken heart. I seem to think of him more and more.... If you have a chance, please post more information about burning spirit money and/or performing other necessary ceremonies. I am kinda rambling in this message... I'm in need of direction... Thanks for your kindness, Danamarie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2005 Report Share Posted December 28, 2005 Danamarie: If it's any comfort to you, your brother is probably still around you, perhaps even watching over your life. My brother came through various psychics since his death, beginning with six months after, and each time has relayed information about my own life. If you get near a gifted psychic who is genuinely capable of channeling messages, your brother may take that opportunity to communicate with you. You have to be careful, few psychics have that ability. It's a rare gift. As to a ceremony, I don't know where you are in the world, so it's difficult to say. It's important to go through a real shaman, someone with the gift and ability to communicate with the other side. There are so many who say they can and would be glad to accept payment, but they really lack the ability to communicate. For a long time I believed that simply burning incense at home would help my brother. The first thing he did in his ceremony was to knock the incense burner out of the shaman's hands to prevent my burning any more incense. It seems that my incense burning attracted negative spirits, and those spirits were making it difficult for my brother to assist me. So you need to find someone who knows what they are doing. Remember that if your brother wants that to happen, he can manipulate human activities to " arrange " for things to happen. My brother has worked quite a few " synchronicities " in my life. It seems he had to wait all those years while I learned Chinese and then came to China before he could get his ceremony. The ceremony involved a few articles that can be had in any Chinatown: spirit money, candles, incense, a bottle of alcohol, a side of meat, some rice and a live rooster. The key is to find the right person capable of performing the ceremony correctly, and with the genuine ability to communicate with the other side. Regards, Jack --- das4145 <asenat45 wrote: > Dear Jack, Victoria Dragon, & All, > > Many thanks. I deeply appreciated that you were > able to share your > insight. I've been at a lost concerning my > brother's death - I feel > like I should be doing something in this life to > help him in his new > realm, or maybe it's to help me in this world. I > have prayed and > prayed for him; and even had an lds ritual, baptism > for the dead, > preformed on his behalf. But,... now a few years > later, I am still > having strange " calling " feelings. This may seem a > little morbid to > some of you, please forgive me, but I have a small > portion of his > ashes high-up on my book shelf in a fire-proof > container. I can't > seem to toss him into the wind, or the sea, or the > woods,... etc. > > My brother suffered from years of depression. He > took Prozac - I'm > not certain if he was using other medications. I > don't feel that > his Doctor/s ever helped him with his emotions but > only kept giving > him an eternal re-fill on a prescription. As you > already know, this > western method does not cure. > > One thing interesting... the coroner had > mentioned... for a suicide > victim... my brother's facial expression was at > peace. He had > wanted to die for years. A personal situation > occurred that pushed > him over the edge to successfully commit it. He had > many thoughts > of it and had attempted it before,... but maybe > without good reasons > to finalize his end in this world. > > Well,... I don't feel that my brother could see how > much his death > would have affected me. The more time and distance > that is place > between his presents and myself has not healed my > broken heart. I > seem to think of him more and more.... > > If you have a chance, please post more information > about burning > spirit money and/or performing other necessary > ceremonies. > > I am kinda rambling in this message... I'm in need > of direction... > > Thanks for your kindness, Danamarie > > > > > > > > ________ DSL – Something to write home about. Just $16.99/mo. or less. dsl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2005 Report Share Posted December 30, 2005 Chinese Traditional Medicine , " das4145 " <asenat45@h...> wrote: > My brother suffered from years of depression. He took Prozac - I'm > not certain if he was using other medications. I don't feel that > his Doctor/s ever helped him with his emotions but only kept giving > him an eternal re-fill on a prescription. As you already know, this > western method does not cure. Prozac is one of the most dangerous drugs there has ever been. Some people can take it OK and be helped by it, but in others it actually triggers depression and suicidal thoughts and feelings. There is no way to predict who will be helped or harmed by it. Personally, I don't think a person killing himself or herself while on Prozac (or some of the other dangerous substances) is really a suicide. The drug can be that overpowering. It can blot out all other considerations - like consideration of effects on loved ones. Depression can do that too, but under the influence of a drug like Prosac, this can be heightened. Years ago I knew a woman who worked for an international patients rights organization that fights psychiatric abuse worldwide. At the time Prozac was the only drug this organization had ever specifically targeted for removal from the market. It's considered that potentially dangerous. One of the cases she related to me was that of a patient who kept waking up during one night with nightmares that she was stabbing herself in the face with a pair of scissors. She kept going back to sleep until she woke up one time, discovered that she was sleepwalking, and actually had a pair of scissors in her hands. She was able to get the help she needed, got off the drug, and lived to warn others about the potential side effects. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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