Coping with grief otherwise known as 'colloidal gold'

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Dear Mary, Renee, Nelly, Sandy, etc, Strong memories of Harry keep coming up. I have just let them come. Renee, writing them down briefly is a great idea! I'll start a Diary of memories of Harry, and also fill it with short letters to him.

Right now I see no reason to burn them. Both run the gamut from sheer joy and intense pleasure, to regret, pain and anger. I'm so glad we have the courage to open our hearts in this group. Rhoda

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What a way to honor a spouse who has passed on! It also honors you for your part in creating such an enduring love. - Steve-oleander soup <oleander soup >oleander soup <oleander soup >Mon Jan 12 19:22:25 2009 Coping with grief " otherwise known as 'colloidal gold'Dear Mary, Renee, Nelly, Sandy, etc, Strong memories of Harry keep coming up. I have just let them come. Renee, writing them down briefly is a great idea! I'll start a Diary of memories of Harry, and also fill it with short letters to him.Right now I see no reason to burn them. Both run the gamut from sheer joy and intense pleasure, to regret, pain and anger. I'm so glad we have the courage to open our hearts in this group. Rhoda

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Yes Rhoda.

It does take courage to open up to the group for every one to read, and no body can call us weak, especially you my lady, the feelings you have now, where there all the time but you, me and every body else do not recognised them, most of the time.

But now we do , or some of us do i'l say thanks to Renee.

How you feeling today health wise Rhoda? me i'm good !!!!!!

 

Hugs Mary

 

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Rhoda Mead

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Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:22 PM

Coping with grief "otherwise known as 'colloidal gold'

 

 

Dear Mary, Renee, Nelly, Sandy, etc, Strong memories of Harry keep coming up. I have just let them come. Renee, writing them down briefly is a great idea! I'll start a Diary of memories of Harry, and also fill it with short letters to him. Right now I see no reason to burn them. Both run the gamut from sheer joy and intense pleasure, to regret, pain and anger. I'm so glad we have the courage to open our hearts in this group. Rhoda

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Hi Rhoda. No, burning them is not necessary. It's just some people's belief that the smoke takes the prayers to heaven--a nice touch for some people, not for all. But--your book will be for YOU and Harry. A way to enjoy your memories again. And writing things down help bring up even more memories. So it's an ongoing project of love. What a nice idea!

 

Samala,

Renee

 

 

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I'll start a Diary of memories of Harry, and also fill it with short letters to him. Right now I see no reason to burn them. Both run the gamut from sheer joy and intense pleasure, to regret, pain and anger.

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Yes Steve.

I agree with you It is an honor, only it took Rhoda and me a lot of courage to get it out, appreciate your input.

 

Hugs Mary

 

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Norton, Steve

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Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:52 PM

Re: Coping with grief "otherwise known as 'colloidal gold'

 

 

 

What a way to honor a spouse who has passed on! It also honors you for your part in creating such an enduring love. - Steve-oleander soup <oleander soup >oleander soup <oleander soup >Mon Jan 12 19:22:25 2009 Coping with grief "otherwise known as 'colloidal gold'Dear Mary, Renee, Nelly, Sandy, etc, Strong memories of Harry keep coming up. I have just let them come. Renee, writing them down briefly is a great idea! I'll start a Diary of memories of Harry, and also fill it with short letters to him.Right now I see no reason to burn them. Both run the gamut from sheer joy and intense pleasure, to regret, pain and anger. I'm so glad we have the courage to open our hearts in this group. Rhoda