Guest guest Posted December 1, 2008 Report Share Posted December 1, 2008 Dear Mary, Two days of being depressed every week is two days too many. I am so sorry you are going through this. Are you taking trace minerals and Omega 3's? Also, I would highly recomend that you take colloidal gold. It alleviates depression and also stabilizes the brain chemistry. And it is very safe. I take it every day myself. Lastly, you never get over losing your partner. Well, it gets better but never completely goes away. Maybe talking your feelings out with a trusted friend or therapist might help. Love and Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2008 Report Share Posted December 1, 2008 On 12/1/2008, May (luellamay129) wrote: > Also, I would highly recomend that you take colloidal gold. It > alleviates depression and also stabilizes the brain chemistry. L-tryptophan would be another good thing to add... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 my dearest . being there done that, i mean talking about it, but in the end you are back where you started and goes round and round, now i'am use to it. yes i'am taking my omega 3's but i never try the colloidal gold, i'm taking colloidal silver though. Thank you for your intrest and advice, i may go and buy some colloidal gold, if as you say it helps depression, but what i really need is to stop been in so much contlol of my feelings. Hugs Mary - May oleander soup Monday, December 01, 2008 5:43 PM Re: Depression/Mary Dear Mary, Two days of being depressed every week is two days too many. I am so sorry you are going through this. Are you taking trace minerals and Omega 3's? Also, I would highly recomend that you take colloidal gold. It alleviates depression and also stabilizes the brain chemistry. And it is very safe. I take it every day myself. Lastly, you never get over losing your partner. Well, it gets better but never completely goes away. Maybe talking your feelings out with a trusted friend or therapist might help. Love and Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 Thank you Simon, i'am taking tryptophan, melatonin,plus other supplements. thanks for your intrest Simon Hugs Mary - Simon oleander soup Monday, December 01, 2008 10:07 PM Re: Re: Depression/Mary On 12/1/2008, May (luellamay129 ) wrote:> Also, I would highly recomend that you take colloidal gold. It> alleviates depression and also stabilizes the brain chemistry.L-tryptophan would be another good thing to add... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 Dearest Mary,Don't be so hard on yourself. It is impossible to take control of our feelings for to do that we would deny what we are experiencing and simply bottle them up. That's when the real trouble starts. At one time or another the cork will pop. I did that when my husband passed away many years ago. I had two small children, one 11 and one not even a month old. I tried to be strong, pretend everything was okay, be there for my children, and so on and so forth. And then..... The cork popped. I will not go into details but it took me a long time to get well.Our feelings are there for a reason, to experience them. God gave us tears and the mourning period is different for all of us. And we need to experience it, each of us in our own individual way. That's why I said, it gets better as time goes on but never truly goes away. The trick is experiencing sadness in a constructive manner so that it does not turn into depression.Get the colloidal gold and take it. I believe it will make a difference. And trace minerals are also very important. And Iodine supplementation. And proper diet also. No sugar, processed foods, fast foods, junk foods, etc. All this plays a major role. But after all this is said and done, we also need to deal with our emotions. We need to accept that our most precious loved one has moved on. That's all Mary. He's moved on to another life. He is very much alive and death cannot cut the bonds of love.I will tell you how I got closure, and for you it may be different. One beautiful starry night I went out to the patio and I looked up. It happened to be a ,full moon, so very bright and the stars were exceptionally beautiful that night. I looked up into the universe and I waved goodbye as I said..... "I love you." That made things different. I thought of him in a different way, I can't explain how really. But the horrific searing pain was gone. Although I still missed him, I had acceptance that he had chosen to move on. I hope this makes sense. Guess what? Tony fixed my computer, something or other to do with the router. Even though my computer is not perfect, I can access my emails now. So please, if you need to, you can email me again. And I will try to send you that item that I couldn't before. Just know that I know so well how you feel and my heart truly goes out to you. But believe me when I tell you it will be okay.Lots of love, oleander soup , "Maria Stathopoulos" <mary1kon wrote:>> my dearest .> being there done that, i mean talking about it, but in the end you are back where you started and goes round and round, now i'am use to it. yes i'am taking my omega 3's but i never try the colloidal gold, i'm taking colloidal silver though.> Thank you for your intrest and advice, i may go and buy some colloidal gold, if as you say it helps depression, but what i really need is to stop been in so much contlol of my feelings.> > Hugs Mary> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 Bless your heart . i cry and laugh together as i was reading your e-mail, why you will ask? because i have said googbuy so many times its no funny no more, but you my friend have a beautiful way of telling things and make me believed you are right, and that's what ia'm going to do, stop feeling sory for myself, stop controling my feelings, take my colloidal gold and the other supplements and hope for the BEST !!!!!!!!!!!. Thank you friend. Hugs Mary - May oleander soup Tuesday, December 02, 2008 12:29 PM Re: Depression/Mary Dearest Mary,Don't be so hard on yourself. It is impossible to take control of our feelings for to do that we would deny what we are experiencing and simply bottle them up. That's when the real trouble starts. At one time or another the cork will pop. I did that when my husband passed away many years ago. I had two small children, one 11 and one not even a month old. I tried to be strong, pretend everything was okay, be there for my children, and so on and so forth. And then..... The cork popped. I will not go into details but it took me a long time to get well.Our feelings are there for a reason, to experience them. God gave us tears and the mourning period is different for all of us. And we need to experience it, each of us in our own individual way. That's why I said, it gets better as time goes on but never truly goes away. The trick is experiencing sadness in a constructive manner so that it does not turn into depression.Get the colloidal gold and take it. I believe it will make a difference. And trace minerals are also very important. And Iodine supplementation. And proper diet also. No sugar, processed foods, fast foods, junk foods, etc. All this plays a major role. But after all this is said and done, we also need to deal with our emotions. We need to accept that our most precious loved one has moved on. That's all Mary. He's moved on to another life. He is very much alive and death cannot cut the bonds of love.I will tell you how I got closure, and for you it may be different. One beautiful starry night I went out to the patio and I looked up. It happened to be a ,full moon, so very bright and the stars were exceptionally beautiful that night. I looked up into the universe and I waved goodbye as I said..... "I love you." That made things different. I th ought of him in a different way, I can't explain how really. But the horrific searing pain was gone. Although I still missed him, I had acceptance that he had chosen to move on. I hope this makes sense. Guess what? Tony fixed my computer, something or other to do with the router. Even though my computer is not perfect, I can access my emails now. So please, if you need to, you can email me again. And I will try to send you that item that I couldn't before. Just know that I know so well how you feel and my heart truly goes out to you. But believe me when I tell you it will be okay.Lots of love, oleander soup , "Maria Stathopoulos" <mary1kon wrote:>> my dearest .> being there done that, i mean talking about it, but in the end you are back where you started and goes round and round, now i'am use to it. yes i'am taking my omega 3's but i never try the colloidal gold, i'm taking colloidal silver though.> Thank you for your intrest and advice, i may go and buy some colloidal gold, if as you say it helps depression, but what i really need is to stop been in so much contlol of my feelings.> > Hugs Mary> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 Dear Mary,Again, please don't beat yourself up. You are not feeling sorry for yourself. You are sad. And that is perfectly normal under the circumstances. The worst thing that can happen to someone is losing a child. The next worst thing is losing a spouse. I read your post last night and thought that I would sleep on it before I replied, as it is very important that I use the right words. Saying goodbye to a loved one with closure is very difficult, as our emotions are involved. No, let me rephrase that, our very heart is involved. It is akin to learning the art of forgiveness. Sometimes while saying the words "I forgive you" and really wanting to do this, the hurt is too deep and in our heart we know that we have not forgiven. Doing both, in my opinion, are lessons in life that we must learn. And they are very difficult lessons. So, please. Don't tell yourself or anyone else that you are feeling sorry for yourself and that you must get control of your feelings. This is being too hard on yourself. Just know that you are still sad and that you miss him. And if you need to cry, do so. All you want. Depression often hits when you shut off the tears. There is no outlet. The proverbial bottle with the cork. Get the colloidal gold. This will help you and yes, the other supplements and make sure you are not eating any processed or junk food. No sugar. And Mary, I am here for you. Please feel free to email me if you need to.Lots of love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Dear . Thank you again for having the patients of a mum or a doctor with me, i get the message, i know what you are saying, it's just that i'am not willing to let go for ever, not just get anyway. Now i got the colloidal gold but i dont know if i should take it with the colloidal silver, i mean the same day, what you think? let me know when you have time, you see i feel gulty for taking so much of your time and i don't like to hog this site with my problema Lol Lol. You see i'am ok, you beautiful person, thank you again. Hugs Mary - May oleander soup Wednesday, December 03, 2008 5:12 AM Re: Depression/Mary Dear Mary,Again, please don't beat yourself up. You are not feeling sorry for yourself. You are sad. And that is perfectly normal under the circumstances. The worst thing that can happen to someone is losing a child. The next worst thing is losing a spouse. I read your post last night and thought that I would sleep on it before I replied, as it is very important that I use the right words. Saying goodbye to a loved one with closure is very difficult, as our emotions are involved. No, let me rephrase that, our very heart is involved. It is akin to learning the art of forgiveness. Sometimes while saying the words "I forgive you" and really wanting to do this, the hurt is too deep and in our heart we know that we have not forgiven. Doing both, in my opinion, are lessons in life that we must learn. And they are very difficult lessons. So, please. Don't tell yourself or anyone else that you are feeling sorry for yourself and that you must get control of your feelings. This is being too hard on yourself. Just know that you are still sad and that you miss him. And if you need to cry, do so. All you want. Depression often hits when you shut off the tears. There is no outlet. The proverbial bottle with the cork. Get the colloidal gold. This will help you and yes, the other supplements and make sure you are not eating any processed or junk food. No sugar. And Mary, I am here for you. Please feel free to email me if you need to.Lots of love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Mary,Taking so much of my time and hogging the site with your problems? Oh Mary please don't worry about that at all. That's what I am here for. Besides you have become a very dear friend and I would do anything in my power to help you. Please do not give it a second thought and you can come to me with anything at anytime.I understand your not being ready to let go and that is okay. But we have to get you feeling better. Just don't suppress your emotions. Don't feel that you have to take charge, get a grip or get over it. That never works. See how you do with the colloidal gold and let me know. Is there someone you can talk to, maybe a good therapist? However, if any therapist suggests antidepressants, find another one immediately.As for colloidal silver and colloidal gold, yes, you can take it at the same time. In fact, you can take it together. Our emotional wellbeing is an integral part of our health. Unfortunately, life sometimes throws in wrenches which affect us deeply. And then we must begin the healing process. First and foremost Mary, take care of yourself. Pamper yourself. And do things that make you happy.Love and Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Thank you - thank you . and yes all therapapist suggest antidipressants that's why i let go two of them. i let you know how i go with the colloidal gold and silver though, and please please dont worry sooo !!!!!!!!!!!! much i will make it. Bear Hugs and muah Mary - May oleander soup Wednesday, December 03, 2008 1:41 PM Re: Depression/Mary Mary,Taking so much of my time and hogging the site with your problems? Oh Mary please don't worry about that at all. That's what I am here for. Besides you have become a very dear friend and I would do anything in my power to help you. Please do not give it a second thought and you can come to me with anything at anytime.I understand your not being ready to let go and that is okay. But we have to get you feeling better. Just don't suppress your emotions. Don't feel that you have to take charge, get a grip or get over it. That never works. See how you do with the colloidal gold and let me know. Is there someone you can talk to, maybe a good therapist? However, if any therapist suggests antidepressants, find another one immediately.As for colloidal silver and colloidal gold, yes, you can take it at the same time. In fact, you can take it together. Our emotional wellbeing is an integral part of our health. Unfortunately, life sometimes throws in wrenches which affect us deeply. And then we must begin the healing process. First and foremost Mary, take care of yourself. Pamper yourself. And do things that make you happy.Love and Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Yes, you will make it my friend. You are a strong and lovely woman.A Big Bear Hug back to you.......oleander soup , "Maria Stathopoulos" <mary1kon wrote:>> Thank you - thank you .> and yes all therapapist suggest antidipressants that's why i let go two of them. i let you know how i go with the colloidal gold and silver though, and please please dont worry sooo !!!!!!!!!!!! much i will make it.> > Bear Hugs and muah Mary> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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