Healing in not quick and easy, But it can be achieved - YOU CAN !

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Many people, depending on the severity of stress or abandonment issues

in their childhood and life, develop alter egos to handle the

stressors. This is especially common in individuals who are

entertainers or have more prominent personalities.

 

Some more highly sensitive people question life, their purpose in life

and at times the worth of life. Their sensitivities make them

lighting-rods for emotionally charged co-creative processes and

experiences. From this they can create wonderful things, gain

tremendous insights and accomplish things that would escape the

ponderences of most.

 

People create a lot of, or rather they have the ability to create

many, alter egos to handle stress. Sometimes it is a normal and

appropriately functioning alter-ego, like when an actor plays a role,

or the difference between your ‘at home’ personality, and your ‘at

work’ or corporate personality.

 

But it, the management of stress, can become extreme, bordering on

abnormal or dysfunctional, to a point where it isn’t healthy. With too

much stress, the person might rely on the alter-ego too much, so that

they lose track of themselves or never deal with their real-life

issues. However, in this example the individual realizes they have and

use an alter-ego. For example - this is when the actor becomes the

role - through immersion, the professional doesn't like coming home

from work and when they do they are detached from the family unit or

home life. In other words the alter-ego can be used as a coping

mechanism.

 

But if the stress or trauma gets to be too much, or too extreme, the

personality can actually fragment and become a split personality. In

this case some of the alter-ego's awareness doesn’t know their other

persona exists until they go through a process of reintegration and

that is not always successful.

 

What we are saying to you is that there are degrees of functionality.

To be well, to live well, means that you do unfortunately or not have

to deal at some point with what helped make you the person you are.

 

YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH actually begins when you start dealing with the

things that shaped who you are and how you exist with those around

you. This is just part of the living-well process. You co-exist with

the vibrational patterns of everything that has shaped you into the

physical manifestation you now know yourself as. Through the passage

of time, layers of realities have been built by you through your

self-modifying belief system, that have shaped your confidence, your

self-esteem, and the perception you have of yourself.

 

EVERYONE, and we do mean, everyone, goes through these rites of

passage. Indeed, self-questioning. How you deal with them, the events

of your life, will define the type of person you become.

 

There are some who do not believe in alter-egos or fragmented

personality disorders. And that is as it is. But if more than one

perceived outward reality can exist, then of course, more than one

inward persona can be created throughout a life time.

 

 

 

In this process, there is usually one alter-ego that establishes

itself and is functionally dominant, in order to protect the

sensitive, damaged and frightened original personality.

 

Vibrationally you experience these forms of altered awareness when you

become filled with anxiety. Your experience in the third-dimensional

reality is to experience joy. You know what it is you intuitively

need, want and desire to be happy and fulfilled. Now, this is not

about material things, nor is it about manifesting financial wealth.

It is about feeling satisfied, content and whole in your own body,

within your own skin, and feeling good about yourself.

 

When you interact with someone else, or go through something that

hurts you, makes you feel bad, or leaves you frustrated, then you are

not in alignment with your pure intent. You are interacting with, or

going through, a situation that is not in harmony with your own

vibrational frequency.

 

WE KNOW we have been speaking to you of these things that are very

deep and intense, but we have been getting many questions about

stress, addiction and personality disorders. It seems that the more

stress that is upon you, the more you question your own well being.

 

This is OUR SINGULAR attempt to put these things in a format you can

relate to... and that will inform and perhaps help you.

 

MichelsMessages/ Healing in never quick

and easy - it is a process.