Michel on DEATH and life - its a rough read, but insightful and true!

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Death is neither beautiful nor kind, it is not delicate or courageous,

and it is not pretty or neat. Death is a final closing on a lifetime.

It is lingering or sudden, it is cold and removed, it is personal.

Deeply, personal.

 

There is no saying what was left unsaid, there is no correcting

prideful moments of future regret. In and of itself death kills more

than the one person dying. It hurts, pains, and kills the hope of

healing, closure and the chance to make right the things that went wrong.

 

Remember you can do it right, starting now... for it is never too

late. Don't wait, when you can reach out so another can reach back.

 

This is why dying should be honored. It represents the part of life

that no one can avoid, turn from or escape. Death is the part of life

that you will do alone. It is the silent companion that waits in the

shadows to claim its companion. But in this, in this very process is

the chance for new understandings, renewed hopes and clarity of self.

 

How brutally pointless or harsh you may think this is, but if it were

not for these moments could you inspire, support, guide or even heal –

no. These are the deciding moments of life itself. For how you honor

your dying and dead, speaks to how well you respect life.

 

There are no answers, there is nothing of comfort we can say to you

that you has not already heard, been told or rejected. In the end it

is up to you to find peace within yourself, no one else can do that

but you. And for some it may take time. But, you are not alone.

 

In Spirit and in God, there is the singular connection to creation and

the ongoing processes of life. It is the soul, the very spirit, which

leaves the body at death, this aspect of life, the soul, goes on and

remains much the same in its identity. When you die, you will be

reunited with those that you had a connection to within this life,

there will be a time of choice, and they will wait for you, and you

them. There is only oneness, wholeness and understanding when you

transition.

 

There is no pain, it is only what you see, what you perceive to be

pain that pulls you in. But, to the individual identity there is no

suffering, for Spirit and God does not impart suffering to its creation.

 

This is why, when we speak of death, you must, simply must, realize

the finality of it within this lifetime, and the time you have

remaining within your own life on this planet.

 

So often we say:

 

1)Make good choices

 

2)Be forgiving and practice tolerance

 

3)Do the right thing, not for yourself, but for the greater situation

at hand

 

4)Realize that when you are hateful or angry it is only you that you

are eating up on the inside, and that will manifest within your life,

and physical body

 

5)Be kind, just be kind

 

Death should not be forgotten. It should be remembered and you should

remember how it feels to loose someone you care about, because that

keeps you connected to your humanity.

 

Yes, we are aware that you like things to be said to you that are

upbeat, joyful, and fluffier. But dear ones, life is not always going

be fluffier. It is by learning to respect this process of death, to

accept that there is no understanding or even sense to some of the

thing that happen to you, that you can begin to free yourself from the

fear of loss, depression and anxiety.

 

For it is said: HIS WAYS OUR NOT YOUR WAYS… and in this there is great

truth. For no one, and there is no one born, living, or who has been

that can know Spirit, or God. For how can anyone grasp that which is

beyond comprehension?

 

Respect life and enjoy the time you have with each other. Try to use

the loss of someone as a tool to teach, inspire, and provide comfort

and support for and to others who are going through the same thing.

For when you hold the light of faith, you are no longer blind, for you

are leaning on the greatest thing that there is: Spirit and God.

 

Walk forward and shine that light with appreciation and pride.

 

Michel

 

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