Guest guest Posted June 3, 2004 Report Share Posted June 3, 2004 In a message dated 6/3/2004 11:12:18 AM US Mountain Standard Time, CandaceAndBrock writes: CandaceYes, lots and lots of prayer ALWAYS helps! Candace... I feel for you. I think we have all been in a rough or bad relationship, I know what it is like to feel stuck and not know what to do. Is he at all like a husband for you and your family? Isn't he affectionate? There has to be something he does for you to keep him around. It is hard to give you advice or direction other than prayer... we only here your side and haven't seen the two of you interacting together. Hang in there and know you have friends. Love & God Bless, Jamie in Az Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2004 Report Share Posted June 3, 2004 He was my best friend while we were dating and first married. As soon as Brock was born it's like he freaked out. That's when he started drinking almost daily and being a complete arse; coming and going as he pleases and being very secretive, lieing lieing lieing. Every comment he'd made about how he was going to raise his kid went right out the window and now he basically ignores him, swears in front of and at him, etc.... He's affectionate after he gets home from the bar and has been ogling other women all night! Then he stinks like stale booze and cigs and I want nothing to do with him. As bitchy as it may sound, I stick around because he works so I can stay home with Brock while he's little for 1. Second reason is if we split, he'd get partial custody of Mr. Brock and has weird ideas, like that it's okay to leave him in his crib and go out all night and drive drunk with him in the vehicle. If he went to the bar and left Brock in his crib, maybe no damage would be done, but he has passed out drunk with the gas stove on 6 times since we moved in here in October. If I'm not around, he'd probably burn the house down with him and Brock in it. When he "watches" him so I can get something done every now and then, all he does is fall asleep on the couch and Brock has the run of the house. Once he figures out how to open doors, his life would be in SERIOUS danger. So I stick around to protect Brock. And to stay home with Brock. Once every few weeks we'll have a good couple days, that gets my hopes up, too. : ) When things get bad for a few consecutive weeks I start considering moving out of state in with a friend, which would prevent the visitation until Brock was older and could fend for himself. Complicated why I stay but hope it makes sense. Candace - SpareRibOfAz herbal remedies Thursday, June 03, 2004 1:16 PM Re: Herbal Remedies - Candace Hubby In a message dated 6/3/2004 11:12:18 AM US Mountain Standard Time, CandaceAndBrock writes: CandaceYes, lots and lots of prayer ALWAYS helps! Candace... I feel for you. I think we have all been in a rough or bad relationship, I know what it is like to feel stuck and not know what to do. Is he at all like a husband for you and your family? Isn't he affectionate? There has to be something he does for you to keep him around. It is hard to give you advice or direction other than prayer... we only here your side and haven't seen the two of you interacting together. Hang in there and know you have friends. Love & God Bless, Jamie in AzFederal Law requires that we warn you of the following: 1. Natural methods can sometimes backfire. 2. If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using any natural remedy. 3. The Constitution guarantees you the right to be your own physician and toprescribe for your own health. We are not medical doctors although MDs are welcome to post here as long as they behave themselves. Any opinions put forth by the list members are exactly that, and any person following the advice of anyone posting here does so at their own risk. It is up to you to educate yourself. By accepting advice or products from list members, you are agreeing to be fully responsible for your own health, and hold the List Owner and members free of any liability. Dr. Ian ShillingtonDoctor of NaturopathyDr.IanShillington Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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