The Habit of Creating What You Want

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One of the challenges of creating a new and exciting life is to figure

out what is it one wants exactly. For many it is easy to think of

what one doesn't want or the many reasons things didn't work out in

the past. For many, there is a certain logic in this approach: If

you identify the failures or limitations from the past, then you can

simply correct in yourself the perceived flaws and thus you can have

everything you want.

 

The problem with this approach is that you can't create your future by

looking at your past. Personal reflection is a good thing if you can

look at your past through loving eyes. There is a famous quote " Those

who do not learn from history are condemned to repeat it " . People

often keep condemning their histories instead of learning, forgiving,

and moving on. When you focus on your failings and limitations you

are recreating the limitations and failings in your subconscious

programming.

 

If you program your mind for what you don't want it will produce

nothing new or even worse - bring you the very result you were hoping

to avoid. We joke in the Commanding Wealth Seminar.‚ " Don't say

" don't " the subconscious mind " don't " hear don't " . If you read that

sentence out loud what do you hear? Do you hear " Always say do " ? No

of course not, you heard don't-don't-don't and that becomes your

experience in the world and in your relationships.

 

When we use The One Command‚ we state " I don't know how I ….I only

know I do know and I am fulfilled. " We are using the word " don't "

intentionally to stop the old negative thinking and to redirect the

mind and the emotions into a new possibility of experience.

 

I had a client that had the " Can't-won't-don't " program running. We

were discussing options for her to generate income for herself based

on what resources she currently had available to her, which from my

perspective were considerable. In addition to being very clear about

what she didn't want in her life she knew exactly where the

possibility of success was NOT. Every time I would suggest a new

possibility she would answer in some variation of " Well I can't

because my church won't help me and they don't have groups that

support that anyway. "

 

Teasing her, I said I was tempted to start pinching her every time she

made an objection instead of allowing herself a moment to consider her

options; but she was doing such a good job of punishing herself I told

her instead that I'd like to walk her up to theta (the unified brain

state) and have her make The One Command‚ instead. She smiled and

chose to do the latter.

 

The first command was " I don't' know how I say yes to the good in me

and in my life I only know I do now and I am fulfilled. " The second

command was " I don't know how I know my heart's desire, I only know I

do now and I am fulfilled. "

 

These two statements stopped her negative thinking and while in theta

she was able to access the powerful, positive, aspects of her nature

that knows the truth of her good in her, and the truth of her heart's

desire. After doing those two simple commands she had an idea that she

felt sure would generate some income for her. I asked her if there

was any reason someone would oppose her in this venture? She answered

no. I asked if she felt she had all the tools and help to make it

happen and she enthusiastically told me about several people who would

be willing and able to help. I asked her if there was any personality

flaw or weakness that would keep her from succeeding and she said no

that she felt mentally and emotionally able to do whatever it took.

 

In my hypnosis practice I used a post hypnotic suggestion with clients

just before coming back into full awareness that goes, " There is no

individual or group, no thought, image, idea or situation in your

present, or past or that could ever arise in your future that can keep

you from having anything your heart desires. " When you go into the

theta brainwave and make The One Command‚ you will experience the

truth of that statement from the deepest level of your being.

Furthermore, the truth of your life becomes:

" Every person, each thought, image, and idea, situations from my past,

present, or may arise in my future support me in my pursuit of my

heart's desire. "

 

To learn how to use The One Command‚ in everyday situations, take

advantage of our weekly One Command‚ teleconference call each

Wednesday at 9 am PDT, 11am CST and Noon EST. It's free, simply call

218-486-1300, you'll be asked for a bridge number punch in 682343

 

Kathryn Perry is an alternative healing professional,a Thetahealing

teacher and presenter for The One Command. www.commandingwealth.com