The Spiritual Balancing of Male and Female

[Guest guest]

The Spiritual Balancing of Male and Female

 

Betsy: How can the male relate better with the empowered feminine?

 

Dear One,

 

It lies in knowing the feminine is not less than. Not just knowing in

the mind but knowing in the heart. The empowered feminine is strong

and enduring; creating and holding space. She creates atmosphere. She

allows flow. She takes the speeding train that is male energy –

powerful and single minded - and caresses it, molds it, nurtures it.

She

calms; creating space wherein it can grow and expand instead of racing

on a single track through the dark to exhaustion. She is the spiral,

He

is the line. She is the ball, He is the cube. He is the power, She is

the ground. He is the seed, She is the fertile ground. He is the

arrow,

She is the bow.

 

You cannot have one without the other. Together they make a complete

circuit, a whole, they produce fruit. Realize both exist within you;

the Mind and the Heart but also within the entire body mechanic, flesh

and blood, bones and tendons, organs and hormones. All of it is an

intricate dance of male and female energies. One pushes, one pulls.

One

releases, one holds. Add to this what you already know about Light and

Sound, waves and particles, thoughts and water and cellular

structures.

 

Feeling is held in the heart and one of the first things people learn

is to never show their hurt. More so for boys but also for girls as

well. How can you enjoy the beauty of Creation if you can not feel;

running away from pain and things you don't want to deal with because

you fear the floodgates will open and it will never stop. Well, It

really never stops if you don't confront those things. They will

forever

be seeping and festering, always coloring your reactions with feelings

out of proportion with the situation. In your efforts to stem this

seepage your walls get thicker, higher, colder, darker... do you see

where this is going? Eventually your feminine heart energies atrophy.

You lose your ability to feel joy, happiness, Light, Love. You feel

less

and less connected to the FATHER. You lose your sense of purpose. You

forget who you are and why you came. Most often it takes a catastrophe

to wake people up, to make them realize this is not the way things are

supposed to be. Just being awake is not enough. It is but one step. It

must be followed with intention, connection, forgiveness, and the

realization of what Love really is - the full embrace of the feminine

and total surrender to the Creator, the alignment of You with the best

the universe has to offer.

 

The masculine and feminine are not opposites, they are complimentary

like peanut butter and jelly, coconut and lime, lox and cream cheese.

Each by itself is good, together they are better. (allergies

notwithstanding) Some individual discretion in vibrational qualities

of

various energies is in order as well. Just because it is a feminine

energy doesn't make it the best one for you. You are searching for the

highest vibrational feminine energy in alignment with the Creator's

will, energy working for the highest good. It's easy to see how low

level energies can be used for distraction by the darkside or for your

self out of avoidance.

 

Feeling the fully empowered and healed feminine energies is freeing

and comforting. There is no mistaking their higher vibrational

qualities.They are equal to their male counterpart and they work in

tandem.

 

The male energies have been manipulated and bred to be dominant for so

long that they have run amuck with destruction, chaos and excessive

powering; the drive to have it all at any cost. Anything less was,

well, less. The feminine energies have also been manipulated, bred and

choked out for so long that anything remotely soft, comforting,

beautiful is stomped on. " Don't want that weak, needy, clingy, sissy

type around here. " In an effort to stand toe to toe with the guys the

women denied themselves their innate abilities to nurture, comfort,

create. It was all according to plan, drive out the feminine and you

separate the people - separate from themselves, each other, and most

of

all from the Creator. Separate the people and you can conquer them,

keep

them slaves. They are lost, bereft, without a paddle. They give away

their power clinging to wants and should haves instead of seeing the

here and now. All for one and none for all.

 

That was then, now enter the empowered and healed feminine, ready to

stand in her own power, a leader in her own right, bringing infinite

Love, compassion, and balance. This rings with a truth the heart

identifies with yet the mind is still so programmed and under the

influence of the matrix thinking that it is very hard to see and

accept the positive balancing that opening up to it brings. This is

the

work, yet work is probably the wrong word as what is required is to

just

BE, Accept, Embrace that which has been lost for so long. Jump off the

cliff, take the plunge, immerse yourself. Let it envelope you. Know

and

feel the Love that flows from the Creator and through you. Through you

it can expand and reach others as you let the feminine work through

and

with you. This is no loss of masculinity and even in the female she

must

embrace the power that comes from the male. It is a unifying and

balancing of self to the way things were meant to be. To the highest

vibrations of Creation's intent. The two, the space and the seed, the

compassion and the force, the Light and the Sound. Together enter

wholeness. The Creator's dream fulfilled.

 

Knowing these things we must now look to the proper balance of things

and how they should be. It could be conceived that the male is raw

potential and the female is the catalyst, the female holding space and

nurturing the male seed. The true empowered female essence is the

foundation, the support, the creator of space to aid the male to grow,

form, and become. It is through the feminine that you can feel for

from her comes the abilities of nurture, compassion, empathy - the

heart

energies. The male brings structure, mechanics, knowledge - the mental

energies. Without the heart energies to balance the mental energies

things turn to domination and chaos, power struggles and greed. You

might say the female keeps the male civilized. Yet too the male helps

give the female shape and focus. We have said many times that one

needs

to stop with the mind. Stop over-thinking, stop forcing things to fit

a

preconceived box. Open the heart, flow with love and feeling. Things

must swing back to the other side before becoming fully balanced.

Grasp

fully the feelings of the moment. Be in the moment, not worrying of

the

future or lost in the past. The only thing you can touch is this very

moment. This is the moment you need to listen. NOT you should have

listened. NOT you will listen. Just now in this moment and it is

always

this moment. Tomorrow never comes and yesterday is already gone.

 

The men must realize that their maleness is not forfeited by this,

that they are still needed and are appreciated. Those that open their

hearts and allow the feminine to flow will be stronger for it.

Interaction with females in the flesh will need to be tempered by

vibrational quality. See them with deep understanding and as sisters

and

mothers. Men can aid in women's abilities to reclaim their power by

showing love and respect thereby reflecting the feminine back to them.

Be willing to have them lead. Encourage it even. Be willing to listen,

reverse the usual roles or not as may be fitting for anyone's

particular

mission. Just as these times bring outward physical signs of upheaval

so

too will there be internal upheavals. It is the process of breaking

down

the barriers. The more hearts open, the more people gather and speak

their truth with the highest intention in alignment with the Creators

will the easier it all becomes. Each will help the other rise just by

virtue of vibrational energy. This then echo's out like water ripples

....

 

So be it

 

with loving guidance

RAJ, Harene, and the Spiritual Hierarchy of Nebadon

 

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