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<<Contributing is one thing..

contradicting is quite another, this is a friendly list... people come for

advice, help and knowledge. The person you just (injustly) accused of quoting

from " whatever sources " really to my knowledge, has never done that. Instead,

she researches and if necessary, re-researches before speaking at all. And she

is " very well " educated,>>

 

I was not making any accusations at all!

It was my impression that some book or article was being quoted,

containing statements from different unmentioned sources. (Now I wonder if

Marilyn herself wrote the tidbits.) If we are presenting controversial

information as facts then it is good to mention sources.

There are definitely conflicting current opinions/theories about a number

of the things that were mentioned in the tidbits. And there were a couple of

logic problems. A particular opinion or theory is not a sacred cow. It is

fine to contradict. This right is one of our guaranteed freedoms and it

protects truth. If I say such-and-such is toxic (or fantastic) and you have

some information or theory contrary to that, then you can share that. Then

others can chime in with what they know about the subject. As more people

share, a clearer picture emerges.... Lists like this exist for people to

get together and do this.

I did not intend to be disrespectful in any way. Nor do I feel I was.

There is a huge difference between respectfully bringing up questions about

something someone has put forward and attacking the person.

I too research and re-research and am well-educated. (A teacher and

practitioner in natural health field.) It seems to me that this describes

many of the people on this list. All of us have an equal right to share

information or put forth a theory about something.

Michelle stated that she posted the tidbits to stimulate thought. I

was stimulated and responded in a way I hoped would stimulate thought, too.

-Not the kind that it stimulated above, though!

My husband reminds me that it is too easy to read " tone " into Internet

communications, that the writer did not intend. To think somebody had a

certain " attitude " when they didn't, and get upset about it.

I have come and gone from a number of lists, and am now receiving only

two. I love this list for the information and also for the way I have seen

the folks her interacting. Friendly and easy-going!

Love and blessings to all,

Shivani

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Howdy folks,

 

I'm trying to find the original posts this is referring to ..... and I

haven't yet *LOL*, but I will ;)

 

What I DO want to say is that I personally think I have a great list

full of great folks who have a lot of great info and shining

personalities to share! Disagreements are great and questioning " facts

and opinions " are great - just so long as it is done with respect - and

I think we do that rather good job of that here for the most part :) The

way to learn is to not just nodding and agreeing, but to pose questions,

and to get replies and answers to those questions. In general discussion

and debate are actually more the key to learning than agreement ;)

 

I just want to say thank you to Michelle, Marilyn, Shivani, and EVERYONE

else here! Y'all make it a great list and make me a proud list mom for

sure .. so smile folks - and keep expanding those minds (but don't let

your heads swell ;) )

 

*Smile*

Chris (list mom)

http://www.alittleolfactory.com

 

 

SArjuna wrote:

 

>

> <<Contributing is one thing..

> contradicting is quite another, this is a friendly list... people come for

> advice, help and knowledge. The person you just (injustly) accused of

> quoting

> from " whatever sources " really to my knowledge, has never done that.

> Instead,

> she researches and if necessary, re-researches before speaking at all.

> And she

> is " very well " educated,>>

>

> I was not making any accusations at all!

> It was my impression that some book or article was being quoted,

> containing statements from different unmentioned sources. (Now I

> wonder if

> Marilyn herself wrote the tidbits.) If we are presenting controversial

> information as facts then it is good to mention sources.

> There are definitely conflicting current opinions/theories about a

> number

> of the things that were mentioned in the tidbits. And there were a

> couple of

> logic problems. A particular opinion or theory is not a sacred cow.

> It is

> fine to contradict. This right is one of our guaranteed freedoms and it

> protects truth. If I say such-and-such is toxic (or fantastic) and

> you have

> some information or theory contrary to that, then you can share that.

> Then

> others can chime in with what they know about the subject. As more

> people

> share, a clearer picture emerges.... Lists like this exist for

> people to

> get together and do this.

> I did not intend to be disrespectful in any way. Nor do I feel

> I was.

> There is a huge difference between respectfully bringing up questions

> about

> something someone has put forward and attacking the person.

> I too research and re-research and am well-educated. (A teacher and

> practitioner in natural health field.) It seems to me that this

> describes

> many of the people on this list. All of us have an equal right to share

> information or put forth a theory about something.

> Michelle stated that she posted the tidbits to stimulate

> thought. I

> was stimulated and responded in a way I hoped would stimulate thought,

> too.

> -Not the kind that it stimulated above, though!

> My husband reminds me that it is too easy to read " tone " into

> Internet

> communications, that the writer did not intend. To think somebody had a

> certain " attitude " when they didn't, and get upset about it.

> I have come and gone from a number of lists, and am now receiving

> only

> two. I love this list for the information and also for the way I have

> seen

> the folks her interacting. Friendly and easy-going!

> Love and blessings to all,

> Shivani

>

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Yes it was I who made the post, and as I said before there is just too much

information there to quote fully and cite all studies- I am not writing a

thesis...at least not on this list!!

 

The book I was qouting was " nourishing traditions " by sally fallon- all the

items I quoted are there and the references are quoted...

It is a wonderful book and has given me a different perspective to look at-

Very interesting information in this book, very different from many " fad "

diets out there...I connect most with trditional diets like ayurveda, and

this book takes a closer look at traditional cultures and their nutrition

and health compared to modern america...

check it out

Michelle

> Michelle stated that she posted the tidbits to stimulate thought. I

> was stimulated and responded in a way I hoped would

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This is interesting, as in the original post I stated where these quotes

were coming from....no, Marilyn did not write them!!!

> > It was my impression that some book or article was being quoted,

> > containing statements from different unmentioned sources. (Now I

> > wonder if

> > Marilyn herself wrote the tidbits

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Hi,

 

No, " Marilyn herself " didn't write the tidbits; as stated in the original e-mail

from Michelle, not only was the author noted, but also the name of the book it

came from. (whew... !) There were no different sources, only one and it was

mentioned by Michelle. Which is why I responded as I did to your e-mail saying

that... since the source " was " listed, the author and book, not 'different

unmentioned sources'. What I write myself, I sign my name to.

And yes, I do believe I also said that this list was very friendly and helpful;

also with sharing, as our list Mom has set a great example that others do

follow.

Best list around...........IMHO.

Ok, Shivani, you tell me? How am I supposed to take your " Now I wonder if

Marilyn

herself didn't write the tidbits " comment? Friendly?

 

Marilyn Nicholson

 

SArjuna wrote:

 

> <<Contributing is one thing..

> contradicting is quite another, this is a friendly list... people come for

> advice, help and knowledge. The person you just (injustly) accused of quoting

> from " whatever sources " really to my knowledge, has never done that. Instead,

> she researches and if necessary, re-researches before speaking at all. And she

> is " very well " educated,>>

>

> I was not making any accusations at all!

> It was my impression that some book or article was being quoted,

> containing statements from different unmentioned sources. (Now I wonder if

> Marilyn herself wrote the tidbits.) If we are presenting controversial

> information as facts then it is good to mention sources.

>

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