Guest guest Posted August 8, 2003 Report Share Posted August 8, 2003 In a message dated 8/8/2003 7:24:41 AM Pacific Standard Time, attiliodalberto writes: I'm sorry if people are upset at my request to go off-list with their discussions but that was my conclusion borne out of the information I had. Some may not agree with my actions, but I cannot please everyone, I wish I could. It is true, Attilo, you can't please everyone. But just so you know, I thought your suggestion was appropriate. It was ceasing to be a discussion and more and more becoming a pulpit for one individual. If one is having a meeting and a group wishes to focus on something that is only of interest to a small section of the meeting parties, it is natural that it be suggested they have their own meeting, imo. Just wanted to let you know you have my support. And thank you for putting this group together. Be well, Maya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2003 Report Share Posted August 8, 2003 Ken wrote: There are serious consequences to forbidding communication. I hope you feel that it is not I who is forbidding communication. (I know you can't answer this now, I'll let it sit on file until you return). But I didn't start a discussion group and spend so much time gathering members, promoting the group at various link sites, uploading the files, links, pics, etc to be accused of forbidding communication! I have to find a balance within my vision of what I want the group to be, the wants and needs of the members and the boundaries of technology. Finding this balance is difficult, I have to weigh-up the complaints, my own views, the needs of other members and the way in which emails are distributed into accounts when they have been set up incorrectly. I'm sorry if people are upset at my request to go off-list with their discussions but that was my conclusion borne out of the information I had. Some may not agree with my actions, but I cannot please everyone, I wish I could. Attilio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2003 Report Share Posted August 8, 2003 Attilio, Forgive me for responding in Ken's absence. He'll be visiting my home soon, so I'll say a few words on behalf of my guest. No, I think Ken was not referring to your mostly gentle and hands-off hosting ... but then maybe he was. I'm not sure, and I'll ask. I believe Ken was referencing an earlier complaint and warning regarding Lon's verbosity. Ken's a sort of "high plains drifter" kind of guy who prefers to present sufficient amounts of reality to clean up the street with an honorable fight. He figures the Tao will make all the right adjustments. No matter what badness or goodness presents itself, I think Ken senses that we'll all be simultaneously nourished by it and instructed by it. In a few days I'll ask Ken if this comes close to representing him. If not, I'll personally apologize to all. But I feel you need not worry regarding your hosting of the group and Ken's admonishing remarks. Emmanuel Segmen - Chinese Medicine Friday, August 08, 2003 7:23 AM Re: Miscellany Ken wrote:There are serious consequences to forbiddingcommunication.I hope you feel that it is not I who is forbidding communication. (I know you can't answer this now, I'll let it sit on file until you return). But I didn't start a discussion group and spend so much time gathering members, promoting the group at various link sites, uploading the files, links, pics, etc to be accused of forbidding communication!I have to find a balance within my vision of what I want the group to be, the wants and needs of the members and the boundaries of technology. Finding this balance is difficult, I have to weigh-up the complaints, my own views, the needs of other members and the way in which emails are distributed into accounts when they have been set up incorrectly. I'm sorry if people are upset at my request to go off-list with their discussions but that was my conclusion borne out of the information I had. Some may not agree with my actions, but I cannot please everyone, I wish I could. AttilioFor practitioners, students and those interested in TCM. Membership requires that you do not post any commerical, religious, spam messages or flame another member. If you want to change the way you receive email message, i.e. from individual to a daily digest or none then visit the groups’ homepage: Chinese Medicine/ From there, click ‘edit my membership on the right hand side’ and adjust accordingly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2003 Report Share Posted August 8, 2003 You are doing just fine Attilo - I wouldn't want your job. Matt Bauer - YinTangSong Chinese Medicine Friday, August 08, 2003 10:09 AM Re: Re: Miscellany In a message dated 8/8/2003 7:24:41 AM Pacific Standard Time, attiliodalberto writes: I'm sorry if people are upset at my request to go off-list with their discussions but that was my conclusion borne out of the information I had. Some may not agree with my actions, but I cannot please everyone, I wish I could. It is true, Attilo, you can't please everyone. But just so you know, I thought your suggestion was appropriate. It was ceasing to be a discussion and more and more becoming a pulpit for one individual. If one is having a meeting and a group wishes to focus on something that is only of interest to a small section of the meeting parties, it is natural that it be suggested they have their own meeting, imo. Just wanted to let you know you have my support. And thank you for putting this group together. Be well, Maya For practitioners, students and those interested in TCM. Membership requires that you do not post any commerical, religious, spam messages or flame another member. If you want to change the way you receive email message, i.e. individually, daily digest or none, then visit the groups’ homepage: Chinese Medicine/ Click ‘edit my membership' on the right hand side and adjust accordingly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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