Guest guest Posted June 28, 2008 Report Share Posted June 28, 2008 Just wanted to thank all of you for your reply's to my dad's death. Since this has happened the negligence that took this wonderful person from us I NEVER want to go into a hospital ever! Having problems with Cody's low white blood cell count and red blood cell count also so the vet put him on Orbax again. Tried to order some oleander again as setcom said they removed the information but they did not, same thing happened. I have tried to get this but have given up now. If anyone can get the pills for me I will gladly pay you for them. All our best, Bonnie & CodyGas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for fuel-efficient used cars. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2008 Report Share Posted June 28, 2008 oleander soup , evian793 wrote: > If anyone can get the pills for me I will gladly pay you for them. > > All our best, > > Bonnie & Cody > You must have missed my reply to your private email? Tony Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2008 Report Share Posted June 28, 2008 Bonnie, my heart goes out to you. Having a loved one taken from you because of negligence is a far too common thing these days. I must confess, when I read your initial post, my heart broke and I had immesurable difficulty even writing you a short reply. I attempted to write a longer post, but the pain in my heart would not allow it, it was too severe. You see I lost my mother the same way three years ago, at the hands of a negligent nurse. I cared for mom at home and yes, she was in hospice, but she was not meant to die on July 29, 2005 at 10:15 am. As I know you are aware by now, this adds a different type of burden to your heart. A burden of pain and injustice, a burden that I carried for quite sometime and still carry to some extent. Mourning for a loved one is no easy thing, especially when coupled by a wrongful death. I always speak of making sweet memories and I can tell you had these with your dad. Focus on these memories, and these memories will always reside in your heart. You will find, and you may have already experienced deep within your soul, that death does not and cannot break the bonds of love. Only someone that has loved another deeply can relate to this. In the end, we are much more than this shell called our bodies. Our essence is in our souls as we literally travel through eternity, and a soul cannot die or be killed. The truth is your dad is very much alive and he is now starting a new life. Remember the wonder that we had as children, as to this new life all around us? Your dad is now experiencing the newness and wonder of his new life. And the truth is, that this wonderful and magnificent universe with its different dimensions is really all part of the one life, a totality that we do not see because of the veils in between. And one day we will follow behind our loved ones, as this is merely a part of the wholeness of life. So Bonnie, this is not goodbye, it is merely so long. Remember that in all you feel, in all you do. I send you all my love, oleander soup , evian793 wrote: > > Just wanted to thank all of you for your reply's to my dad's death. Since > this has happened the negligence that took this wonderful person from us I > NEVER want to go into a hospital ever! > > Having problems with Cody's low white blood cell count and red blood cell > count also so the vet put him on Orbax again. Tried to order some oleander > again as setcom said they removed the information but they did not, same thing > happened. I have tried to get this but have given up now. > > If anyone can get the pills for me I will gladly pay you for them. > > All our best, > > Bonnie & Cody > > > > **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for > fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used?ncid=aolaut00050000000007) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Bonnie i know what you are going through, my kids and i fealt the same way about hospitals doctors and their way of treating sick people, they put their dirty little hands on my husband and we lost him, i was and still am very bitter and it hearts me and my kids badly, but not the doctors not them nothing touches them. so my loving invice to you my girl is Don't allow bittiness to enter your heart because it will eat you alive, don't go through what we went through having to deal with two kinds of pain. i still talk with my husband like he is here after 5 years and, yes you will miss your dad badly and for long -long time but as long as you remeber him he will be alive in your heart for ever, people only die when we forget them. hope this help you a bit. Hugs Mary - evian793 oleander soup Saturday, June 28, 2008 10:06 PM Thanks to all Just wanted to thank all of you for your reply's to my dad's death. Since this has happened the negligence that took this wonderful person from us I NEVER want to go into a hospital ever! Having problems with Cody's low white blood cell count and red blood cell count also so the vet put him on Orbax again. Tried to order some oleander again as setcom said they removed the information but they did not, same thing happened. I have tried to get this but have given up now. If anyone can get the pills for me I will gladly pay you for them. All our best, Bonnie & Cody Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for fuel-efficient used cars. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Bonnie, My grandmother died of cancer just before my last baby was born, 10 months after she was diagnosed. My grandfather lived for another 10 years after she died, but was terrified of the diagnosis of cancer. He had a couple of polyps removed from his vocal cords, and the doctor told him they were cancer. He immediately went into congestive heart failure and died 3 months later, not from cancer, but from stress-induced congestive heart failure. He was in his late 80s, around 87 I believe, and, in my opinion, the doctor could have just stayed quiet about the diagnosis and I'm sure we would have had my grandfather around for many more years. My grandfather died in 1999, and my son lost his very best friend when he passed. Since that time, I've been striving to learn as much about natural healing as possible so we won't have to rely on medications, guesses from the medical profession, invasive procedures that may or may not produce a credible diagnosis, and the general ineptitude that seems to pervade the medical community now more than ever. Bless you in your loss. In time, your heart will heal. In the meantime, smile a lot, through the tears, at the wonderful life you had with that wonderful man who was your dad, and look in the mirror and be proud of the child he raised. Shara oleander soup , evian793 wrote: > > Just wanted to thank all of you for your reply's to my dad's death. Since > this has happened the negligence that took this wonderful person from us I > NEVER want to go into a hospital ever! > > Having problems with Cody's low white blood cell count and red blood cell > count also so the vet put him on Orbax again. Tried to order some oleander > again as setcom said they removed the information but they did not, same thing > happened. I have tried to get this but have given up now. > > If anyone can get the pills for me I will gladly pay you for them. > > All our best, > > Bonnie & Cody > > > > **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for > fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used? ncid=aolaut00050000000007) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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