And to you......

[Guest guest]

Dear Lainey.....you are most welcome. I'm in your corner, dear woman.

Sending a hug,

Cathleen

 

Cathleen Springer

Certified Homeopath & Principal Instructor

HOMEOPATHY TELESEMINAR TRAINING

www.cathleenspringer.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " Lainey " <Lainey513 wrote:

>

>

> Dear Cathleen..

> thank you so very much for your compassionate letter, it brought

> tears to my eyes when I read it the first time and each time that I

> reread it.. that someone understood what I was saying to the depth

> you did touches me deeply..

> Most days lately I have not been understood to say the least..

> sometimes not even understanding myself.. Your letter spoke volumes

> directly to my heart reflecting what I have been feeling but perhaps

> unable to get in touch with thru the fog..

> You are so right that fear in this type of situation is illusion and

> I saw that clearly today thru yet another screaming match that I

> basically walked away from, knowing fear tactics were being used but

> had lost their controling effect. Which made me feel strong.

> I have been to a number of 12 step groups in the past, including the

> codependant groups, which did give wonderful information and help at

> the time. Right now some health issues prevent me from going again

> but its definately something to keep in mind for later on..

> I definately can relate when you said:

> " my own patterns of behavior which were holding me in the stuck

> > mode. "

> I know it all has to do with my inablity to change my own patterns

> and choose better for myself. I have felt so stuck for so long

> knowing it was my own choosing but not sure how to change it.. even

> writing that sounds silly and absurd, nevertheless true and real... I

> am not sure how to get in touch with what those patterns are and how

> to change them as of yet, but even knowing to look at that further is

> a help, and I thank you for that suggestion also..

> Staying positive and Believeing I know are two important steps that I

> need to work on and keep getting back to.

> Thank you again so much with all my heart for your uplifting words

> and caring. I truly appreciate it..

>

> Lainey

>

> , " cathleensp "

> <cathleen@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Lainey, Dear Heart.....As I read your message, I felt the

> depth and resonance of every

> > word. I hereby reach out to you to remind you that the niggling

> you feel within about

> > trying to muster " enough self esteem and courage to leave a 38-year

> abusive marriage " is

> > your own Wisdom and Inner Light wanting to shine on through. I

> know that you have

> > everything you need right there within yourself. You have

> generations of courage and

> > strength within your DNA. This thing called life (which I see as

> our own personal day-to-

> > day journal or manuscript, composed by the choices we make) is

> yours for the remaking.

> >

> > That first step away from the abusive familiar can appear shakey

> and frightening, but fear

> > in this regard is almost always an illusion. (and if bodily injury

> is a concern, there are

> > always Safe Houses to which a woman can relocate) I also know that

> there are many

> > supportive groups available to you to help you take that first

> step. Back in the day in my

> > own story, I found great strength in Al-Anon (Adults Children of

> Alcolhics) meetings,

> > wherein I learned to undo my own patterns of behavior which were

> holding me in the stuck

> > mode.

> >

> > There is power and joy inherent in the " New Lainey " journey ahead.

> It is never too late to

> > have a good life. Your realizing and wanting it is the all

> important first step....as

> > everything begins in mind. Believe. See the life you truly want

> and deserve. Allow for the

> > support you need. Take action on your own behalf and be that

> example to your children

> > that your heart wishes you to be.

> >

> > Praying for you,

> > Cathleen Springer

> > Certified Homeopath & Principal Instructor

> > HOMEOPATHY TELESEMINAR TRAINING

> > www.cathleenspringer.com

> >

> >

> >

>