12 Step Program

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Regarding your depression, etc., do you have a sponsor in your 12-

step program?

 

If not, at your next meeting/gathering, start asking about it and

seek one out. It's helpful to talk to someone who has been there.

 

These kind of issues take time -- and like it says, you have " to work

the program. " A quick answer is not in the offing, because there are

a lot a layers you have to work through on your own to be able to

discover why it is you choose the men you choose.

 

Have you read the book " Co-Dependent No More " by Melody Beattie?

That was such a difficult book for me to read -- I could only get

through half a chapter at a time. It's a crucial eye-opener.

 

After reading several pages, then it's a good time to talk with your

sponsor. Commit yourself to working it through with someone.

 

Dede