Crystals Associated with Heartbreak and Healing

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Crystals Associated with Heartbreak and Healing

 

Heart Break is the realization of our greatness. Heartbreak is one of

the most trying, difficult and hurtful processes we can go through.

Heart break is not just an emotional state but can induce real patho-

physiologic feelings of pain in the heart. It has been said that

the " most sexual organ is the brain and the organ of most

intelligence is truly the heart " . We often think a lot with our

hearts.

 

Heart Chakra Energy

 

When the energy of our Heart center or Chakra is in balance, we are

compassionate, loving, empathetic, altruistic, peaceful, in balance

and truly have love for ourselves. When the heart is out of balance

in excess conditions, we tend to express issues of co-dependency,

poor boundaries with often demanding, clinging, jealous and overly

sacrificing tendencies.

 

When the heart is out of balance in deficient conditions, we tend to

become anti-social, withdrawn, critical, judgmental, intolerant of

ourselves and others, lonely, isolated and depressed.

 

Heartbreak has a tendency to put our lives in perspective. Whether it

is with the breakup of a romantic relationship or lose of a loved

one, we need to take a look with an introspective eye. That is we

need to take a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's

own thoughts and feelings.

 

Our Belief System

 

The strength in our heartbreak really depends on the strength of our

belief systems about the relationship. Our mental attitudes and

beliefs set up our perspective and expectations. This in turn dictate

our relationships. With everything. With our self as human beings,

with life, with our friends, family, lovers, business associates. Our

attitudes dictate our relationships with our own emotions, with our

bodies, gender, and sexuality. Even with our concept of God. We

determine in our minds what constitutes success or failure in any

relationship.

 

" As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us

happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims. "

 

It is important to remember that we are steering the ship. No matter

what external situations can happen to you, you have the ability to

take control of " how " you choose to look at this situation that has

been presented to you.

 

" Who Am I "

 

You have now been given a rare opportunity to look at yourself. To

observe your true self without any co dependent entities around you.

Now is your chance. Who are 'You'? I will not sit here and tell

you, " It happens, get over it! " No. It is hard. As seekers of light

and love, we take the human traits we formed early in life to use

these traits on our journey. The journey we seek is one of a

Spiritual journey. We seek to better ourselves, to follow our dreams,

to seek out our light that will take us to a higher plain. Depending

on our beliefs we discover along our journey the outside influences

such as people, places, things: such as money, property, and prestige

or external manifestations such as looks, talent and intelligence.

 

These external dependencies or often, co-dependencies can distract us

and make us feel better temporarily but they cannot address the core

issue - they cannot fulfill our Spiritually journey. They can give us

ego-strength but not self-worth. True self-worth comes from accessing

the eternal Truth within, from remembering the state of Grace that is

our True condition. The real reason we have set out on our journey in

the first place.

 

We Need To Love

 

For it is Love and the lose of Love which truly allows us the

greatest steps in our journey as a Spiritual being. The fact, that

you yourself have loved is all that is required.

 

" Energy Follows Thought "

 

" With each beat of our heart and every breath that we take, we get a

new opportunity to make a choice as to where we want to direct the

energy of our lives. Every new moment offers a possibility to open a

crack in the door that brings forth the power of the universe. The

ever-present " now " is always offering new opportunities to improve

our lives. As we verbalize and visualize during our prayer meditation

sessions, the now is always turning the present into the past.

Scientists have recently determined that the human brain takes an

average of three seconds to process and transfer information from

reality to memory, to change the present to the past. Each new moment

gives us another chance to reevaluate in the light of the present,

giving us an opportunity to make new choices and decisions as to what

we want to do with our lives. " 1

 

Energy follows thought. Where your thoughts are directed, there is

where your energy will go and manifest. Grieving losses are important

because it allows us to 'free-up' energy that is bound to the person,

object, or experience, so that we might re-invest that energy

elsewhere.

 

Crystals Associated with Heartbreak and Healing

 

Here is just a sampling of the some of the best crystals for healing

the heart energy:

 

Apache Tears

 

Properties: The stones are said to bring good luck to those

possessing them. Black obsidian is a powerful Meditation stone. The

purpose of this gemstone is to bring to light that which is hidden

from the conscious mind. It dissolves suppressed negative patterns

and purifies them. It can create a somewhat radical behavior change

as new positive attitudes replace old, negative, egocentric

patterns.The Apache tears are also said to balance the emotional

nature and protect one from being taken advantage of. It can be

carried as an amulet to stimulate success in business endeavors. It

is used at the Root Chakra for grounding and protection.

 

Folk Remedies: Eases and releases pain, loss, sadness, anger, to help

heal and go on with life. For looking within, protection, vision

quest/purpose. Gently grounds and unblocks lower body and endocrine

glands/Chakra. Helps healing.

 

 

Aventurine

 

Properties: Aventurine seems to enable abundance and brings good luck

and money, joy, balance and clarity. Universal love, truth and

prosperity are traits we can gain by working with Aventurine.

Spiritually, Aventurine protects the heart, enhances creativity and

working with spirit guides. Green is the color of healing and

Aventurine, as a member of the quartz family, has a concentrated

ability to dissolve emotional blockage. It's a particularly effective

crystal for emotional healing and is especially helpful when worn for

this purpose or placed on the heart center during Chakra balancing.

It helps to balance the emotions, and is one of the best stones to

wear or carry during stressful periods. It can also be used in

crystal layouts when stress is internalized in the solar plexus area.

It is also used with stones which have a seemingly more harsh energy.

Aventurine is often referred to as the all-purpose healer. This means

not only that it is considered by many to be good for physical

disorders, but that it is healing on all levels. It helps us to find

solutions to life's problems.

 

Folk Remedies: Aventurine works with lungs, heart, adrenal glands,

calming troubled emotions, and sexual organs. It is known as

the " heart healer " . Historically also known to draw out heat of

fevers, inflammation, nervous system, stress. In your bath water, a

soft, soothing stone for general healing. Heals emotional

pain/fear/imbalance by dissolving blocks in the heart Chakra.

 

 

Chrysocolla/Gem Silica

 

Properites: Gentle, soothing, friendly. Excellent for Heart Chakra;

flushes and heals heart blocks (loss, hurt, guilt, fear...) for

allowingness, flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart,

patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing daily. On Throat,

expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity, thyroid. Also,

heart bloodsugar, and emotional balance. High conductivity from

copper draws out pain, heat (fevers, inflammations, arthritis...),

Excellent therapeutic assistance for healing loss, incest, other

traumas. Cleanses auric field. Dreams and Earth healing.

 

Folk Remedies: Relieves hypertension and stressful conditions due to

fear or gilt. Helps one feel more comfortable speaking the truth.

Help develop personal confidence. Historically used by musicians,

perhaps because of its reputation for having healing properties for

throat and lungs.

 

 

Chrysoprase

 

Properties: Bright translucent green chalcedony. Uplifts heart

Chakra. Greater flexibility, wisdom, generosity, self-confidence.

Heals depression, excess self-focus, emotions/sexual imbalance.

Placed on heart, neck, or on brown for meditation.

 

Folk Remedies: Helps one achieve greater personal insight, feel more

clam, become less egotistical, and more open to new surroundings and

situations. Stimulates creativity and draws out unknown talents.

 

 

Coral

 

Properties: Calcium and calcite. Coral brings diplomacy and

concurrence, quiets emotions, brings peace to innerself. Facilitates

intuition, imagination, visualization, expedite, accelerate the

transfer of knowledge. Strengthens both circulatory and bone

structure in the body.

 

Folk Remedies: Stimulates tissue regeneration and nourish blood

cells. Helps with disorders of the spinal, alimentary canals, nervous

system and thalamus. Different colors of Coral can be used alone, in

combination, or all together. Sympathetic to both the skeletal

structure and the circulatory system. Good stone for ailments of the

bones and blood such as arthritis and anemia. Also benefits the

cleansing organs and thymus. Helps battle mental illnesses. Has a

true link with the past and can pass knowledge along.

 

Pink: Heart Chakra, increases sensitivity, caring, compassion.

 

White: Soothes; heals meridians, stress, smell ability, nerves.

 

 

Fluorite

 

Properties: All rainbow colors. Usually translucent and come in

shades of white, brown, blue, yellow, purple, red, or colorless.

Important balancer, healer. Opens heart (especially green), Throat

Brow, Crown Chakra for clarity, overview, seeing additional

truths/realities.

 

Folk Remedies: Spleen bones, teeth, lungs, detoxification, anxiety,

insomnia. Benefits the teeth and bones. People with arthritis,

rheumatism, or spinal injuries have reported some relief from their

conditions when they employ Fluorite in their healing regimen. Helps

to rekindle sexual appetite and heighten intuitive powers. It is

suggested using Fluorite in conjunction with Calcite and Pyrite.

Assists in fighting mental disorder and gaining spiritual awakening.

Helps one become more aware of the higher levels of reality and can

anchor and free one from overstimulation on the psychic plane.

 

Clear and Purple: Objectivity; clears the way for new things,

uplifting, aura cleanse, 3rd eye, eyesight, sinuses; repels colds.

Enhances other gems.

 

Green: Stills mind and heart, harmonizes and recharges all Chakra.

Green Fluorite is a valuable helper in grounding excess energies.

 

 

Kunzite

 

Properties: Kunzite is a powerful, high level stone. It is used

against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts.

Most effective on the Heart Chakra , it opens the emotional heart and

spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and

compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional

balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite

is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it

deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing...being centered

emotionally and spiritually. Strengthens healers and teachers.

 

Folk Remedies: This crystal is recommended for reducing depression,

mood swings, stress, radiation. Used extensively by the medical

profession for psychiatric disorders. Good for the circulatory system

and the lungs. A soothing stone that can help you adjust to the

pressures of modern life.

 

 

Quartz

 

Properties: Quartz is the Master Healer and the " stone of power " !

Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to

cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and

is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is

for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is

effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for

transformation in healing and in all levels of change

(mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates

the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the

highest healing frequency. Quartz works with All Chakra and master

gland for balancing, cleansing and healing. It is the perfect stone

for complete Aura balancing.

 

Folk Remedies: Quartz can be used to facilitate both speaking and

receiving information from the spiritual world, masters, teachers and

healers. Stimulates positive thought and healing. Quartz is

considered Yin or Androgynous. Quartz is often used in healing

remedies such as crystal elixirs or solarized water, in clusters

during meditation, in reiki grids or laying of stones in a web around

you. They are used to clean the aura and balance chakra energies.

 

 

Andrew Pacholyk, MS, L.A.c

Peacefulmind.com

Therapies for healing

mind, body, spirit

[Guest guest]

Thank you for this information, I really need it right now. Can you tell me any

other remedies for dealing with a broken heart? I am currently pregnant and

just left the father, I know its not good for the baby for me to be this sad all

the time.

 

yogiguruji <yogiguruji wrote: Good Morning!

 

Crystals Associated with Heartbreak and Healing

 

Heart Break is the realization of our greatness. Heartbreak is one of

the most trying, difficult and hurtful processes we can go through.

Heart break is not just an emotional state but can induce real patho-

physiologic feelings of pain in the heart. It has been said that

the " most sexual organ is the brain and the organ of most

intelligence is truly the heart " . We often think a lot with our

hearts.

 

Heart Chakra Energy

 

When the energy of our Heart center or Chakra is in balance, we are

compassionate, loving, empathetic, altruistic, peaceful, in balance

and truly have love for ourselves. When the heart is out of balance

in excess conditions, we tend to express issues of co-dependency,

poor boundaries with often demanding, clinging, jealous and overly

sacrificing tendencies.

 

When the heart is out of balance in deficient conditions, we tend to

become anti-social, withdrawn, critical, judgmental, intolerant of

ourselves and others, lonely, isolated and depressed.

 

Heartbreak has a tendency to put our lives in perspective. Whether it

is with the breakup of a romantic relationship or lose of a loved

one, we need to take a look with an introspective eye. That is we

need to take a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's

own thoughts and feelings.

 

Our Belief System

 

The strength in our heartbreak really depends on the strength of our

belief systems about the relationship. Our mental attitudes and

beliefs set up our perspective and expectations. This in turn dictate

our relationships. With everything. With our self as human beings,

with life, with our friends, family, lovers, business associates. Our

attitudes dictate our relationships with our own emotions, with our

bodies, gender, and sexuality. Even with our concept of God. We

determine in our minds what constitutes success or failure in any

relationship.

 

" As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us

happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims. "

 

It is important to remember that we are steering the ship. No matter

what external situations can happen to you, you have the ability to

take control of " how " you choose to look at this situation that has

been presented to you.

 

" Who Am I "

 

You have now been given a rare opportunity to look at yourself. To

observe your true self without any co dependent entities around you.

Now is your chance. Who are 'You'? I will not sit here and tell

you, " It happens, get over it! " No. It is hard. As seekers of light

and love, we take the human traits we formed early in life to use

these traits on our journey. The journey we seek is one of a

Spiritual journey. We seek to better ourselves, to follow our dreams,

to seek out our light that will take us to a higher plain. Depending

on our beliefs we discover along our journey the outside influences

such as people, places, things: such as money, property, and prestige

or external manifestations such as looks, talent and intelligence.

 

These external dependencies or often, co-dependencies can distract us

and make us feel better temporarily but they cannot address the core

issue - they cannot fulfill our Spiritually journey. They can give us

ego-strength but not self-worth. True self-worth comes from accessing

the eternal Truth within, from remembering the state of Grace that is

our True condition. The real reason we have set out on our journey in

the first place.

 

We Need To Love

 

For it is Love and the lose of Love which truly allows us the

greatest steps in our journey as a Spiritual being. The fact, that

you yourself have loved is all that is required.

 

" Energy Follows Thought "

 

" With each beat of our heart and every breath that we take, we get a

new opportunity to make a choice as to where we want to direct the

energy of our lives. Every new moment offers a possibility to open a

crack in the door that brings forth the power of the universe. The

ever-present " now " is always offering new opportunities to improve

our lives. As we verbalize and visualize during our prayer meditation

sessions, the now is always turning the present into the past.

Scientists have recently determined that the human brain takes an

average of three seconds to process and transfer information from

reality to memory, to change the present to the past. Each new moment

gives us another chance to reevaluate in the light of the present,

giving us an opportunity to make new choices and decisions as to what

we want to do with our lives. " 1

 

Energy follows thought. Where your thoughts are directed, there is

where your energy will go and manifest. Grieving losses are important

because it allows us to 'free-up' energy that is bound to the person,

object, or experience, so that we might re-invest that energy

elsewhere.

 

Crystals Associated with Heartbreak and Healing

 

Here is just a sampling of the some of the best crystals for healing

the heart energy:

 

Apache Tears

 

Properties: The stones are said to bring good luck to those

possessing them. Black obsidian is a powerful Meditation stone. The

purpose of this gemstone is to bring to light that which is hidden

from the conscious mind. It dissolves suppressed negative patterns

and purifies them. It can create a somewhat radical behavior change

as new positive attitudes replace old, negative, egocentric

patterns.The Apache tears are also said to balance the emotional

nature and protect one from being taken advantage of. It can be

carried as an amulet to stimulate success in business endeavors. It

is used at the Root Chakra for grounding and protection.

 

Folk Remedies: Eases and releases pain, loss, sadness, anger, to help

heal and go on with life. For looking within, protection, vision

quest/purpose. Gently grounds and unblocks lower body and endocrine

glands/Chakra. Helps healing.

 

Aventurine

 

Properties: Aventurine seems to enable abundance and brings good luck

and money, joy, balance and clarity. Universal love, truth and

prosperity are traits we can gain by working with Aventurine.

Spiritually, Aventurine protects the heart, enhances creativity and

working with spirit guides. Green is the color of healing and

Aventurine, as a member of the quartz family, has a concentrated

ability to dissolve emotional blockage. It's a particularly effective

crystal for emotional healing and is especially helpful when worn for

this purpose or placed on the heart center during Chakra balancing.

It helps to balance the emotions, and is one of the best stones to

wear or carry during stressful periods. It can also be used in

crystal layouts when stress is internalized in the solar plexus area.

It is also used with stones which have a seemingly more harsh energy.

Aventurine is often referred to as the all-purpose healer. This means

not only that it is considered by many to be good for physical

disorders, but that it is healing on all levels. It helps us to find

solutions to life's problems.

 

Folk Remedies: Aventurine works with lungs, heart, adrenal glands,

calming troubled emotions, and sexual organs. It is known as

the " heart healer " . Historically also known to draw out heat of

fevers, inflammation, nervous system, stress. In your bath water, a

soft, soothing stone for general healing. Heals emotional

pain/fear/imbalance by dissolving blocks in the heart Chakra.

 

Chrysocolla/Gem Silica

 

Properites: Gentle, soothing, friendly. Excellent for Heart Chakra;

flushes and heals heart blocks (loss, hurt, guilt, fear...) for

allowingness, flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart,

patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing daily. On Throat,

expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity, thyroid. Also,

heart bloodsugar, and emotional balance. High conductivity from

copper draws out pain, heat (fevers, inflammations, arthritis...),

Excellent therapeutic assistance for healing loss, incest, other

traumas. Cleanses auric field. Dreams and Earth healing.

 

Folk Remedies: Relieves hypertension and stressful conditions due to

fear or gilt. Helps one feel more comfortable speaking the truth.

Help develop personal confidence. Historically used by musicians,

perhaps because of its reputation for having healing properties for

throat and lungs.

 

Chrysoprase

 

Properties: Bright translucent green chalcedony. Uplifts heart

Chakra. Greater flexibility, wisdom, generosity, self-confidence.

Heals depression, excess self-focus, emotions/sexual imbalance.

Placed on heart, neck, or on brown for meditation.

 

Folk Remedies: Helps one achieve greater personal insight, feel more

clam, become less egotistical, and more open to new surroundings and

situations. Stimulates creativity and draws out unknown talents.

 

Coral

 

Properties: Calcium and calcite. Coral brings diplomacy and

concurrence, quiets emotions, brings peace to innerself. Facilitates

intuition, imagination, visualization, expedite, accelerate the

transfer of knowledge. Strengthens both circulatory and bone

structure in the body.

 

Folk Remedies: Stimulates tissue regeneration and nourish blood

cells. Helps with disorders of the spinal, alimentary canals, nervous

system and thalamus. Different colors of Coral can be used alone, in

combination, or all together. Sympathetic to both the skeletal

structure and the circulatory system. Good stone for ailments of the

bones and blood such as arthritis and anemia. Also benefits the

cleansing organs and thymus. Helps battle mental illnesses. Has a

true link with the past and can pass knowledge along.

 

Pink: Heart Chakra, increases sensitivity, caring, compassion.

 

White: Soothes; heals meridians, stress, smell ability, nerves.

 

Fluorite

 

Properties: All rainbow colors. Usually translucent and come in

shades of white, brown, blue, yellow, purple, red, or colorless.

Important balancer, healer. Opens heart (especially green), Throat

Brow, Crown Chakra for clarity, overview, seeing additional

truths/realities.

 

Folk Remedies: Spleen bones, teeth, lungs, detoxification, anxiety,

insomnia. Benefits the teeth and bones. People with arthritis,

rheumatism, or spinal injuries have reported some relief from their

conditions when they employ Fluorite in their healing regimen. Helps

to rekindle sexual appetite and heighten intuitive powers. It is

suggested using Fluorite in conjunction with Calcite and Pyrite.

Assists in fighting mental disorder and gaining spiritual awakening.

Helps one become more aware of the higher levels of reality and can

anchor and free one from overstimulation on the psychic plane.

 

Clear and Purple: Objectivity; clears the way for new things,

uplifting, aura cleanse, 3rd eye, eyesight, sinuses; repels colds.

Enhances other gems.

 

Green: Stills mind and heart, harmonizes and recharges all Chakra.

Green Fluorite is a valuable helper in grounding excess energies.

 

Kunzite

 

Properties: Kunzite is a powerful, high level stone. It is used

against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts.

Most effective on the Heart Chakra , it opens the emotional heart and

spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and

compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional

balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite

is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it

deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing...being centered

emotionally and spiritually. Strengthens healers and teachers.

 

Folk Remedies: This crystal is recommended for reducing depression,

mood swings, stress, radiation. Used extensively by the medical

profession for psychiatric disorders. Good for the circulatory system

and the lungs. A soothing stone that can help you adjust to the

pressures of modern life.

 

Quartz

 

Properties: Quartz is the Master Healer and the " stone of power " !

Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to

cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and

is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is

for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is

effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for

transformation in healing and in all levels of change

(mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates

the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the

highest healing frequency. Quartz works with All Chakra and master

gland for balancing, cleansing and healing. It is the perfect stone

for complete Aura balancing.

 

Folk Remedies: Quartz can be used to facilitate both speaking and

receiving information from the spiritual world, masters, teachers and

healers. Stimulates positive thought and healing. Quartz is

considered Yin or Androgynous. Quartz is often used in healing

remedies such as crystal elixirs or solarized water, in clusters

during meditation, in reiki grids or laying of stones in a web around

you. They are used to clean the aura and balance chakra energies.

 

Andrew Pacholyk, MS, L.A.c

Peacefulmind.com

Therapies for healing

mind, body, spirit

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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