Guest guest Posted May 2, 2007 Report Share Posted May 2, 2007 You can manage the stress in your life by accepting mistakes as gifts - Michel After all who has not made a mistake? Of one sort or another. Be tolerant and compassionately forgiving of yourself. No one person is in control of others. No one person should seek to control another person's life, decisions or choices. No one is here to intervene on behalf of anyone. Each person must be responsible for their own choices. Making mistakes and learning to move beyond them is part of the learning process. This is what makes the dynamics of relationship so challenging. You want to be heard without saying what you feel and you don't say how you feel because you are worried about how that will be taken by your partner. Doesn't that sound familiar? Indeed, so. You must live in the 'here and now' and allow others the same respect and freedom in connecting to their truth. You have to be able to hear them, just as you would like them to hear you - it is up to each person not to interfere and to allow each other person to know that what they are doing is right for them, because it is their choice at that moment. Each person must allow himself or herself to make their own mistakes and to learn from the consequences of those mistakes. Be there to be supportive. Be tolerant and do not be threatened by others who inspire to be aliken to you. There is enough love and knowledge in the universe that all who `seek' can share in its bountiful resources. You and only you can bring the energy that you align with to fruition and forbearance. It is up to you to speak the knowledge you hold within and to be light for others. Be proud of your gifts and be proud of who you are. Michel http://health.StressManagement- throughChanneling/ http://health.StressManagement- throughChanneling/ A group about stress management through the study of channeling, meditation and the sharing of universal concepts. http://www.davidreidlowell.com http://www.davidreidlowell.org Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 2, 2007 Report Share Posted May 2, 2007 That sounds like something Richard Bach said in his novel Illusions. Here is a story about that of my own. I was dating an alcoholic and was very unhappy. When I discovered I was pregnant he seemed so happy about it, I thought he would get serious about quitting, but he didn't. So I felt I had to leave him, and for a while afterwards I felt so awful. Here I was, alone and pregnant, and I knew I could never expect to get any help from the father of my baby. I felt so lonely and depressed, and wondered how I could ever make the mistake of choosing to have a baby with such a loser. Then one night as I was laying in bed it dawned on me. If I had not gotten pregnant and had not had the welfare of a child to think about, I might have stayed with a man who made me miserable and did not care about me as much as he cared about alcohol all my life. This baby saved me from a miserable fate. After I realized that I felt so much better that I slept a whole night through for the first time since I left him and after that my appetite came back. There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. We seek problems because we need their gifts. ~Richard Bach healinghandsjf1 <healinghandsjf1 wrote: You can manage the stress in your life by accepting mistakes as gifts - Michel After all who has not made a mistake? Of one sort or another. Be tolerant and compassionately forgiving of yourself. No one person is in control of others. No one person should seek to control another person's life, decisions or choices. No one is here to intervene on behalf of anyone. Each person must be responsible for their own choices. Making mistakes and learning to move beyond them is part of the learning process. This is what makes the dynamics of relationship so challenging. You want to be heard without saying what you feel and you don't say how you feel because you are worried about how that will be taken by your partner. Doesn't that sound familiar? Indeed, so. You must live in the 'here and now' and allow others the same respect and freedom in connecting to their truth. You have to be able to hear them, just as you would like them to hear you - it is up to each person not to interfere and to allow each other person to know that what they are doing is right for them, because it is their choice at that moment. Each person must allow himself or herself to make their own mistakes and to learn from the consequences of those mistakes. Be there to be supportive. Be tolerant and do not be threatened by others who inspire to be aliken to you. There is enough love and knowledge in the universe that all who `seek' can share in its bountiful resources. You and only you can bring the energy that you align with to fruition and forbearance. It is up to you to speak the knowledge you hold within and to be light for others. Be proud of your gifts and be proud of who you are. Michel http://health.StressManagement- throughChanneling/ http://health.StressManagement- throughChanneling/ A group about stress management through the study of channeling, meditation and the sharing of universal concepts. http://www.davidreidlowell.com http://www.davidreidlowell.org Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? Check outnew cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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