Guest guest Posted April 9, 2007 Report Share Posted April 9, 2007 Four year olds tend to be active. Regarding testing and the whole ADHD thing, I'd do some more research if I were you. I'd also suggest for either you or your husband to observe your son at the day care a few times, without warning the day care ahead of schedule. It might be that your child is not happy there for a number of reasons. And it might be he has some transitory behavioral problems they don't want to deal with (let's face it, some kids are constantly testing you!!) A review of his diet is in order -- especially sugar. But you also need to watch the soy, for it has estrogenic properties that could also cause a problem!! Multi-vitamins might be a safer route for getting calcium in him. And regarding medications for ADHD ... yes, there are actually doctors who will put children on those at the young age of four!!!! I was astounded! I'm still checking into all that (I went to an ADHD for children meeting when I was diagnosed with adult ADD ... I was assured by that group that some very young children need meds ... I still have a very hard time with the idea of putting children that young on psychiatric drugs ... but then I've not had to deal with any child that out of control). Your child might not be ready for a daycare situation -- maybe he'd do better in a private home without that many children around. All kids are different, they don't all fit the same mold. Dede Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2007 Report Share Posted April 10, 2007 Bravo to my fellow Texan for this reply. First off contact your legislators about the school playing doctor. Many states have put in restrictions on schools for just this problem. Teachers (in day care setting this requires very little if any training beyond CPR) have little disciplinary tools, so today we dumb them down and break their spirit with drugs. How hypocritical! Have a ridalin and go to your DARE class like a good zombie! I published articles about this misdiagnosis late last year. Not very popular, but fact filled not the less. I guess easy does it in todays' parenting world edgetexlady <rbright wrote: Four year olds tend to be active. Regarding testing and the whole ADHD thing, I'd do some more research if I were you. I'd also suggest for either you or your husband to observe your son at the day care a few times, without warning the day care ahead of schedule. It might be that your child is not happy there for a number of reasons. And it might be he has some transitory behavioral problems they don't want to deal with (let's face it, some kids are constantly testing you!!) A review of his diet is in order -- especially sugar. But you also need to watch the soy, for it has estrogenic properties that could also cause a problem!! Multi-vitamins might be a safer route for getting calcium in him. And regarding medications for ADHD ... yes, there are actually doctors who will put children on those at the young age of four!!!! I was astounded! I'm still checking into all that (I went to an ADHD for children meeting when I was diagnosed with adult ADD ... I was assured by that group that some very young children need meds ... I still have a very hard time with the idea of putting children that young on psychiatric drugs ... but then I've not had to deal with any child that out of control). Your child might not be ready for a daycare situation -- maybe he'd do better in a private home without that many children around. All kids are different, they don't all fit the same mold. Dede David DeDominicis, LMT 248 East Southwest Parkway Lewisville, Tx. healing_hands75067 ph 972-782-2746 cell 469-734-9512 We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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