Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 Body Dismorphic Disorder by Michel through David Reid Lowell Greetings to all our friends and loved ones within this reality and all other realities. Time again we are asked about body images. There is one pervasive undercurrent and that is body dismorphic disorder which is psychological and neuro-biologically caused. This disorder is acquired. It can be a hereditary disorder or there can be a latent causation that is put into action through how an individual is taught to see themselves by those in their environment. So we would say that this can be an acquired trait of addiction through learned behavior. Individuals who suffer from extreme sexual or emotional anxiety can displace their feelings onto their appearance because they feel they can manage their appearance and control their physical bodies when they feel they have no control over other aspects of their life. Feelings of sexual inadequacy and emotional inadequacy are usually acquired over time caused by those who have positions of power or control – family members and friends – over the individuals. And the individuals feel they cannot meet that level of example or expectation and that he or she may also be repelled by the expectation that is placed on them. This can happen when younger individuals know they do have the gender preference that is expected, or the gender identity, or one parent or the other may be overt with their sexuality and displays of emotional outburst. One of the outward signs of early addiction displacement is meticulous grooming. As time passes the grooming and attention to self-details becomes a destructive behavior. This is an early attempt for a younger individual to start manifesting control over themselves when they feel they have no control over any other aspect of their life. Trying to gain a solid ground where they can feel better about themselves actually leaves the individual feeling less complete and through this process they will try to make themselves symmetrical. This is when, over time, they begin to feel that one side of their face or body is not the same as the other side and that they are not symmetrical and, therefore, not balanced or attractive and again, more importantly, not desirable. The concern becomes if they are not desirable then how can anyone love them. But how could anyone love them when they cannot love themselves? And this is the process of addictive behaviors so they try to get themselves to match. They try to get their separate physical halves to match and the representational standard of this is that it is their psyche that is fractured. " But if... " IF they can get the outside to match, either physically or emotionally, then they can feel better on the inside. Symmetry in mates is highly desirable and attractive because it is a sexually based attraction that speaks to the survival of the species. This is not gender preference or gender identity specific because all individuals want to survive and survival is guaranteed, or at least a protracted longevity is, if you can pair up with a more dominant and superior individual. In animals, being beautiful, symmetrical, balanced, fit and dominant signals fitness to procreate and the ability to survive. The survival instinct even in human beings is strong and humans survive through their perception of controlled perfection. This makes the individual feel superior and as if they have control over their pain, flaws, or inferior aspects of self. If the individual can control themselves, and what addict does not think they are in control - and this is why control is an illusion – they have power over their pain or flaws and through that perception of control they feel like they can manage themselves or make that pain or flaw totally disappear and usually their true self in the process. Oftentimes, and more times than not, anorexia and bulimia are confused with appearance dismorphic disorder. The roles of victim and perpetrator are not a contractual pre-life agreement that we support. In many cases and through life circumstances such as these the victim and perpetrator become one in the same. The nature of any form of addiction, self-medicating, self- destructive or otherwise, is that the very same behavior you use to survive it or control it in an attempt to mask it, making you think you are healing it. It is the same behavior that keeps you connected to the addiction. Again we will share with you that the process of cellular rejuvenation right now can be accomplished by the natural stimulation of cellular activities through exercise, by artificial stimulation through drug and chemical enhancement therapies, or by introducing new cells that will divide and repair or replace the old cells that were impaired or limited in their function as is the case with current stem cell transplant therapies. But most importantly it is through your THOUGHT, your thought that works on a quantum level where multiple realities and probabilities exist. It is through this quantum thought process that the potential exists for you to actually reshape the physicality you know. At once and simultaneously, thought creates many potential realities and they can be shifted at any moment in time with nothing more than the choice you make, yes, indeed. The choice you make, the decision you make, the reaction you give into at the moment of that realization, new probabilities dimensionally manifest. What you believe is nothing more than an illusion that has been reinforced. And like reinforced memories, these beliefs become your reality. Your feelings of love, anger, hatred and resentment can actually manifest within your physical body releasing chemicals and initiating cellular changes. Here are but a few examples. There can also be too many cells and the overproduction of cells can impair the aging process. With overweight people there can be a build up of cells in subcutaneous tissues causing a potential for insulin resistance. Some cells can build up because of proteins and impair joint function and impair filtering organs. The other section of cells that can build and become out of balance are the white cells or cells that would relate to the immune system and the body's defenses. This process of belief and quantum thought- projected reality can play a key part in Crohn's Disease. Crohn's disease is a chronic disorder that causes inflammation of the digestive tract; it is usually diagnosed in the individual's early to mid teens. Crohn's disease can affect any area of the GI tract, the bowel, the colon and even the stomach - from the mouth to the anus - but it most commonly affects the lower part of the small intestine. The swelling extends deep into the lining of the affected organ with what appears to be craters or ulcers. The swelling can cause severe pain and can make the intestines pulse frequently, resulting in diarrhea. Like with all digestive dis-easements, the environment, stress and thought and the belief you have about your centeredness can greatly impact this type of disorder. Control is nothing more than an illusion or an attempt to establish boundaries where the individual has felt powerless. And what we are speaking of also extends to one's self-perception. We have always reinforced to you that your thought becomes your reality. When you penetrate the illusions that others have conditioned you to believe you then can focus on your beliefs and only then can you begin to embrace the `you' that is immortal. Indeed. You are not defined by what others expect of you but rather by what you expect of yourself. You are so much more than the person you see in your reflection. This is why you cannot see yourself with your own eyes, you can only see reflections of yourself. It is through that reflection, which is shaped by how you have been taught to believe and how you treat yourself and others, that gives you the face others react to. Tears cannot compromise your strength. Do not be afraid to be who you are and to release that which needs to be expressed. These concepts are nothing new. They are as old as time itself for in the beginning there was God and then there was you (an extension of God's own image). Nothing of the material world can redefine that image of perfection. You can, at any time you wish, ask and reshape the person you have come to know and in so doing, co-create with God. Dear ones, forgiveness has nothing to do with whom you are forgiving but it has everything to do with you. As long as you hold onto anger, fear, pain, resentment and bitterness you give power to those you are holding those feelings against, and this gives them power and control over you. To forgive means to let yourself become free from their power and control over you. Most dis-eases of this nature that deal with the lower extremities have to do with blockages and more to the point, blocked emotions and not speaking in a calm and clearly defined manner. It is as if the inner child's voice was dismissed and never really heard. It is important to speak without frustration, anger or resentment. Usually when a parent has made this inner child feel peripheral and as if they could not measure up to a certain level of expectation, the ability to establish boundaries becomes problematic. So we would say that you, if this is the you that is aware of these signs of dis- easement, a diet low in acids and rich in gentle earth foods would be good. What do we mean by this? You could take one tablespoon of fresh strongly brewed green tea mid-day and at night take two healthy-sized tablespoons of flaxseed oil that is organic. Then, depending on the reaction over the next couple days lessen the flaxseed oil to one tablespoon. Eat little tomato or acidic fruit; if you choose to, cut it by half with whole-milk and this will make a pink sauce rather then a red sauce that will be easier on your digestive track. Lentils are very easy on the body, as are breads low in gluten or whole-breads that are freshly baked. But more important are liquids, liquids and liquids of light color. It is important to eat dark greens, reds, yellows and purples (except eggplant due to the tough skin and small seeds) - vibrant colors are alive with vitality. Food is life and life is meant to be enjoyed. Many think that all they are worth is quantified by what they have, their physical appearance, what they do for a living or in short, their material worth - because they feel they can measure and control this. These things do not define human greatness. Indeed, not. For think of all the great people throughout your history and how humble they have been. You falsely embrace the ideals of wealth and beauty and you think these things are true because they are set out before you each day. And if you cannot reach or become this ideal of perfection and substance, and note we have used the word substance, you feel lesser then those who embrace these false illusions. It is these very false illusions that lead you to a life of mediocrity and false constructs that give way and collapse upon the realization that there is more to you than you thought. You need to ask yourself what your life is about and what defines you as a person. When this false paradigm falls apart it becomes increasingly deeply unsettling because you now are faced with a new reality and you have to begin to redefine yourself. The separation between what you know and those collapsing ideologies and the new awareness you are discovering creates a feeling of confusion and chaos, but in its place the moment of choice is discovered. Will you move forward or return to the comfort of your old physical and emotional addictions? Those who take the chance and make the choice to move forward and reshape their personal paradigm are choosing to discover an emerging soul that is limitless. To be loved without judgment, to be held with acceptance and to be heard with compassion is to allow the inner child a playground of ageless recovery where there is no harm, just the acceptance that you are the singular entity which will finally allow yourself to breath and rest with assured tenderness. We are all thoughts. It is through our thoughts that our realities are shaped by each of you shaping your synaptic connectors that will reinforce old behaviors or through your choice, your direct reshaping of choice, dynamically modify your brain chemistry and synaptic response creating new, healthy reactions associated with your memories and beliefs. Your old memories will fall aside, the unsettling behaviors will be realigned into new beneficial ones and you will have great potential. Again we will remind you that you are a quantum being. In as much that you live within the physical third dimensional reality. You are also living in many other dimensional realities, all simultaneously occurring. You think that once you have made a decision, you have thought about it and then you decided to make it. But by the time you are aware of the decision you will make, you have already made that decision and how you make that decision is through the established neuro-network that you have created in your brain that has been cumulative up until this point in time. Each interaction you have and how you react to it either reinforces the functional neuro network that you now have established or you can begin to reshape that neuro network, creating new responses through repetition within your brain's neuro synaptic responders. This is why it is so hard to modify and change behavior. Now we will take this one step further for you. You react through emitted energy and space rather than through actual physical to physical contact. Everything that exists is made up of spaces. In an atom the electron orbits around the nucleus. What is in between this? It is not solid, but it is space. What seems to be physical bodies interacting with each other is actually the space between the physical bodies either attracting or repelling each other. And it is the reaction of attraction or repulsion that makes you think that you are connecting with physical substance. Now in saying this we would allude to you that this is why you can reshape your reality. These naturally occurring reactions and interactions happen spontaneously and automatically. It is within their natural framework to function. But when you introduce the variable of perception, meaning that the observer watches the interaction, it changes the outcome of this naturally occurring interaction due to the perception and expectation of the observer. If you view yourself as an entity made up of space and energy then we would propose to you that the space and energy you occupy within your framework of perception interacts simultaneously with all other space and energy around you. This is why it is important to make your choice of determined action one of awareness, so you can choose to react in more respectful ways of the physical world you interact with and live in. Indeed. Your physical world only exists through your perception. On a quantum level all you have created is the illusion of one probability. And that probability that you define as your third dimensional framework really does not exist at all, no more so than any other probability. Indeed. What you think you know or what you think you live does not really exist at all for its existence is solely determined by how you maintain it through your belief system. Once you achieve this awareness you can see that dis-ease or behaviors that are non-beneficial can be greatly affected by the environment you place yourself in. So we would say to you, Reshape your reality by making good choices. Remember, you never have to fear being alone - for you are not. You are connected to all living things, in perfection and in reality. Michel The_Akashic_Records/ The_Akashic_Records/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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