Guest guest Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Any ideas regarding a parent (father) who wishes you were dead and blames you for everything, he just does this and acts out in a rampage to show off his ego (he's not an alcoholic or even an abuser) but he does over the last 14 months he just acts out like this just about every 2 weeks, and he can be just from telling my Mom, "Try out this kelp, it gives you energy".........if I so much as talk about nutrition or heatlh or having a business, I get the same thing. I must work for a corporation, they only listen to doctors, well if that means the family's screwed then they believe that too! Any ideas??? I shouldn't need to move because I can't afford to, I was volunteeering as a Research Analyst for a magazine, but then they got mad because I was using the computer too much or going around on different sites! I was volunteering at the University but too them that didn't mean anything either! What do you do with a parent who blames you for everything and continually yells at you, and in between all that he treats you like a two year old? J. We are of one race, the human race.There are no boundaries or divisions on Earth from Space.We are co-creators of Earth, we are the caretakers of our Planet. Find your next car at Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Do what is necessary to support yourself. Cut out the volunteering and work for money and plan to support yourself. Then get the hell out from the situation that you have to live with for the moment where you are shown no respect. If you are not there, they might still blame you, but, happy you will be because you will not hear it. There are steps you will have to take, plans to make and act on, in order to achieve that. But that is your solution. You can’t change them, you can only change yourself. Ed On Behalf Of Janice Sunday, February 05, 2006 9:52 PM Health Healing The Blame Game Any ideas regarding a parent (father) who wishes you were dead and blames you for everything, he just does this and acts out in a rampage to show off his ego (he's not an alcoholic or even an abuser) but he does over the last 14 months he just acts out like this just about every 2 weeks, and he can be just from telling my Mom, " Try out this kelp, it gives you energy " .........if I so much as talk about nutrition or heatlh or having a business, I get the same thing. I must work for a corporation, they only listen to doctors, well if that means the family's screwed then they believe that too! Any ideas??? I shouldn't need to move because I can't afford to, I was volunteeering as a Research Analyst for a magazine, but then they got mad because I was using the computer too much or going around on different sites! I was volunteering at the University but too them that didn't mean anything either! What do you do with a parent who blames you for everything and continually yells at you, and in between all that he treats you like a two year old? J. We are of one race, the human race. There are no boundaries or divisions on Earth from Space. We are co-creators of Earth, we are the caretakers of our Planet. Find your next car at Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 how old are you? if you are over 18 you need to leave home and support yourself. as long as you are living off your parents you have to keep your mouth shut and put up with their shit. that is just the way it is. if you are under 18 and if your parents actually abuse you go to cps and ask to go to a foster home. they will make arrangements. even when I was married, divorced and had to go stay at my parents house because I had nowhere else to go, I had to put up with their idiocyncracies and ideas and ways. its their house, they pay the bills. get used to it. if you cant put up with it and you cant support yourself right now then you can go to a homeless shelter, or go to a friends house and stay. no one is forcing you to stay at your parents house. you have to weigh the good against the bad. if your father is brain dead and unreasonable then just keep your mouth shut, dont spend any more time there than you have to, and get out as soon as you can. - Janice Health Healing Sunday, February 05, 2006 6:52 PM The Blame Game Any ideas regarding a parent (father) who wishes you were dead and blames you for everything, he just does this and acts out in a rampage to show off his ego (he's not an alcoholic or even an abuser) but he does over the last 14 months he just acts out like this just about every 2 weeks, and he can be just from telling my Mom, "Try out this kelp, it gives you energy".........if I so much as talk about nutrition or heatlh or having a business, I get the same thing. I must work for a corporation, they only listen to doctors, well if that means the family's screwed then they believe that too!Any ideas??? I shouldn't need to move because I can't afford to, I was volunteeering as a Research Analyst for a magazine, but then they got mad because I was using the computer too much or going around on different sites! I was volunteering at the University but too them that didn't mean anything either! What do you do with a parent who blames you for everything and continually yells at you, and in between all that he treats you like a two year old?J.We are of one race, the human race.There are no boundaries or divisions on Earth from Space.We are co-creators of Earth, we are the caretakers of our Planet. Find your next car at Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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