Guest guest Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Please go directly to your county hospital and explain your circumstances. Ask to see a social worker. You may be having an ectopic pregnancy which means that there is a fetus in one of the fallopian tubes. It will grow till the tube bursts and causes internal bleeding. This usually happens about 8 weeks of gestation.This is a life threatening situation. If you start to bleed go to the county emergency room. I really hope this is not the condition but it is better to be safe than sorry. God bless you, Thyme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Hi all first off i have no insurence so iam not able to go to the docter unless i pay first and i dont have the money to do so..Me and my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 years to concive our second child we had a miscarrige before we were blessed with our son.Well i havent had a period since november and i took a test in december and it said no.And i still havent had a period or even spotting iam 25 years old and my boyfriend is 33.But today when i was sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of rolled and had a numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you strech and your toes stick that way for a little while plus in that same side where it was it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on it but it still hurt just as much.and it did this twice and once more but the third one wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like iam going to start my period but i dont.and i was wondering if anyone ever went throu this or know somthing about this?Sorry about my spelling iam trying to hurry..Please e-mail me directly at dmcb5 if you can help me out any thank you and take care... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 At 11:19 AM 1/5/07, Marjorie wrote: >...Me and my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 years to concive >.....But today when i was >sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of rolled and had a >numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you strech and your toes >stick that way for a little while plus in that same side where it was >it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on it but it still hurt >just as much.and it did this twice and once more but the third one >wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like iam going to start >my period but i dont.and .... Marjorie, in the Edgar Cayce Readings some female problems are related to constipation & " leaky gut " Possibly try a colon cleanse & then go on a cleansing diet & then change your diet to be very healthy. Possibly you need more supplements. Lastly, make sure that your boyfriend is healthy, too. The problem might not be all yours. Good Luck & Bliss you, Sharri Lorraine~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 Hello, I saw your post and hopefully you will do the right thing. First and foremost, home pregnancy tests, even thought they are pretty accurate, still have a slight margin of error and in most cases it's always best to go get a blood test for very accurate results if you even suspect you are pregnant. Go to a clinic with sliding scale payments based on your income or you boyfriend's income, whoever makes less and it will cost less. Having no period for almost three months and getting major pains could be a sign of something very serious like ectopic pregnancy. Letting it go because you don't have insurance or feel you can't afford a doctors appointment could cause a lot of future physical harm to yourself. If it's not something serious atleast you will have peace of mind to know. Your GYN health especially while you are young and can bounce back is a very important issue and should not be avoided. I had no insurance for quite a lot of years when I was younger and made it a priority to keep up with GYN appointments, whenever I needed help or for just standard check ups. Even if it meant eating less, not spending money on something else that month --- whatever. I even skipped some electric bills now and then and caught up with them later, just to keep up with health of my body and mind. Another issue is why do you want to have a baby, without insurance or having the proper amount of money to pay for even one doctors appointment? If you can't afford that, you cannot afford a baby. Think that through. I wish you well, Karolina , " Marjorie " <dmcb5 wrote: > > Hi all first off i have no insurence so iam not able to go to the > docter unless i pay first and i dont have the money to do so..Me and > my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 years to concive our > second child we had a miscarrige before we were blessed with our > son.Well i havent had a period since november and i took a test in > december and it said no.And i still havent had a period or even > spotting iam 25 years old and my boyfriend is 33.But today when i was > sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of rolled and had a > numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you strech and your toes > stick that way for a little while plus in that same side where it was > it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on it but it still hurt > just as much.and it did this twice and once more but the third one > wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like iam going to start > my period but i dont.and i was wondering if anyone ever went throu > this or know somthing about this?Sorry about my spelling iam trying to > hurry..Please e-mail me directly at dmcb5 if you can help > me out any thank you and take care... > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 You need to see a Dr. Ectopic pregnancy is life threatening. Miscarriage isn't fun either. Damage to your organs is even less fun.... At the risk of being chastised AGAIN.... AS a single mother of 5 kids...I personally wouldn't recommend having children without the money or insurance. For 15 of the 25 years I've had kids I have had to do it on my own without insurance or extra money or child support. It's hard with 1 child let alone 5! I'd think having a baby through before getting pregnant. Even though I love my children and would give my life for them. I sure wish I had thought things through first and had my ducks in a row first. My children have been forced to go without a lot of the things their friends take for granted. Things I just could not afford to give them when food and shelter were #1. Dance classes, Little League, bikes, music lessons and instruments, trips to the movies or other events, even trips to the amusement parks! For those things I regret not waiting. Jenny Kernan --- Karolina <kvl wrote: > Hello, > I saw your post and hopefully you will do the right > thing. First and > foremost, home pregnancy tests, even thought they > are pretty > accurate, still have a slight margin of error and in > most cases it's > always best to go get a blood test for very accurate > results if you > even suspect you are pregnant. Go to a clinic with > sliding scale > payments based on your income or you boyfriend's > income, whoever > makes less and it will cost less. Having no period > for almost three > months and getting major pains could be a sign of > something very > serious like ectopic pregnancy. Letting it go > because you don't have > insurance or feel you can't afford a doctors > appointment could cause > a lot of future physical harm to yourself. > If it's not something serious atleast you will have > peace of mind to > know. Your GYN health especially while you are young > and can bounce > back is a very important issue and should not be > avoided. I had no > insurance for quite a lot of years when I was > younger and made it a > priority to keep up with GYN appointments, whenever > I needed help or > for just standard check ups. Even if it meant eating > less, not > spending money on something else that month --- > whatever. I even > skipped some electric bills now and then and caught > up with them > later, just to keep up with health of my body and > mind. > Another issue is why do you want to have a baby, > without insurance > or having the proper amount of money to pay for even > one doctors > appointment? If you can't afford that, you cannot > afford a baby. > Think that through. > > I wish you well, > Karolina > > , > " Marjorie " <dmcb5 > wrote: > > > > Hi all first off i have no insurence so iam not > able to go to the > > docter unless i pay first and i dont have the > money to do so..Me > and > > my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 > years to concive our > > second child we had a miscarrige before we were > blessed with our > > son.Well i havent had a period since november and > i took a test in > > december and it said no.And i still havent had a > period or even > > spotting iam 25 years old and my boyfriend is > 33.But today when i > was > > sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of > rolled and had a > > numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you > strech and your > toes > > stick that way for a little while plus in that > same side where it > was > > it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on > it but it still > hurt > > just as much.and it did this twice and once more > but the third one > > wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like > iam going to > start > > my period but i dont.and i was wondering if anyone > ever went throu > > this or know somthing about this?Sorry about my > spelling iam > trying to > > hurry..Please e-mail me directly at dmcb5 (AT) (DOT) > com if you can > help > > me out any thank you and take care... > > > > > Quantum Biofeedback Therapy Remote Healing or Local Sessions www.QuantumAssociatesofUtah.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 Well said, Jenny! Raising children is a costly expense and if not ready financially can put serious strain on your life. I am a single parent without child support or even a second parent involvement for that matter and let me tell you, it IS a challenge (and thats with one kid, so hats off to you, Jenny, keep up the good work!!) Jenny Kernan <rainysnana wrote: You need to see a Dr. Ectopic pregnancy is life threatening. Miscarriage isn't fun either. Damage to your organs is even less fun.... At the risk of being chastised AGAIN.... AS a single mother of 5 kids...I personally wouldn't recommend having children without the money or insurance. For 15 of the 25 years I've had kids I have had to do it on my own without insurance or extra money or child support. It's hard with 1 child let alone 5! I'd think having a baby through before getting pregnant. Even though I love my children and would give my life for them. I sure wish I had thought things through first and had my ducks in a row first. My children have been forced to go without a lot of the things their friends take for granted. Things I just could not afford to give them when food and shelter were #1. Dance classes, Little League, bikes, music lessons and instruments, trips to the movies or other events, even trips to the amusement parks! For those things I regret not waiting. Jenny Kernan --- Karolina <kvl wrote: > Hello, > I saw your post and hopefully you will do the right > thing. First and > foremost, home pregnancy tests, even thought they > are pretty > accurate, still have a slight margin of error and in > most cases it's > always best to go get a blood test for very accurate > results if you > even suspect you are pregnant. Go to a clinic with > sliding scale > payments based on your income or you boyfriend's > income, whoever > makes less and it will cost less. Having no period > for almost three > months and getting major pains could be a sign of > something very > serious like ectopic pregnancy. Letting it go > because you don't have > insurance or feel you can't afford a doctors > appointment could cause > a lot of future physical harm to yourself. > If it's not something serious atleast you will have > peace of mind to > know. Your GYN health especially while you are young > and can bounce > back is a very important issue and should not be > avoided. I had no > insurance for quite a lot of years when I was > younger and made it a > priority to keep up with GYN appointments, whenever > I needed help or > for just standard check ups. Even if it meant eating > less, not > spending money on something else that month --- > whatever. I even > skipped some electric bills now and then and caught > up with them > later, just to keep up with health of my body and > mind. > Another issue is why do you want to have a baby, > without insurance > or having the proper amount of money to pay for even > one doctors > appointment? If you can't afford that, you cannot > afford a baby. > Think that through. > > I wish you well, > Karolina > > , > " Marjorie " <dmcb5 > wrote: > > > > Hi all first off i have no insurence so iam not > able to go to the > > docter unless i pay first and i dont have the > money to do so..Me > and > > my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 > years to concive our > > second child we had a miscarrige before we were > blessed with our > > son.Well i havent had a period since november and > i took a test in > > december and it said no.And i still havent had a > period or even > > spotting iam 25 years old and my boyfriend is > 33.But today when i > was > > sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of > rolled and had a > > numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you > strech and your > toes > > stick that way for a little while plus in that > same side where it > was > > it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on > it but it still > hurt > > just as much.and it did this twice and once more > but the third one > > wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like > iam going to > start > > my period but i dont.and i was wondering if anyone > ever went throu > > this or know somthing about this?Sorry about my > spelling iam > trying to > > hurry..Please e-mail me directly at dmcb5 (AT) (DOT) > com if you can > help > > me out any thank you and take care... > > > > > Quantum Biofeedback Therapy Remote Healing or Local Sessions www.QuantumAssociatesofUtah.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 I dont think this last post deserves any chastisment at all. I agree with her 100%. If you can't afford medical care - then you should wait to have a baby (pertaining to the original post) My husband and I are both felt that having a decent health plan or saving plenty of money for several years for medical expenses was the best thing to do in order to start our family. If you are twenty five, you still have many years to plan to a child, once some other financial priorities are met. Being pregnant and having complications then being intimidated to seek prenatal care because of money problems will only cause you and the growing fetus major irreversible harm. Use your head and not your heart for a matter like this. Karolina , Jenny Kernan <rainysnana wrote: > > You need to see a Dr. Ectopic pregnancy is life > threatening. Miscarriage isn't fun either. Damage to > your organs is even less fun.... > > At the risk of being chastised AGAIN.... > > AS a single mother of 5 kids...I personally wouldn't > recommend having children without the money or > insurance. For 15 of the 25 years I've had kids I have > had to do it on my own without insurance or extra > money or child support. It's hard with 1 child let > alone 5! I'd think having a baby through before > getting pregnant. Even though I love my children and > would give my life for them. I sure wish I had thought > things through first and had my ducks in a row first. > My children have been forced to go without a lot of > the things their friends take for granted. Things I > just could not afford to give them when food and > shelter were #1. Dance classes, Little League, bikes, > music lessons and instruments, trips to the movies or > other events, even trips to the amusement parks! For > those things I regret not waiting. > > Jenny Kernan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 There are many clinics and state aid that can help without insurance but babies are expensive, check out WIC, AFDC, Healthy Start, these are all very good programs that help low income people that want children. Check with your state on what they offer. Do they still have planned parenthoods out there, or a free/income based clinic, you surely should get a checkup she is right about the Ectopic Pregnancy. Personally I waited till I was done with graduate school to have children but my sister did not and she finished college with the help of the state, so everyone is different. Kathy On Behalf Of Karolina Monday, January 08, 2007 1:19 PM Re: Hi all i need some help! I dont think this last post deserves any chastisment at all. I agree with her 100%. If you can't afford medical care - then you should wait to have a baby (pertaining to the original post) My husband and I are both felt that having a decent health plan or saving plenty of money for several years for medical expenses was the best thing to do in order to start our family. If you are twenty five, you still have many years to plan to a child, once some other financial priorities are met. Being pregnant and having complications then being intimidated to seek prenatal care because of money problems will only cause you and the growing fetus major irreversible harm. Use your head and not your heart for a matter like this. Karolina <%40> , Jenny Kernan <rainysnana wrote: > > You need to see a Dr. Ectopic pregnancy is life > threatening. Miscarriage isn't fun either. Damage to > your organs is even less fun.... > > At the risk of being chastised AGAIN.... > > AS a single mother of 5 kids...I personally wouldn't > recommend having children without the money or > insurance. For 15 of the 25 years I've had kids I have > had to do it on my own without insurance or extra > money or child support. It's hard with 1 child let > alone 5! I'd think having a baby through before > getting pregnant. Even though I love my children and > would give my life for them. I sure wish I had thought > things through first and had my ducks in a row first. > My children have been forced to go without a lot of > the things their friends take for granted. Things I > just could not afford to give them when food and > shelter were #1. Dance classes, Little League, bikes, > music lessons and instruments, trips to the movies or > other events, even trips to the amusement parks! For > those things I regret not waiting. > > Jenny Kernan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2007 Report Share Posted January 8, 2007 I would think it may be an ovarian cyst. I agree with Jenny. I have 3 kids however in this day and age it is so hard. Everything in public school is all about money. I have to say no sometimes to because my bills have to come first, just the price of day care is insane. I actually made myself ill trying to struggle kids and a stressful job and worrying all the time. If pain gets to bad go to the emergency room and then when you start getting bills make payment arrangements for them. That way they will check everything and you will not have to run all over the place trying to get tests done. Good Luck Jenny Kernan <rainysnana wrote: You need to see a Dr. Ectopic pregnancy is life threatening. Miscarriage isn't fun either. Damage to your organs is even less fun.... At the risk of being chastised AGAIN.... AS a single mother of 5 kids...I personally wouldn't recommend having children without the money or insurance. For 15 of the 25 years I've had kids I have had to do it on my own without insurance or extra money or child support. It's hard with 1 child let alone 5! I'd think having a baby through before getting pregnant. Even though I love my children and would give my life for them. I sure wish I had thought things through first and had my ducks in a row first. My children have been forced to go without a lot of the things their friends take for granted. Things I just could not afford to give them when food and shelter were #1. Dance classes, Little League, bikes, music lessons and instruments, trips to the movies or other events, even trips to the amusement parks! For those things I regret not waiting. Jenny Kernan --- Karolina <kvl wrote: > Hello, > I saw your post and hopefully you will do the right > thing. First and > foremost, home pregnancy tests, even thought they > are pretty > accurate, still have a slight margin of error and in > most cases it's > always best to go get a blood test for very accurate > results if you > even suspect you are pregnant. Go to a clinic with > sliding scale > payments based on your income or you boyfriend's > income, whoever > makes less and it will cost less. Having no period > for almost three > months and getting major pains could be a sign of > something very > serious like ectopic pregnancy. Letting it go > because you don't have > insurance or feel you can't afford a doctors > appointment could cause > a lot of future physical harm to yourself. > If it's not something serious atleast you will have > peace of mind to > know. Your GYN health especially while you are young > and can bounce > back is a very important issue and should not be > avoided. I had no > insurance for quite a lot of years when I was > younger and made it a > priority to keep up with GYN appointments, whenever > I needed help or > for just standard check ups. Even if it meant eating > less, not > spending money on something else that month --- > whatever. I even > skipped some electric bills now and then and caught > up with them > later, just to keep up with health of my body and > mind. > Another issue is why do you want to have a baby, > without insurance > or having the proper amount of money to pay for even > one doctors > appointment? If you can't afford that, you cannot > afford a baby. > Think that through. > > I wish you well, > Karolina > > , > " Marjorie " <dmcb5 > wrote: > > > > Hi all first off i have no insurence so iam not > able to go to the > > docter unless i pay first and i dont have the > money to do so..Me > and > > my boyfriend have been trying on and off for 2 > years to concive our > > second child we had a miscarrige before we were > blessed with our > > son.Well i havent had a period since november and > i took a test in > > december and it said no.And i still havent had a > period or even > > spotting iam 25 years old and my boyfriend is > 33.But today when i > was > > sitting down my left side of my stomach kind of > rolled and had a > > numbing feeling like the feeling you get when you > strech and your > toes > > stick that way for a little while plus in that > same side where it > was > > it was hard like a ball but i was able to push on > it but it still > hurt > > just as much.and it did this twice and once more > but the third one > > wasent as painful.Plus ive been having cramps like > iam going to > start > > my period but i dont.and i was wondering if anyone > ever went throu > > this or know somthing about this?Sorry about my > spelling iam > trying to > > hurry..Please e-mail me directly at dmcb5 (AT) (DOT) > com if you can > help > > me out any thank you and take care... > > > > > Quantum Biofeedback Therapy Remote Healing or Local Sessions www.QuantumAssociatesofUtah.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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