Guest guest Posted December 23, 2004 Report Share Posted December 23, 2004 Yvonne, Thanks for sharing. You sound like a wonderful, loving mother and a sensitive, caring person. I'm wondering if there are any children in your neighborhood who would benefit from your loving presence? Perhaps you could see if they might like to visit from time to time. Children crave the kind of sharing and conversation you lovingly give. They crave attention and interest from others. Although I do not know you, you are so precious to me. It's so rare these days to meet an honest person who will risk sharing their heart and thoughts. So I'm sending you thoughts of love over the ocean, and I hope you will get well soon. We need you in the world. Your daughter will come back around to appreciating Mom more once she has a few years of independence. She is just acting her age. Best wishes for the New Year. PS. Try to get outside in the sun at least an hour a day without glasses if you normally wear them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2004 Report Share Posted December 24, 2004 Aw thank you very much for your kind words. You have given me food for thought. I live near the college and have already considered taking in some teenage students as lodgers after my daughter is gone. I was a mature (art)student myself before my illness got hold, all the young ones in my group kind of adopted me, I was everyones favourite, and I thought I was unbelievably cool until I realised they were away from home and missing their mums lol! Of course if I do I will have to hire a cleaner/home help. The dream was just a healing dream, I am determined not to make my daughter feel guilty for going away, but the grief still has to come out. I had been giving her some Reiki healing just before bedtime because of her cough, and what I give I get, so its only the Reiki doing its job, nothing to worry about. Better shed a few tears than bottle it all up and choke on them. I do understand what you say about the sunlight, but as I have CFS or M.E., the neurological damage is too great, and all normal sleep hygiene methods are ineffective against a sleep disorder as severe as mine. I do take 3mg melatonin to help me sleep (even though I have to order it from the USA), sometimes it helps, most often I still have to rely on the medication from my doctor. My daughters cough is improving today, so thats one less worry. I have a great Homeopathic practitioner on my case now and am optimistic about my eventual recovery. I will let myself cry buckets over my daughter when she isnt looking, and I will cope, I hadnt realised I was holding it all in so tightly before. thanks again for your kindness All the Best Yvonne , as <glkbreeze> wrote: > > Yvonne, > > Thanks for sharing. You sound like a wonderful, loving > mother and a sensitive, caring person. > I'm wondering if there are any children in your > neighborhood who would benefit from your loving > presence? > Perhaps you could see if they might like to visit from > time to time. Children crave the kind of sharing and > conversation you lovingly give. They crave attention > and interest from others. > > Although I do not know you, you are so precious to me. > It's so rare these days to meet an honest person who > will risk sharing their heart and thoughts. > > So I'm sending you thoughts of love over the ocean, > and I hope you will get well soon. We need you in the > world. > > Your daughter will come back around to appreciating > Mom more once she has a few years of independence. She > is just acting her age. > > Best wishes for the New Year. > > PS. Try to get outside in the sun at least an hour a > day without glasses if you normally wear them. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 27, 2004 Report Share Posted December 27, 2004 Thank you so much to all of you who responded to my venting the other day. I am feeling much better now for letting off all that steam. it happened because I had been doing some Reiki healing for my daughters cough the night before, and the Reiki did its job on me too, giving me the dream so I could get in touch with my feelings and have a good cry, I had been bottling things up a bit too much. I am seeing a really good Homeopathic practitioner who is also a nutritionist and a herbalist, and I am a Reiki master myself, we have a plan, and I am optimistic about my chances of recovery. As for my daughter, she will be fine going to Australia, and I am just being a selfish mum wanting to keep my baby close to me. So I will cry about it when she is not around and never let her feel guilty for leaving, and all will be well. I have placed an advertisement in the local paper to get some help at home too. I hope you all had a warm and loving Christmas, we did. Love and *LIGHT* Yvonne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2005 Report Share Posted November 23, 2005 Becky: Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as soon as possible. I have a method to do this with the I Ching (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to know. Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of dreams has less to do with symbols than most believe. Regards, Jack --- Becky <bsalibrici wrote: > victoria_dragon <victoria_dragon wrote: > ....The brain is in touch with every part of the > body even while one sleeps, so it's not surprising > that some things that are going on in the body and > causing distress will be communicated in dreams.... > > So true! Mom used to have dreams... I have had > them; predictive dreams. Unfortunately, I have only > able to see the meanings (clearly/warnings) after > the fact, particularly with repetitive ones making > strong impressions (vivid). > > Before I had the CT with (2!) 20-oz cups of barium > (I knew nothing about barium regarding abdominal > scans at the time, I dreamed I was in a room filled > with people, socializing. I was given a drink. > When I went to drink it there were little duck heads > floating around in the drink. I saw a woman > observing me from across the room. In my dream I > rationalized (!) and even tho it occurred to me that > the feathers/fur/hair/beak (you know how dreams are) > could choke me and the drink was potentially > dangerous, I felt it was expected of me/required and > drank it anyway. It was very dry going down, not at > all pleasant, but in my dream I concluded that in > the end I was ok from it. > > This was much less vivid than many dreams I've > had. I'm certain that in my condition, drinking the > stuff did not help (neither my condition nor the > resulting images). > > How I feel in my dreams is something I strongly > consider, as well as colors ... > > This is the most insightful group I've come come > across, and I do very much appreciate everyone's > posts! > > Whether or not you celebrate Thanksgiving, I hope > you all have a very pleasant day tomorrow. My son > is coming home with a big appetite : -D and I will > be in the kitchen all day :-} A little tryptophan > really is a good thing > > Sincerely, > Becky > > > > > > FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in > one click. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > http://www.fengshuiphoenix.com/chen_wenjun_services.htm Qi Men Dun Jia / Chinese Divination Mail - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2005 Report Share Posted November 23, 2005 --- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: I always dream a lot, and I always thought that they tell me a lot more about myself - and I was wondering if you have any links how to analyze dreams after TCM. Thanks, Brigitte > Becky: > > Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as soon as > possible. I have a method to do this with the I > Ching > (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. > > Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to know. > Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of dreams > has > less to do with symbols than most believe. > > Regards, Jack > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 Brigette: TCM's doctrine of dreams says that, in general, dreams indicate ill health. If someone dreams a lot, then this indicates that something is wrong. I do have a collection of Chinese TCM books on dreams, but haven't yet begun to explore them. Don't know of any links on the subject, sorry. I don't agree with the TCM doctrine as above, I believe that dreams do tell us what we need to know for the following day. Regards, Jack --- Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut wrote: > > > --- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > I always dream a lot, and I always thought that they > tell me a lot more about myself - and I was > wondering > if you have any links how to analyze dreams after > TCM. > > > Thanks, > Brigitte > > > Becky: > > > > Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as soon > as > > possible. I have a method to do this with the I > > Ching > > (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. > > > > Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to > know. > > Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of dreams > > has > > less to do with symbols than most believe. > > > > Regards, Jack > > > > > http://www.fengshuiphoenix.com/chen_wenjun_services.htm Qi Men Dun Jia / Chinese Divination Start your day with - Make it your home page! http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 HI there, My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, like you're constantly going hither and thither all night long. That is a sign that you are out of balance. Chris Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: Brigette: TCM's doctrine of dreams says that, in general, dreams indicate ill health. If someone dreams a lot, then this indicates that something is wrong. I do have a collection of Chinese TCM books on dreams, but haven't yet begun to explore them. Don't know of any links on the subject, sorry. I don't agree with the TCM doctrine as above, I believe that dreams do tell us what we need to know for the following day. Regards, Jack --- Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut wrote: > > > --- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > I always dream a lot, and I always thought that they > tell me a lot more about myself - and I was > wondering > if you have any links how to analyze dreams after > TCM. > > > Thanks, > Brigitte > > > Becky: > > > > Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as soon > as > > possible. I have a method to do this with the I > > Ching > > (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. > > > > Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to > know. > > Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of dreams > > has > > less to do with symbols than most believe. > > > > Regards, Jack > > > > > http://www.fengshuiphoenix.com/chen_wenjun_services.htm Qi Men Dun Jia / Chinese Divination Start your day with - Make it your home page! http://www./r/hs Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner Shortcut URL to this page: /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 Ayurveda and many other systems including some Chinese and Japanese schools see dreams in a very simple way - different authorities often express it slightly differently. Ayurveda generally sees dreams as a 'Mala' or waste matter- similar to urine or feces - it is something that the body wants to be discarded so it has come to the surface. In this sense dreams are not a 'pathology' in themselves - although like all waste matter if it does not get eliminated it can cause pathologies. The types of dreams one has are related to our personal constitution, our life experiences (in this sense Jung and Freud were right in that our archetypal memory functions as symbols and feelings), our disease state (different toxic conditions of disease produce specific types of dreams as well as the energetics of the disease will tend us toward certain types of consciousness), the food we eat greatly influences the nature of dreams since it is mainly the food we eat and or the way we digest certain foods (do we produce gas – what types of gases – do we produce acidic states -what acids – do we collect fluids – especially in the brain – etc.) – that trigger specific types of dreams, so many things effect consciousness – personal and impersonal – environment – climate – moon phases – solar activities – etc. etc. This morning after breakfast my father and I sat in the garden and discussed dreams. His general comments were something like this – the dream state is like all of consciousness – a field of information – there is much to learn there – pay attention to your dreams – they like all of your other states of consciousness reflects your state of being at the moment – consciousness is like a mirror of the internal environment of both Psyche and Soma – so dreams as a specific state of consciousness – are a view into the `self' - the greater self as opposed to the simple image of self most of us have – purified beings do not dream in the ordinary sense since they do not have all of the waste backed up and circulating in the blood negatively effecting bran functioning. Example - if we observe our dreams the nature of the dream will reveal the nature of our body energetics in an `abstracted' or `symbolic' way – so if we are internally cold with anxiety – then we can have a vast number of dreams that will have a component of fear – just as when we are water logged we can have dreams of heaviness and being stuck or limited or non achieving – perhaps lazy and unable to move – heat can make us enter into all sorts of intensity – perhaps sexual – perhaps irritation and aversions – wars and battles – some sort of conflict, activity, or achievement. Most have imbalances in multiple energetics so as an example a common type of dream is being chased – this is a dream that reflects imbalance in all major functions – it is a projective (heat) fear (cold) image - exasperated inevitably by toxins and either excess or deficiency – so some will run from something beautiful – others from something horrible and threatening – flying is another example of a dream that often expresses complex emotional states such as fear – being stuck (unable to get off the ground (pathological water)– like an attempt to fly that never happens – Icarrus who flew into the sun out of yearning – yet the end experience was full of failure and fear – this is imbalance in several organs – including Liver and Spleen – upward movement – Kidneys (fear). Garlic causes dreams – many herbs can cause specific types of dreams – Astragulus as an example causes gas for many (related to Legume family) – so often those with poor digestion end up dreaming the nature of the bowel toxins caused by this poor digestion – this is true of many substances – everything we take into our body reflects eventually in it's `righteous' or `pathological' state as consciousness – the toxins act as triggers to archetypal memory.. My fathers teacher who was a great Yogi – said of all of consciouness – observe oneself with as much awareness and subtlety as possible but do not attach to any of those states - they are passing – they want to pass – they need to pass – so let it come and let it go – with the same ease and sense of detachment that you would have while setting on the toilet – let it go – it is it's time to go – so stand aside and let it go – holding to any state of consciouness is perversion as waste should be eliminated and caste away – why keep it – observe – learn the lesson if possible – correct yourself if possible and move on. Consciousness is like the bubbles that rise to the surface of a pond – each bubble has a specific meaning but do not make too much of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 I find this all very interesting as I tended to dream since I can remember. And very often it looks to me more that it pictures emotions or feelings one doesn't want to admit in itself and they come into dreams - like a litte personal revelation. My TCM practitioner isn't " happy " that treatment after treatment I still dream as much as before. They are not negative, I don't wake up, mainly I remember them because the alarm clock rings. Sometimes quit comforting - waking up with a good feeling. I was reading that it indicates that something is wrong but I always enjoyed having dreams as it opens something to me. Brigitte --- Christopher Kevill <ckevill wrote: > HI there, > > My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not > the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, > like you're constantly going hither and thither all > night long. That is a sign that you are out of > balance. > > Chris > > > Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > Brigette: > > TCM's doctrine of dreams says that, in general, > dreams > indicate ill health. If someone dreams a lot, then > this indicates that something is wrong. > > I do have a collection of Chinese TCM books on > dreams, > but haven't yet begun to explore them. Don't know > of > any links on the subject, sorry. > > I don't agree with the TCM doctrine as above, I > believe that dreams do tell us what we need to > know > for the following day. > > Regards, Jack > > --- Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut > wrote: > > > > > > > --- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > > I always dream a lot, and I always thought that > they > > tell me a lot more about myself - and I was > > wondering > > if you have any links how to analyze dreams > after > > TCM. > > > > > > Thanks, > > Brigitte > > > > > Becky: > > > > > > Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as > soon > > as > > > possible. I have a method to do this with the > I > > > Ching > > > (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. > > > > > > Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to > > know. > > > Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of > dreams > > > has > > > less to do with symbols than most believe. > > > > > > Regards, Jack > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > http://www.fengshuiphoenix.com/chen_wenjun_services.htm > > Qi Men Dun Jia / Chinese Divination > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Start your day with - Make it your home > page! > http://www./r/hs > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > Subscribe: > Chinese Traditional Medicine- > Un: > Chinese Traditional Medicine- > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > Shortcut URL to this page: > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 > HI there, > > My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, like you're constantly going hither and thither all night long. That is a sign that you are out of balance. > > Chris If one is passing in and out of the hypnogogic state throughout the night this means that one is not sleeping properly - this is a serious disease state and is a co-factor in many stress disorders - when one never fully recovers by going into deep sleep - then we will suffer increasing excitability and disturbance of the sympathetic nervous system this is the primary cause of exhaustion. RIM sleep is a necessary state but if one is unable to sink deeper into sleep (Delta) then we can suffer many physical and psychological deficits - ending in hyperexcitability and exhaustion of cortisol - the major symptom of advanced exhaustive states. One of the true criteria for good brain and nervous system balance is to sleep well - which would ordinarily mean that we are passing into Hypnogogia in the early stages of the night and pass through it again in the morning as we awake. Restless sleep is poor sleep. Another problem for those who do not sleep well during the night - is that they often feel sleepy or sluggish during the day - with mental 'fog'. most of these people say they feel worse in the morning than at night - it is because of the brain fatigue suffered becuse of lack of sleep (which also causes water stagnation - another cause of morning sluggishness)- this procedure also uses a lot of brain chemistry and such people will have many brain chemical imbalances that contribute to the overall deteroration. My father says we need at least three hours of deep Delta sleep a night to recover our hormone and brain chemical balance each night - without this there is no question of healthy Heart (Shen) functioning - therefore a major symptom will be despair and lack of interest - with no endurance ability - quickly fatigues - with a sense of oppresion in the chest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 24, 2005 Report Share Posted November 24, 2005 sounds like a good thing to me. Michelle - Brigitte Breithut Stepak Chinese Traditional Medicine Thursday, November 24, 2005 11:30 AM Re: [Chinese Traditional Medicine] dreams I find this all very interesting as I tended to dream since I can remember. And very often it looks to me more that it pictures emotions or feelings one doesn't want to admit in itself and they come into dreams - like a litte personal revelation. My TCM practitioner isn't " happy " that treatment after treatment I still dream as much as before. They are not negative, I don't wake up, mainly I remember them because the alarm clock rings. Sometimes quit comforting - waking up with a good feeling. I was reading that it indicates that something is wrong but I always enjoyed having dreams as it opens something to me. Brigitte --- Christopher Kevill <ckevill wrote: > HI there, > > My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not > the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, > like you're constantly going hither and thither all > night long. That is a sign that you are out of > balance. > > Chris > > > Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > Brigette: > > TCM's doctrine of dreams says that, in general, > dreams > indicate ill health. If someone dreams a lot, then > this indicates that something is wrong. > > I do have a collection of Chinese TCM books on > dreams, > but haven't yet begun to explore them. Don't know > of > any links on the subject, sorry. > > I don't agree with the TCM doctrine as above, I > believe that dreams do tell us what we need to > know > for the following day. > > Regards, Jack > > --- Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut > wrote: > > > > > > > --- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy wrote: > > I always dream a lot, and I always thought that > they > > tell me a lot more about myself - and I was > > wondering > > if you have any links how to analyze dreams > after > > TCM. > > > > > > Thanks, > > Brigitte > > > > > Becky: > > > > > > Indeed, it is important to analyze dreams as > soon > > as > > > possible. I have a method to do this with the > I > > > Ching > > > (Yi Jing) that is quite accurate. > > > > > > Dreams are a way of telling us what we need to > > know. > > > Despite Freud and Jung, the true meaning of > dreams > > > has > > > less to do with symbols than most believe. > > > > > > Regards, Jack > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > http://www.fengshuiphoenix.com/chen_wenjun_services.htm > > Qi Men Dun Jia / Chinese Divination > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Start your day with - Make it your home > page! > http://www./r/hs > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > Subscribe: > Chinese Traditional Medicine- > Un: > Chinese Traditional Medicine- > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > Shortcut URL to this page: > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 --- Becky <bsalibrici wrote: > Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our > dream/sleep realm. But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would wake up naturally. I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from one dream into the next, the next day I felt really bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband woke me today at 6am. I think certain dreams are very important, there are some who just come from too much TV before going to bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to me - normally about emotions I don't want to acknowledge in the day time. Brigitte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 Hi, I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this post I thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered a career in alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I would like to get more info in depth. I would like to practice alternative medicine/healing to disadvantaged communities, should I definitely decide on this career path. There have been some impressive but little known things done with meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single mothers or something like that. I have always worked with this population, most recently in domestic violence (although they are not always low-income). Of course, I am a long way off from combining two fields. I am even fairly new to even a consistent meditation practice, thus my the handle, Zenisis. So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen clocks that chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving you a jolt. The alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want to hit the clock back. I like to wake to energizing music, but sometimes it just blends into my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake up to music. Zen Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut --- Becky <bsalibrici wrote: >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our >> dream/sleep realm. > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would wake up naturally. I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from one dream into the next, the next day I felt really bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband woke me today at 6am. I think certain dreams are very important, there are some who just come from too much TV before going to bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to me - normally about emotions I don't want to acknowledge in the day time. Brigitte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 I have two of the triangular clocks.Because I liked mine so much I got one for my husband since we woke at different hours for work... Lovely to wake up to, but hard to set in a real specific fashion...you have to play with it a bit before you get it right where you want it....and you might want it a little away from you at first. It isn't super quiet when you aren't use to it. Lovely sound tho. Michelle - Zenisis Chinese Traditional Medicine Monday, November 28, 2005 5:38 PM Re: [Chinese Traditional Medicine] Re: dreams Hi, I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this post I thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered a career in alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I would like to get more info in depth. I would like to practice alternative medicine/healing to disadvantaged communities, should I definitely decide on this career path. There have been some impressive but little known things done with meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single mothers or something like that. I have always worked with this population, most recently in domestic violence (although they are not always low-income). Of course, I am a long way off from combining two fields. I am even fairly new to even a consistent meditation practice, thus my the handle, Zenisis. So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen clocks that chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving you a jolt. The alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want to hit the clock back. I like to wake to energizing music, but sometimes it just blends into my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake up to music. Zen Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut --- Becky <bsalibrici wrote: >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our >> dream/sleep realm. > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would wake up naturally. I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from one dream into the next, the next day I felt really bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband woke me today at 6am. I think certain dreams are very important, there are some who just come from too much TV before going to bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to me - normally about emotions I don't want to acknowledge in the day time. Brigitte Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner Shortcut URL to this page: /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 Has anyone ever tried telling themselves they have to get up at such and such time before bed along with going to bed at a decent hour ? Tell your self you have to and then ask your higher power to help you do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 volcanic years without summers. I warble a paltry note in a gunmetal sky, a lone small bird perched on a naked branch looking for you. © Zen Oleary October 2005 A small world... what happened to Zen-Poetry group? I miss your musings! Domingo On 11/28/05, Zenisis <findme wrote: > > Hi, > > I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this post I > thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered a career in > alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I would like to get more > info in depth. I would like to practice alternative medicine/healing to > disadvantaged communities, should I definitely decide on this career path. > > There have been some impressive but little known things done with > meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some > projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single mothers > or something like that. I have always worked with this population, most > recently in domestic violence (although they are not always low-income). Of > course, I am a long way off from combining two fields. I am even fairly new > to even a consistent meditation practice, thus my the handle, Zenisis. > > So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. > > Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen clocks that > chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving you a jolt. The > alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want to hit the clock > back. I like to wake to energizing music, but sometimes it just blends into > my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake up to music. > > Zen > > Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut > > > > > --- Becky <bsalibrici wrote: > > > >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our > >> dream/sleep realm. > > > > > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without > alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. > My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would > wake up naturally. > > I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel > sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for > it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at > 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. > > > It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from > one dream into the next, the next day I felt really > bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband > woke me today at 6am. > > I think certain dreams are very important, there are > some who just come from too much TV before going to > bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to > me - normally about emotions I don't want to > acknowledge in the day time. > > Brigitte > > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > Shortcut URL to this page: > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Actually, I am hard of hearing so that might work out just fine! I won't often hear the jolting alarm if I am lying on the " good " ear. Zen Chinese Traditional Medicine , " Michelle Clark " <michellec@n...> wrote: > > I have two of the triangular clocks.Because I liked mine so much I got one for my husband since we woke at different hours for work... Lovely to wake up to, but hard to set in a real specific fashion...you have to play with it a bit before you get it right where you want it....and you might want it a little away from you at first. It isn't super quiet when you aren't use to it. Lovely sound tho. > Michelle > - > Zenisis > Chinese Traditional Medicine > Monday, November 28, 2005 5:38 PM > Re: [Chinese Traditional Medicine] Re: dreams > > > Hi, > > I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this post I thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered a career in alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I would like to get more info in depth. I would like to practice alternative medicine/healing to disadvantaged communities, should I definitely decide on this career path. > > There have been some impressive but little known things done with meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single mothers or something like that. I have always worked with this population, most recently in domestic violence (although they are not always low-income). Of course, I am a long way off from combining two fields. I am even fairly new to even a consistent meditation practice, thus my the handle, Zenisis. > > So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. > > Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen clocks that chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving you a jolt. The alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want to hit the clock back. I like to wake to energizing music, but sometimes it just blends into my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake up to music. > > Zen > > Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut> > > > > > --- Becky <bsalibrici> wrote: > > > >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our > >> dream/sleep realm. > > > > > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without > alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. > My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would > wake up naturally. > > I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel > sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for > it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at > 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. > > > It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from > one dream into the next, the next day I felt really > bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband > woke me today at 6am. > > I think certain dreams are very important, there are > some who just come from too much TV before going to > bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to > me - normally about emotions I don't want to > acknowledge in the day time. > > Brigitte > > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > Shortcut URL to this page: > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 > My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, like you're constantly going hither and thither all night long. That is a sign that you are out of balance. When I was very sick, my dreams each night were like miniseries AND their sequels. Here's some further information on dreams and sleep for the list members who are new to TCM: In TCM physiology, the Mind/ Spirit (Shen) resides within the Heart. (A reminder that TCM Organs are not equivalent to anatomical organs, and are collections of functions. Hence, the use of a capital letter when talking about the TCM Organs.) Anyway, Shen is anchored in Heart Blood. When Heart Blood is adequate, Shen is " anchored " , " stays home " . Giovanni Maciocia has this to say in The Foundations of Chinese Medicine: " Since the Heart stores the Mind, it is very closely related to sleep. The Mind should reside in the Heart and if the heart (particularly Heart-Blood) is strong, a person will fall asleep easily and the sleep will be sound. If the Heart is weak, the Mind has no residence and it will " float " at night causing inability to fall asleep, disturbed sleep or excessive dreaming. All dreams are, in a way, related to the Heart. Certain dreams, however are more directly indicative of a Heart disharmony. " The 'Simple Questions' in chapter 80 says: 'When the Heart is weak, one dreams of fires; if the dream takes place in summertime, one dreams of volcanic eruptions'. The 'Spiritual Axis' in chapter 43 says: 'Whne the Heart is in excess, one dreams of laughing ... when the Heart is deficient, one dreams of mountains, fire and smoke'. " (p. 75.) I not sure how many people today in industrialized countries and who are far removed from nature have dreams with this particular symbolism today. Whenever dreams are excessive, expect and rule in or rule out Blood Deficiency. There is another Organ which can play a role in sleep problems. The Ethereal Soul (aka Hun) resides within the Liver. It too needs adequate Blood and Yin to be " anchored " and to " stay home. " Maciocia writes, " If Liver-Blood or Liver-Yin is very weak, at times the Ethereal Soul may even leave the body temporarily at night during sleep or just before going to sleep. Those who suffer from severe deficiency of Yin may experience a sensation as if they were floating in the few moments just before falling asleep: this is said to be due to the " floating " of the Ethereal Soul not rooted in Blood and Yin. " The Ehter4eal Soul is also related to resoluteness and a vague feeling of fear at night before fallying asleep is also said to be due to a lack of rooting of the Ethereal Soul. " (p. 81.) If the person is experiencing fear of going to sleep, and/or feelings of floating and sometimes falling and jerking back into the body, suspect and rule in or rule out Liver-Blood and Liver-Yin Deficiency. Keep in mind that another function of the Liver is to store and regulate Blood volume. When a person is active, the Liver releases Blood to nourish and moisture the tissues. When the person is at rest (lying down), the Liver stores Blood. There also is a reciprocal relationship between Blood and the Liver. Maciocia writes, " (I)f Blood is abnormal (deficient or hot), it may affect the Liver function. If, on the other hand, the Liver funtion is abnormal, it may affect the quality of the Blood, causing certain kinds of skin diseases, such as eczema or psoriasis. This last conept has been advanced by Dr. J Shen, who holds that, just as an improper storing medicium can spoil food (for instance a dirty container encouraging the growth of bacteria), similarly, an improper Liver function (the storing medium for Blood) can 'spoil' Blood, giving rise to skin diseases. " (p. 78) Suspect and rule in or rule out Liver Blood Deficiency if the nails are " dark, indented, dry and cracked. " (p. 80) The finger and toe nails can tell you stuff about the health of the Liver and Liver Blood (and the Gall Bladder). Because the Liver " opens into the eyes " , there are a number of ways the eyes will be affeted if there is Liver imbalance. The eye symptoms that point strongly to Liver-Blood Deficiency are dry eyes, blurred vision, near-sightedness, " floaters " , some cases of color blindness, and a feeling of gritty eyes. Even though Liver imbalance is the most frequent Root of eye and vision problems, Kidney Jing Deficiency also can result in chronic eye problems because Kidney Jing nourishes the eyes. (The Liver " opens into the eyes " , the Kidney Jing nourishes them.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Thank you so much! This was very very informative and explains a lot of what's going on with me. You can tell by my eyes that I may infact have a liver problem. now i need to find the means of healing or cleansing it. victoria_dragon <victoria_dragon wrote: > My TCM doctor told me that dreams per se are not the problem. It's when you have too many dreams, like you're constantly going hither and thither all night long. That is a sign that you are out of balance. When I was very sick, my dreams each night were like miniseries AND their sequels. Here's some further information on dreams and sleep for the list members who are new to TCM: In TCM physiology, the Mind/ Spirit (Shen) resides within the Heart. (A reminder that TCM Organs are not equivalent to anatomical organs, and are collections of functions. Hence, the use of a capital letter when talking about the TCM Organs.) Anyway, Shen is anchored in Heart Blood. When Heart Blood is adequate, Shen is " anchored " , " stays home " . Giovanni Maciocia has this to say in The Foundations of Chinese Medicine: " Since the Heart stores the Mind, it is very closely related to sleep. The Mind should reside in the Heart and if the heart (particularly Heart-Blood) is strong, a person will fall asleep easily and the sleep will be sound. If the Heart is weak, the Mind has no residence and it will " float " at night causing inability to fall asleep, disturbed sleep or excessive dreaming. All dreams are, in a way, related to the Heart. Certain dreams, however are more directly indicative of a Heart disharmony. " The 'Simple Questions' in chapter 80 says: 'When the Heart is weak, one dreams of fires; if the dream takes place in summertime, one dreams of volcanic eruptions'. The 'Spiritual Axis' in chapter 43 says: 'Whne the Heart is in excess, one dreams of laughing ... when the Heart is deficient, one dreams of mountains, fire and smoke'. " (p. 75.) I not sure how many people today in industrialized countries and who are far removed from nature have dreams with this particular symbolism today. Whenever dreams are excessive, expect and rule in or rule out Blood Deficiency. There is another Organ which can play a role in sleep problems. The Ethereal Soul (aka Hun) resides within the Liver. It too needs adequate Blood and Yin to be " anchored " and to " stay home. " Maciocia writes, " If Liver-Blood or Liver-Yin is very weak, at times the Ethereal Soul may even leave the body temporarily at night during sleep or just before going to sleep. Those who suffer from severe deficiency of Yin may experience a sensation as if they were floating in the few moments just before falling asleep: this is said to be due to the " floating " of the Ethereal Soul not rooted in Blood and Yin. " The Ehter4eal Soul is also related to resoluteness and a vague feeling of fear at night before fallying asleep is also said to be due to a lack of rooting of the Ethereal Soul. " (p. 81.) If the person is experiencing fear of going to sleep, and/or feelings of floating and sometimes falling and jerking back into the body, suspect and rule in or rule out Liver-Blood and Liver-Yin Deficiency. Keep in mind that another function of the Liver is to store and regulate Blood volume. When a person is active, the Liver releases Blood to nourish and moisture the tissues. When the person is at rest (lying down), the Liver stores Blood. There also is a reciprocal relationship between Blood and the Liver. Maciocia writes, " (I)f Blood is abnormal (deficient or hot), it may affect the Liver function. If, on the other hand, the Liver funtion is abnormal, it may affect the quality of the Blood, causing certain kinds of skin diseases, such as eczema or psoriasis. This last conept has been advanced by Dr. J Shen, who holds that, just as an improper storing medicium can spoil food (for instance a dirty container encouraging the growth of bacteria), similarly, an improper Liver function (the storing medium for Blood) can 'spoil' Blood, giving rise to skin diseases. " (p. 78) Suspect and rule in or rule out Liver Blood Deficiency if the nails are " dark, indented, dry and cracked. " (p. 80) The finger and toe nails can tell you stuff about the health of the Liver and Liver Blood (and the Gall Bladder). Because the Liver " opens into the eyes " , there are a number of ways the eyes will be affeted if there is Liver imbalance. The eye symptoms that point strongly to Liver-Blood Deficiency are dry eyes, blurred vision, near-sightedness, " floaters " , some cases of color blindness, and a feeling of gritty eyes. Even though Liver imbalance is the most frequent Root of eye and vision problems, Kidney Jing Deficiency also can result in chronic eye problems because Kidney Jing nourishes the eyes. (The Liver " opens into the eyes " , the Kidney Jing nourishes them.) Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner Shortcut URL to this page: /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2005 Report Share Posted December 1, 2005 I did, I was extraordinarily religious (Christian) at the time. I prayed often and I think that my prayers were more effective. Anyway, I prayed with a great deal of concentration and the next day I got up and was up for several minutes before I realized that I hadn't hit the snooze even once. I don't remember if I needed the alarm clock at all, that was several years ago. I thought I prayed enough for two days but the next morning I didn't wake. So as opposed to praying for 20 minutes everynight I have been using the alarm clock ever since. Generally though, if I am not sleep deprived and I go to bed at a decent hour I can wake up naturally, in about 8 hours. But I have been doing that only since I have been going into work in the afternoon. Zen Chinese Traditional Medicine , Remediesbyrabiah@a... wrote: > > Has anyone ever tried telling themselves they have to get up at such and > such time before bed along with going to bed at a decent hour ? Tell your self > you have to and then ask your higher power to help you do it. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2005 Report Share Posted December 1, 2005 I am afraid that is not me. Zen(isis) is not my given name. Beautiful imagery, though! Zenisis Chinese Traditional Medicine , Domingo Pichardo <domingo4tao@g...> wrote: > > volcanic years without summers. > I warble a paltry note in a gunmetal sky, > a lone small bird perched > on a naked branch looking for you. > > > © Zen Oleary > October 2005 > A small world... what happened to Zen-Poetry group? > I miss your musings! > Domingo > > > On 11/28/05, Zenisis <findme@z...> wrote: > > > > Hi, > > > > I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this post I > > thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered a career in > > alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I would like to get more > > info in depth. I would like to practice alternative medicine/healing to > > disadvantaged communities, should I definitely decide on this career path. > > > > There have been some impressive but little known things done with > > meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some > > projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single mothers > > or something like that. I have always worked with this population, most > > recently in domestic violence (although they are not always low-income). Of > > course, I am a long way off from combining two fields. I am even fairly new > > to even a consistent meditation practice, thus my the handle, Zenisis. > > > > So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. > > > > Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen clocks that > > chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving you a jolt. The > > alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want to hit the clock > > back. I like to wake to energizing music, but sometimes it just blends into > > my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake up to music. > > > > Zen > > > > Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut> > > > > > > > > > > --- Becky <bsalibrici> wrote: > > > > > > >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our > > >> dream/sleep realm. > > > > > > > > > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without > > alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. > > My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would > > wake up naturally. > > > > I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel > > sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for > > it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at > > 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. > > > > > > It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from > > one dream into the next, the next day I felt really > > bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband > > woke me today at 6am. > > > > I think certain dreams are very important, there are > > some who just come from too much TV before going to > > bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to > > me - normally about emotions I don't want to > > acknowledge in the day time. > > > > Brigitte > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > > Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > > Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > > > Shortcut URL to this page: > > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2005 Report Share Posted December 1, 2005 One possibility for those who are hard of hearing are the so called 'sunrise alarms' - they turn a light on slowly over a period of time so as to approximate the rising sun - this is helpful for those with SAD - but it is also helpful to those who's systems are shocked by being suddenly awakened. Chinese Traditional Medicine , " zenisis7 " <findme@z...> wrote: > > Actually, I am hard of hearing so that might work out just fine! I > won't often hear the jolting alarm if I am lying on the " good " ear. > > Zen > > Chinese Traditional Medicine , " Michelle Clark " > <michellec@n...> wrote: > > > > I have two of the triangular clocks.Because I liked mine so much I > got one for my husband since we woke at different hours for work... > Lovely to wake up to, but hard to set in a real specific fashion...you > have to play with it a bit before you get it right where you want > it....and you might want it a little away from you at first. It isn't > super quiet when you aren't use to it. Lovely sound tho. > > Michelle > > - > > Zenisis > > Chinese Traditional Medicine > > Monday, November 28, 2005 5:38 PM > > Re: [Chinese Traditional Medicine] Re: dreams > > > > > > Hi, > > > > I am Zen and I live in Houston, TX. Before I responded to this > post I thought that I would introduce myself a bit. I have considered > a career in alternative medicine off and on for some time. Now I > would like to get more info in depth. I would like to practice > alternative medicine/healing to disadvantaged communities, should I > definitely decide on this career path. > > > > There have been some impressive but little known things done with > meditation and prison populations and I think in Boston there are some > projects with meditation and low income communities as well, single > mothers or something like that. I have always worked with this > population, most recently in domestic violence (although they are not > always low-income). Of course, I am a long way off from combining two > fields. I am even fairly new to even a consistent meditation practice, > thus my the handle, Zenisis. > > > > So far, looking at the posts, I feel right at home. > > > > Anyway, I was going ask if anyone had tried one of those Zen > clocks that chime at progressively shorter intervals instead of giving > you a jolt. The alarm I find is like a punch in the face, I just want > to hit the clock back. I like to wake to energizing music, but > sometimes it just blends into my dreams. I can't be too tired and wake > up to music. > > > > Zen > > > > Brigitte Breithut Stepak <bbreithut> > > > > > > > > > > --- Becky <bsalibrici> wrote: > > > > > > >> Hi. I think waking up to alarms does affect our > > >> dream/sleep realm. > > > > > > > > > > But isn't this particular problematic. I mean, without > > alarm, I would not get up in time for a lot of things. > > My lifestyle doesn't allow me to get up when I would > > wake up naturally. > > > > I also feel, oversleeping is not good either, I feel > > sluggish all day, so an alarm is a nice mediator for > > it - now my husband wakes me going to work - but at > > 6am that's a sudden wake up call, too. > > > > > > It is an interesting issue - on Saturday I went from > > one dream into the next, the next day I felt really > > bad, on Sunday I dreamt nothing, even when my husband > > woke me today at 6am. > > > > I think certain dreams are very important, there are > > some who just come from too much TV before going to > > bed, but on average 90% of my dreams say something to > > me - normally about emotions I don't want to > > acknowledge in the day time. > > > > Brigitte > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Post message: Chinese Traditional Medicine > > Subscribe: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > > Un: Chinese Traditional Medicine- > > List owner: Chinese Traditional Medicine-owner > > > > Shortcut URL to this page: > > /community/Chinese Traditional Medicine > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 PLEASE HELP. . . I don't dream often, but when I do something always happen. . .like DEATH. Whenever I dream of BLOOD, there is always a death. My brother-in-law died recently, several nights prior to his death I dreamed. I saw everything, so much blood, then in my dream I saw everyone, with the accept ion of him, at a gathering of all of his family and friend, everyone with the deception of him. Recently, my cousin was killed on the side of the road, while changing a tire; I saw it as it happened several day prior. I don't like these dreams, it very frightening. Is there an answer? This has gone on much too long. . .please HELP!!! Sometimes afraid to go to sleep. Dena Sponsored Link $200,000 mortgage for $660/mo - 30/15 yr fixed, reduce debt, home equity - Click now for info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2006 Report Share Posted November 17, 2006 You have been given a gift, although it is a frightening one. I don't know how to make someone 'unpsychic' unless you look into taking something like flower remedies - check out essencesonline.com. Perhaps you could use it for the greater good if you aren't able to channel it in another way. Keria --On Thursday, November 16, 2006 8:12 PM -0800 Dena <dena1819 wrote: > > > > > PLEASE HELP. . . > I don't dream often, but when I do something always happen. . .like > DEATH. Whenever I dream of BLOOD, there is always a death. My > brother-in-law died recently, several nights prior to his death I > dreamed. I saw everything, so much blood, then in my dream I saw > everyone, with the accept ion of him, at a gathering of all of his family > and friend, everyone with the deception of him. Recently, my cousin was > killed on the side of the road, while changing a tire; I saw it as it > happened several day prior. I don't like these dreams, it very > frightening. Is there an answer? This has gone on much too long. . > .please HELP!!! Sometimes afraid to go to sleep. > Dena > > > > Sponsored Link > > $200,000 mortgage for $660/mo - 30/15 yr fixed, reduce debt, home equity > - Click now for info > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2006 Report Share Posted November 17, 2006 I rarely have nightmares, which I would class this as. But one time, when I was slowing losing a friendship that had lasted 20 years, I had three dreams in a row, three nights in a row. The first one involved her getting her arm caught in the garbage disposal, up to her elbow and me standing in horror, not knowing what to do. The second one involved elephants chasing us through a wooded area, into a shallow stream, before I woke up. The third one, I watched a plane take off, with her in in, at night, and I watched it get smaller and smaller and then it exploded in a ball of fire. None of these came true, but they really shook me up. I was afraid to go to bed the 4th night, afraid I would have another nightmare, but I didn't. I dreamed those things, I believe, because I was witnessing the death of our friendship. It was very painful and at times, I thought I would have a breakdown over it. But I survived and went on to make other friends. But no friendship has been like the one I had had with her for many years. And I know that in your dreams some of these things have come true. I believe in the power of prayer. I would suggest that you cannot deal with this by yourself and that God is the only one who can help you deal with this. jb. Dena <dena1819 wrote: PLEASE HELP. . . I don't dream often, but when I do something always happen. . .like DEATH. Whenever I dream of BLOOD, there is always a death. My brother-in-law died recently, several nights prior to his death I dreamed. I saw everything, so much blood, then in my dream I saw everyone, with the accept ion of him, at a gathering of all of his family and friend, everyone with the deception of him. Recently, my cousin was killed on the side of the road, while changing a tire; I saw it as it happened several day prior. I don't like these dreams, it very frightening. Is there an answer? This has gone on much too long. . .please HELP!!! Sometimes afraid to go to sleep. Dena Sponsored Link $200,000 mortgage for $660/mo - 30/15 yr fixed, reduce debt, home equity - Click now for info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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