Guest guest Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 Hello Group, I need some crystal recommendations. My mother passed away last July. I am having a very difficult time handling all the grief I feel. I am also experiencing bad dreams. They always have some kind of conflict in them. My mom is not in the dreams. I don't remember all the dreams very well, just awake unsettled. I dread bedtime. Could some of our members recommend some crystals to help me? I am a new member, and am also new to crystals. I do have some rose quartz, amethyst, lepidolite (sp.?), and a petoskey stone. Thank you, Erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 In a message dated 2/20/2010 9:19:56 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, figure1789 writes: <<<I need some crystal recommendations. My mother passed away last July. I am having a very difficult time handling all the grief I feel. >>>> Greetings Erin and heartfelt sympathies for your lose. For your grief, the most recommend stone I can think of is the Apache Tear. <<<I am also experiencing bad dreams. They always have some kind of conflict in them. My mom is not in the dreams. I don't remember all the dreams very well, just awake unsettled. I dread bedtime. Could some of our members recommend some crystals to help me? I am a new member, and am also new to crystals. I do have some rose quartz, amethyst, lepidolite (sp.?), and a petoskey stone.>>> You happen to have the 2 stones in your care that I would recommend for assisting with a more calming sleep and those are rose quartz and lepidolite. Rose quartz for it's loving energies (and calming) and lepidolite for it's calming (natural lithium based stone). For the time being, I would not use the amethyst at or close to bedtime as it is a third eye/psychic crystal. You may even want to consider keeping it out of the bedroom when you are sleeping until you sleep cycle gets back on track. I hope this helps. Blessings to your eve all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 I feel like you may need to connect to a higher energy, to help you rise above the grief. Have you tried keeping a celestite and angelite by your bed? These crystals can be very soothing. I would also find an amethyst cluster which is very healing and do a meditation/prayer with this crystal for at least 30 min every day. When you are ready, blue lace agate may help you express your feelings of loss regarding your mother and you may find that your dreams will eventually become more positive. Sorry to hear of your loss and wish you the best, -Charlene http://www.tarot-reading-now.com figure1789 Feb 20, 2010 3:58 PM [CrystalHW] Crystals for Bad Dreams and Grief Hello Group, I need some crystal recommendations. My mother passed away last July. I am having a very difficult time handling all the grief I feel. I am also experiencing bad dreams. They always have some kind of conflict in them. My mom is not in the dreams. I don't remember all the dreams very well, just awake unsettled. I dread bedtime. Could some of our members recommend some crystals to help me? I am a new member, and am also new to crystals. I do have some rose quartz, amethyst, lepidolite (sp.?), and a petoskey stone. Thank you, Erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 deepest sympathies If it were me I would add garnet it is a great stone for crisis and stress and I have found adding it to prehnite which helps to deal with memories and helps one deal with them and smoky quarts which is good for helping bear sorrow and cope easier I find this combo helps me greatly to settle and deal with issues especially if it is involving a loss. I even wear them to bead of place them near me blessings and prayers to you dear -- Have a Happy and Keep Smiling TTFN Angelina Thelin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Hi Erin, Sorry for your loss. Losing one's Mother is never easy. When my daughter was so sick and near death for all those years, I carried a hematite with me at all times. It saved my sanity. It is great for absorbing stress and grief. Make sure you cleanse it several times a day. I have also kept myself sane using the 'Feelings Prayer' http://www.askclaudia.com/feelingsprayer.htm . It is a wonderful self-healing technique that can be used for anything. This is how I kept my grief under control since her death. Namaste, Claudia http://www.askclaudia.com Accurate Psychic Readings, Alternative Healing, Articles, EBooks, Classes http://www.lightworkersupplies.com Jewelry, Crystals, Crystal Wands, Shirts and more http://www.bodymindspirithealing.com Alternative Energy Healing for healing in body, mind and spirit. http://www.magickaljewelryandtalismans.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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