Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

[Guest guest]

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

" Clean up her act ? "

There is no - thing - to - clean !

 

Duality is strange ,

i would follow this by " isn't it " but it IS strange, not, " is not "

 

by viewing someone as already being clean, they are cleansed,

 

by viewing something as if they have a scarlet-letter,

they are harmed,

 

whatever her life may appear to be, one may stoically dismiss all negative views

and trust and assume it is perfect and as it should be

 

even if she were an " addict " that is not " wrong "

 

and if she can get a sense for that,

and the omnipresence of this moment,

would she really need to go to rehab ?

 

She needs LOVE and she needs to tune into a bliss that is as good as drugs, but

coming from Meditation,

Source,

Krsna ,

 

but first she needs clarity and peace ,

so I offer this blessing in whatever way it may be.

-Chris

, " Liz W. " <lizard_mama9

wrote:

>

> I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

No she wants rehab to deal with other " emotional/mental " issues as well!!  She

doesnt like herself and is compinsating with other things.  She was crying on my

couch yesterday!!  Wheather we veiw her reality as right for her, she doesnt.  I

know its all perspective and I know what society sees isnt the full truth of the

matter, i am just wanting to do what I can for a friend who seems to think she

has no one and pushes everyone away because she is scared.  I have tried to tell

her to take her time and meditate, but she just won't.  She isn't of that mind

set to think that it will help her.  We are 2 oposites!  She is at the point

were she thinks god has given up!!

 

I just need to do my part and I will send my energies to her tonight when i get

off work.  I just hope she is reseptive to them!!

 

Love and Light

Liz

 

 

 

 

________________________________

holyreality11 <holyreality11

 

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:30:02 PM

[CrystalHW] Re: Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

" Clean up her act ? "

There is no - thing - to - clean !

 

Duality is strange ,

i would follow this by " isn't it " but it IS strange, not, " is not "

 

by viewing someone as already being clean, they are cleansed,

 

by viewing something as if they have a scarlet-letter,

they are harmed,

 

whatever her life may appear to be, one may stoically dismiss all negative views

and trust and assume it is perfect and as it should be

 

even if she were an " addict " that is not " wrong "

 

and if she can get a sense for that,

and the omnipresence of this moment,

would she really need to go to rehab ?

 

She needs LOVE and she needs to tune into a bliss that is as good as drugs, but

coming from Meditation,

Source,

Krsna ,

 

but first she needs clarity and peace ,

so I offer this blessing in whatever way it may be.

-Chris

CrystalHealing- workshop, " Liz W. " <lizard_mama9@ ...>

wrote:

>

> I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Aloha Liz . .  I've worked as a mentor with a family with many of same issues. 

It's a long and bumpy road and in some ways never ends, but rehab (repeated a

number of times) has brought her closer to loving herself.  One of best lessons

for me in process was learning to love unconditionally while having my own

boundaries about how much support I could give.   

 

Stones that she may want to work with are Rose Quartz (opening to receiving

love, especially from self), Amethyst (connects spiritual to physical body,

assists with recognizing, releasing addictive tendencies), Lepidolite (calming,

cleansing, connects one with joy of being), Blue Lace Agate (speaking truth

gently, assists those who are shy to come foreward) and Peridot (rebirth, new

beginning) and Botswana Agate (physical healer, grounding, balance, protection)

and anything else you intuit is helpful.  Introduce her to your stones and

encourage her to carry a piece that she chooses with her.

 

Hold a stone with your intentiion that she recognize and carry through on what

is highest good for herself that you can give to her and offer to her..  Let her

know that you believe she is 'capable of making right decisions' then let go

knowing that journey to wholeness and recovery is something that only she is

capable of discovering.  I  have learned so much through the process of being

involved and don't regret one second of what transpired.  Sometimes the personal

sacrifice we offer is what is needed, so blessings to you and all involved. 

 

In Love and Light  )'(  Skye

 

Healing Thru Heart

Chakra Balancing Sets and More

www.heartofmaui.com

808-280-3682

 

 

--- On Wed, 4/15/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9 wrote:

 

 

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

Re: [CrystalHW] Re: Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

Wednesday, April 15, 2009, 9:39 AM

 

 

No she wants rehab to deal with other " emotional/mental " issues as well!!  She

doesnt like herself and is compinsating with other things.  She was crying on my

couch yesterday!!  Wheather we veiw her reality as right for her, she doesnt.  I

know its all perspective and I know what society sees isnt the full truth of the

matter, i am just wanting to do what I can for a friend who seems to think she

has no one and pushes everyone away because she is scared.  I have tried to tell

her to take her time and meditate, but she just won't.  She isn't of that mind

set to think that it will help her.  We are 2 oposites!  She is at the point

were she thinks god has given up!!

 

I just need to do my part and I will send my energies to her tonight when i get

off work.  I just hope she is reseptive to them!!

 

Love and Light

Liz

 

 

 

 

________________________________

holyreality11 <holyreality11

 

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:30:02 PM

[CrystalHW] Re: Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

" Clean up her act ? "

There is no - thing - to - clean !

 

Duality is strange ,

i would follow this by " isn't it " but it IS strange, not, " is not "

 

by viewing someone as already being clean, they are cleansed,

 

by viewing something as if they have a scarlet-letter,

they are harmed,

 

whatever her life may appear to be, one may stoically dismiss all negative views

and trust and assume it is perfect and as it should be

 

even if she were an " addict " that is not " wrong "

 

and if she can get a sense for that,

and the omnipresence of this moment,

would she really need to go to rehab ?

 

She needs LOVE and she needs to tune into a bliss that is as good as drugs, but

coming from Meditation,

Source,

Krsna ,

 

but first she needs clarity and peace ,

so I offer this blessing in whatever way it may be.

-Chris

CrystalHealing- workshop, " Liz W. " <lizard_mama9@ ....>

wrote:

>

> I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

shall send reiki energy for her.

love]

krishna

 

--- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9 wrote:

 

 

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

[CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

" Group Crystal Healing "

Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

[Guest guest]

I trust that you believe that what you say is true. But, you can't " get an act

together " for another person.

You can't trust an addict. An addict can't trust him/herself. The family may

simply have " had enough " or are attempting a " tough love " situation.

Her innocent babies???   Shouldn't have to wait!!! For someone to rescue

them? That's Bullshit...and whatever State you're in should know it.

If you're not willing, as her friend..to take her kids through the

process....being a friend?   call SS ....

You can try and help her to succeed. Out of care/concern.

But, the only way that that will happen is if that is the personal choice....

HERS....with the true understanding of the change. (what do you do with your

spare (boring) times...and what do you do when your pissed...or feel

overwhelmed?)

LUCK...has nothing to do with it! Responsibility does! Your feeling helpless for

her...enables her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

________________________________

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

Group Crystal Healing

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:11:40 PM

[CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

[Guest guest]

Sassi Kass!

 

I am quite sure you are expressing your opinion because you HAVE LIVED any

similar circumstance like this. And I don[t blame you for anything!

 

Every one has different experiences in life! Experiences bring up different

reactions.

 

You could have guided LIZ W. to the same direction but using more love in your

words.

 

Being aggressive only demonstrate that you couldn't receive the same I am

offering you to practice: LOVE!

 

All of us have our limitations and the truth belongs to our consciousness and

GOD. So if we lie in our declarations we will suffer the consequences sooner or

later.

It is nobody business to judge anybody actions!

 

And YES, intentions and pure LOVE, even from a distance has rescued many lives.

That is what LIZ asked.... LOVE.... do you have some to give, or to share?

 

I wish your days are blessed. LOVE & LIGHT through out your days to come, since

now!

 

Simply So!

 

Rose

 

 

sassi kass

Thursday, April 16, 2009 11:05 PM

 

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

I trust that you believe that what you say is true. But, you can't " get an act

together " for another person.

You can't trust an addict. An addict can't trust him/herself. The family may

simply have " had enough " or are attempting a " tough love " situation.

Her innocent babies??? Shouldn't have to wait!!! For someone to rescue them?

That's Bullshit...and whatever State you're in should know it.

If you're not willing, as her friend..to take her kids through the

process....being a friend? call SS ....

You can try and help her to succeed. Out of care/concern.

But, the only way that that will happen is if that is the personal choice....

HERS....with the true understanding of the change. (what do you do with your

spare (boring) times...and what do you do when your pissed...or feel

overwhelmed?)

LUCK...has nothing to do with it! Responsibility does! Your feeling helpless for

her...enables her.

 

 

 

________________________________

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

Group Crystal Healing

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:11:40 PM

[CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids. But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies! I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own! I can only offer her the little bit I can!! If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help. I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I. I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this! I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

[Guest guest]

Detaching with love may be the best thing for you right now. However her

children need to be first prority! If she is unable to care for them at this

time maybe a scoial worker needs to be of help to her.

 

Kristin S.

 

 

 

 

 

 

sassikass

Thu, 16 Apr 2009 20:05:11 -0700

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I trust that you believe that what you say is true. But, you can't " get an act

together " for another person.

You can't trust an addict. An addict can't trust him/herself. The family may

simply have " had enough " or are attempting a " tough love " situation.

Her innocent babies??? Shouldn't have to wait!!! For someone to rescue them?

That's Bullshit...and whatever State you're in should know it.

If you're not willing, as her friend..to take her kids through the

process....being a friend? call SS ....

You can try and help her to succeed. Out of care/concern.

But, the only way that that will happen is if that is the personal choice....

HERS....with the true understanding of the change. (what do you do with your

spare (boring) times...and what do you do when your pissed...or feel

overwhelmed?)

LUCK...has nothing to do with it! Responsibility does! Your feeling helpless for

her...enables her.

 

 

 

________________________________

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

Group Crystal Healing

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:11:40 PM

[CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids. But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies! I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own! I can only offer her the little bit I can!! If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help. I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I. I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this! I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

[Guest guest]

I forgot to add too. Being a friend to a person with a addiction is HARD. You

want to rescue them and be the best friend you can be to them. There are

programs out there that can help find her a place for her children while she

gets the help she needs. Continue to send her healing energy and stength but

don't forget youself too because you know her troubles can rub off on you and

make you feel drained. If she needs you just listen. It sounds like your

already doing just that.

 

 

 

Good luck to her and you

 

Kristin S.

 

 

 

 

 

 

sassikass

Thu, 16 Apr 2009 20:05:11 -0700

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I trust that you believe that what you say is true. But, you can't " get an act

together " for another person.

You can't trust an addict. An addict can't trust him/herself. The family may

simply have " had enough " or are attempting a " tough love " situation.

Her innocent babies??? Shouldn't have to wait!!! For someone to rescue them?

That's Bullshit...and whatever State you're in should know it.

If you're not willing, as her friend..to take her kids through the

process....being a friend? call SS ....

You can try and help her to succeed. Out of care/concern.

But, the only way that that will happen is if that is the personal choice....

HERS....with the true understanding of the change. (what do you do with your

spare (boring) times...and what do you do when your pissed...or feel

overwhelmed?)

LUCK...has nothing to do with it! Responsibility does! Your feeling helpless for

her...enables her.

 

 

 

________________________________

Liz W. <lizard_mama9

Group Crystal Healing

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:11:40 PM

[CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for her

kids. But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies! I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own! I can only offer her the little bit I can!! If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help. I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I. I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

 

Thank you all just for reading this! I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

 

Love and Light

 

Liz

 

 

[Guest guest]

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what she

is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her children

have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars.net

, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9 wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing "

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

[Guest guest]

I went through a thing, after Kirby suddenly died, where for 8 years,  I could

not find myself.

I diagnosed it as having " lost my soul "   & being Native American,  I tried to

locate a Medicine Man.  A True Medicine Man is able to do a " Soul Retrieval " .  I

could not find a genuine Medicine Man.  So I went " to the source " ---the place of

my birth and where my family has lived since the turn of the Century circa

1900's.  My family is still here. Not 

so many of them are very close,  but this IS " the source " .  I found some of

myself here,  maybe all of myself: I'm not certain.  Finding out that I'm

Bi-Polar has thrown my self-perspective into somewhat of a Tail-spin.  I will

certainly pray for your friend,  Jackie

 

--- On Thu, 4/30/09, lillianeve220 <lillianeve220 wrote:

 

lillianeve220 <lillianeve220

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Thursday, April 30, 2009, 2:06 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what she

is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her children

have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars. net

CrystalHealing- workshop, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...>

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing " <crystalhealing- workshop>

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

[Guest guest]

Do not except a label. It is easy to become what you are labeled

Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T

 

 

jackie moore <jerryandkramer

 

Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:51:50

 

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

I went through a thing, after Kirby suddenly died, where for 8 years,  I could

not find myself.

I diagnosed it as having " lost my soul "   & being Native American,  I tried to

locate a Medicine Man.  A True Medicine Man is able to do a " Soul Retrieval " .  I

could not find a genuine Medicine Man.  So I went " to the source " ---the place of

my birth and where my family has lived since the turn of the Century circa

1900's.  My family is still here. Not 

so many of them are very close,  but this IS " the source " .  I found some of

myself here,  maybe all of myself: I'm not certain.  Finding out that I'm

Bi-Polar has thrown my self-perspective into somewhat of a Tail-spin.  I will

certainly pray for your friend,  Jackie

 

--- On Thu, 4/30/09, lillianeve220 <lillianeve220 wrote:

 

lillianeve220 <lillianeve220

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Thursday, April 30, 2009, 2:06 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what she

is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her children

have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars. net

CrystalHealing- workshop, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...>

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing " <crystalhealing- workshop>

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together for

her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to go to

rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on because i have a

family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I can!!  If you all could

send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just feel helpless and I know

she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can get some luck on her side

she will clean up her act and she will be a much better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

[Guest guest]

              Thank you,  but nobody told me that I might need a Soul

Retrieval;  I already knew about the Retrievals.

               But as I  searched & sifted through the empty shards, scraps, &

 remnants that seemed to be the only things left inside of me,  I could only

find 2 possibilities-- 1)  That there wasn't much left of  " myself " ;  That  most

all the important &  true parts of myself had seemingly  scatterered  beyond my

realm,  or sphere of reach;   and  out far-past my

shriveling & seemingly-dying Aura

               AND/OR  2)  Whatever MAY be left of the " me " ,   which I needed in

order to live

sanely and wholely again,  had mutated into something unrecognizable

&  uncomfortable  in a completely foreign and frightening way.   I could no

longer find nor recognize myself,  my spirit nor my Soul.

             With these ideas and feelings in mind,  I sat quietly &   waited to

see what  the

my inner voice told me:  My inner voice FELT  these were the 'truths'  I had

been given.

              My Second THOUGHT was " Soul Retrieval " .   I DO believe that this

would have helped me find my way back to my Soul & my Life's Path.  It felt

right and it makes sense.

              I guess there's more than one way to find a Missing Soul,  & my

decision to go back to " the source "   of my beginnings,  to the family whole

enfolded me with love and  with

much, much prayer,  I have found much of what I was missing.  

              However,   I am not yet completely whole and put back together

again;   but  I continue to pray and ponder,  and I look for answers

EVERYWHERE.  

              The questions are:  If you HAVE  come completely Apart and

Undone,  CAN  you be put back together completely  AS-WAS,  in time?   OR,   If

put back together,  might there always be ' cracks'   and  " mended pieces

showing "   that won't allow you to be as you

once were?    OR,   Will there always be, at least,  a  few parts strewn about

and  never within your grasp? 

              i.e.  While I CONTINUE to TRY to get whole and as-was,  could it

be that I

should STOP  because this is as " mended " and " together "   as I may get?  Should I

CONTINUE trying?  

              My Inner Voice tells me that this is where the Pendulum, 

Crystals,  and Third Eye Chakra  are  waiting for me to call upon them  & make

use of the energies and wisdom

they  Generously  offer.     Peace to You All,  Jackie

 

 

--- On Fri, 5/1/09, aprilwine552002 <aprilwine552002 wrote:

 

aprilwine552002 <aprilwine552002

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Friday, May 1, 2009, 3:04 PM

 

Do not except a label. It is easy to become what you are labeled

Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T

 

 

jackie moore <jerryandkramer

 

Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:51:50

 

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

 

I went through a thing, after Kirby suddenly died, where for 8 years,  I could

not find myself.

I diagnosed it as having " lost my soul "   & being Native

American,  I tried to locate a Medicine Man.  A True Medicine Man is able to

do a " Soul Retrieval " .  I could not find a genuine Medicine

Man.  So I went " to the source " ---the place of my birth and where my

family has lived since the turn of the Century circa 1900's.  My family is

still here. Not 

so many of them are very close,  but this IS " the source " .  I found

some of myself here,  maybe all of myself: I'm not certain.  Finding out

that I'm Bi-Polar has thrown my self-perspective into somewhat of a

Tail-spin.  I will certainly pray for your friend,  Jackie

 

--- On Thu, 4/30/09, lillianeve220 <lillianeve220 wrote:

 

lillianeve220 <lillianeve220

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

Thursday, April 30, 2009, 2:06 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what

she is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her

children have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars. net

CrystalHealing- workshop, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...>

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing " <crystalhealing- workshop@

. com>

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together

for her kids.  But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to

go to rehab but has no one to watch her babies!  I can't take them on

because i have a family of my own!  I can only offer her the little bit I

can!!  If you all could send some good wishes her way that would help.  I just

feel helpless and I know she feels so much worse that I.   I know if she can

get some luck on her side she will clean up her act and she will be a much

better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this!  I hope you all are well in your

worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

[Guest guest]

That is a good question of whether or not you can be put together the way you

were in time and if so would you have cracks. I reminded me of a psychology bit

I learned after having children that a child's development will get torn down

and rebuilt every six months. I guess this is natures way of getting the child

ready to recieve new information and development to further learn on their life

path. Maybe this probess does not start once you are an adult. I mean think

about the typical crises of a teen. They go through soo much stuff in that time

while try to get a grasp on a different perspective of the world as they once

knew it. Hope this made sence. Maybe you are going througha similar situation

a sort of rebuild of you spiritual mental emotional self?

 

Kristin

 

 

 

 

 

 

jerryandkramer

Sat, 2 May 2009 01:20:48 -0700

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thank you, but nobody told me that I might need a Soul Retrieval;

I already knew about the Retrievals.

But as I searched & sifted through the empty shards, scraps, &

remnants that seemed to be the only things left inside of me, I could only find

2 possibilities-- 1) That there wasn't much left of " myself " ; That most all

the important & true parts of myself had seemingly scatterered beyond my

realm, or sphere of reach; and out far-past my

shriveling & seemingly-dying Aura

AND/OR 2) Whatever MAY be left of the " me " , which I needed in

order to live

sanely and wholely again, had mutated into something unrecognizable &

uncomfortable in a completely foreign and frightening way. I could no longer

find nor recognize myself, my spirit nor my Soul.

With these ideas and feelings in mind, I sat quietly & waited to

see what the

my inner voice told me: My inner voice FELT these were the 'truths' I had

been given.

My Second THOUGHT was " Soul Retrieval " . I DO believe that this

would have helped me find my way back to my Soul & my Life's Path. It felt

right and it makes sense.

I guess there's more than one way to find a Missing Soul, & my

decision to go back to " the source " of my beginnings, to the family whole

enfolded me with love and with

much, much prayer, I have found much of what I was missing.

However, I am not yet completely whole and put back together

again; but I continue to pray and ponder, and I look for answers EVERYWHERE.

The questions are: If you HAVE come completely Apart and Undone,

CAN you be put back together completely AS-WAS, in time? OR, If put back

together, might there always be ' cracks' and " mended pieces showing " that

won't allow you to be as you

once were? OR, Will there always be, at least, a few parts strewn about

and never within your grasp?

i.e. While I CONTINUE to TRY to get whole and as-was, could it

be that I

should STOP because this is as " mended " and " together " as I may get? Should I

CONTINUE trying?

My Inner Voice tells me that this is where the Pendulum,

Crystals, and Third Eye Chakra are waiting for me to call upon them & make

use of the energies and wisdom

they Generously offer. Peace to You All, Jackie

 

 

--- On Fri, 5/1/09, aprilwine552002 <aprilwine552002 wrote:

 

aprilwine552002 <aprilwine552002

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Friday, May 1, 2009, 3:04 PM

 

Do not except a label. It is easy to become what you are labeled

Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T

 

 

jackie moore <jerryandkramer

 

Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:51:50

 

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

I went through a thing, after Kirby suddenly died, where for 8 years, I could

not find myself.

I diagnosed it as having " lost my soul " & being Native

American, I tried to locate a Medicine Man. A True Medicine Man is able to

do a " Soul Retrieval " . I could not find a genuine Medicine

Man. So I went " to the source " ---the place of my birth and where my

family has lived since the turn of the Century circa 1900's. My family is

still here. Not

so many of them are very close, but this IS " the source " . I found

some of myself here, maybe all of myself: I'm not certain. Finding out

that I'm Bi-Polar has thrown my self-perspective into somewhat of a

Tail-spin. I will certainly pray for your friend, Jackie

 

--- On Thu, 4/30/09, lillianeve220 <lillianeve220 wrote:

 

lillianeve220 <lillianeve220

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

Thursday, April 30, 2009, 2:06 PM

 

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what

she is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her

children have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars. net

CrystalHealing- workshop, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...>

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing " <crystalhealing- workshop@

. com>

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together

for her kids. But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to

go to rehab but has no one to watch her babies! I can't take them on

because i have a family of my own! I can only offer her the little bit I

can!! If you all could send some good wishes her way that would help. I just

feel helpless and I know she feels so much worse that I. I know if she can

get some luck on her side she will clean up her act and she will be a much

better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this! I hope you all are well in your

worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>

[Guest guest]

Kristin,   This makes so much sense and gives me a whole new perspective---a

POSITIVE

way of seeing what the meaning of this is suppose to be. Thank you,   Jackie

 

 

 

--- On Sun, 5/3/09, kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 wrote:

 

kristin Swint <Kristin1_7

RE: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Sunday, May 3, 2009, 11:13 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That is a good question of whether or not you can be put together the way you

were in time and if so would you have cracks. I reminded me of a psychology bit

I learned after having children that a child's development will get torn down

and rebuilt every six months. I guess this is natures way of getting the child

ready to recieve new information and development to further learn on their life

path. Maybe this probess does not start once you are an adult. I mean think

about the typical crises of a teen. They go through soo much stuff in that time

while try to get a grasp on a different perspective of the world as they once

knew it. Hope this made sence. Maybe you are going througha similar situation a

sort of rebuild of you spiritual mental emotional self?

 

Kristin

 

CrystalHealing- workshop

jerryandkramer@

Sat, 2 May 2009 01:20:48 -0700

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

 

Thank you, but nobody told me that I might need a Soul Retrieval; I already knew

about the Retrievals.

But as I searched & sifted through the empty shards, scraps, & remnants that

seemed to be the only things left inside of me, I could only find 2

possibilities- - 1) That there wasn't much left of " myself " ; That most all the

important & true parts of myself had seemingly scatterered beyond my realm, or

sphere of reach; and out far-past my

shriveling & seemingly-dying Aura

AND/OR 2) Whatever MAY be left of the " me " , which I needed in order to live

sanely and wholely again, had mutated into something unrecognizable &

uncomfortable in a completely foreign and frightening way. I could no longer

find nor recognize myself, my spirit nor my Soul.

With these ideas and feelings in mind, I sat quietly & waited to see what the

my inner voice told me: My inner voice FELT these were the 'truths' I had been

given.

My Second THOUGHT was " Soul Retrieval " . I DO believe that this would have helped

me find my way back to my Soul & my Life's Path. It felt right and it makes

sense.

I guess there's more than one way to find a Missing Soul, & my decision to go

back to " the source " of my beginnings, to the family whole enfolded me with love

and with

much, much prayer, I have found much of what I was missing.

However, I am not yet completely whole and put back together again; but I

continue to pray and ponder, and I look for answers EVERYWHERE.

The questions are: If you HAVE come completely Apart and Undone, CAN you be put

back together completely AS-WAS, in time? OR, If put back together, might there

always be ' cracks' and " mended pieces showing " that won't allow you to be as

you

once were? OR, Will there always be, at least, a few parts strewn about and

never within your grasp?

i.e. While I CONTINUE to TRY to get whole and as-was, could it be that I

should STOP because this is as " mended " and " together " as I may get? Should I

CONTINUE trying?

My Inner Voice tells me that this is where the Pendulum, Crystals, and Third Eye

Chakra are waiting for me to call upon them & make use of the energies and

wisdom

they Generously offer. Peace to You All, Jackie

 

 

--- On Fri, 5/1/09, aprilwine552002@ <aprilwine552002@ >

wrote:

 

aprilwine552002@ <aprilwine552002@ >

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it herself!!

CrystalHealing- workshop

Friday, May 1, 2009, 3:04 PM

 

Do not except a label. It is easy to become what you are labeled

Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T

 

 

jackie moore <jerryandkramer@ >

 

Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:51:50

<CrystalHealing- workshop>

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

 

I went through a thing, after Kirby suddenly died, where for 8 years, I could

not find myself.

I diagnosed it as having " lost my soul " & being Native

American, I tried to locate a Medicine Man. A True Medicine Man is able to

do a " Soul Retrieval " . I could not find a genuine Medicine

Man. So I went " to the source " ---the place of my birth and where my

family has lived since the turn of the Century circa 1900's. My family is

still here. Not

so many of them are very close, but this IS " the source " . I found

some of myself here, maybe all of myself: I'm not certain. Finding out

that I'm Bi-Polar has thrown my self-perspective into somewhat of a

Tail-spin. I will certainly pray for your friend, Jackie

 

--- On Thu, 4/30/09, lillianeve220 <lillianeve220@ > wrote:

 

lillianeve220 <lillianeve220@ >

Re: [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

CrystalHealing- workshop

Thursday, April 30, 2009, 2:06 PM

 

Sending Love and Trust. She is exactly where she is suppose to be doing what

she is supposed to be doing. There is no other way. I am grateful that her

children have a powerful example like you.

In Loving Service- Lillian

www.terrastars. net

CrystalHealing- workshop, krishna rajagopalan

<krishnarajagopalan wrote:

>

> shall send reiki energy for her.

> love]

> krishna

>

> --- On Wed, 15/4/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Liz W. <lizard_mama9@ ...>

> [CrystalHW] Helping a friend that can't seem to find it

herself!!

> " Group Crystal Healing " <crystalhealing- workshop@

. com>

> Wednesday, 15 April, 2009, 11:41 PM

>

>

I have a person in my life that is really trying to get her act together

for her kids. But not even her family will come to bat for her. She wants to

go to rehab but has no one to watch her babies! I can't take them on

because i have a family of my own! I can only offer her the little bit I

can!! If you all could send some good wishes her way that would help. I just

feel helpless and I know she feels so much worse that I. I know if she can

get some luck on her side she will clean up her act and she will be a much

better person for that.

>

> Thank you all just for reading this! I hope you all are well in your

worlds!!

>

> Love and Light

>

> Liz

>

>