Guest guest Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 I would like to thank you all for your support and healing. My friend who had the cancer died yesterday of a heart attack. So from the time he found out what his prognosis was and to the time he passed was very quick and less painfull than what he could have gone thru. We all miss him. If i could ask one more thing of you all and I will do it myself as well. Could you all send some energies to my mom, kids and family to help the thru the grieving process? My kids are young and are having a tough time. If you all have some advice of what to do for them to make it easier that would be helpful as well. I don't lie to them, i guess i am brutally honest at times. Thank you all again for you love and support. Love and Light Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 I never lied to my kids either - even about the " special holiday " stuff. Just be as direct, simple and short as you can with the kids with what is within the realm of your own belief system. They will as questions as they arrise. You didn't state their ages, but most kids need to just process one thing at a time. The funeral will be another element for them to " deal " with. Most kids ask questions after a funeral even months after the event or they may just make statements. Take one question/statement at a time. Best I can say is " May in time your memories bring a warmth to your heart and a smile to your face " . He is in peace not being in his physical body, no more pains, or problems. He is in a better world than what we know. Blessings to you and your at this time of sorrow. Rebecca --- On Tue, 1/27/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9 wrote: Liz W. <lizard_mama9 [CrystalHW] Thank you very much " Group Crystal Healing " Tuesday, January 27, 2009, 11:04 AM I would like to thank you all for your support and healing. My friend who had the cancer died yesterday of a heart attack. So from the time he found out what his prognosis was and to the time he passed was very quick and less painfull than what he could have gone thru. We all miss him. If i could ask one more thing of you all and I will do it myself as well. Could you all send some energies to my mom, kids and family to help the thru the grieving process? My kids are young and are having a tough time. If you all have some advice of what to do for them to make it easier that would be helpful as well. I don't lie to them, i guess i am brutally honest at times. Thank you all again for you love and support. Love and Light Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Liz- sending prayers and blessings to you all. Many Hugs, Roxanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 I am sorry for you loss, but it was good for him, that is for sure. Try Back Flower Remedies: Rescue Remedy, Walnut, and Star of Bethelehem are excellent for grief. Blessings, Maria , " Liz W. " <lizard_mama9 wrote: > > I would like to thank you all for your support and healing. My friend who had the cancer died yesterday of a heart attack. So from the time he found out what his prognosis was and to the time he passed was very quick and less painfull than what he could have gone thru. We all miss him. > > If i could ask one more thing of you all and I will do it myself as well. Could you all send some energies to my mom, kids and family to help the thru the grieving process? > > My kids are young and are having a tough time. If you all have some advice of what to do for them to make it easier that would be helpful as well. I don't lie to them, i guess i am brutally honest at times. > > Thank you all again for you love and support. > > Love and Light > > Liz > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Dear Liz, There are no words to adequately describe the loss of a loved one. The loss is a loss and the best I can think of is to let you and the family know that there are people out there who don't know them but who are thinking of them and in my case, I am asking that many angels surround all of you now and hold you in their arms. I also am asking that a quick transition period for everone be a smooth as possible. I am asking that comfort be embedded into this mail to be released as soon as it is openned. Be gentle with this time and each other, Judy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Dear Liz, I understand you. My father died also very quick on cancer and I was 16 years old. In that year 2 other relatives died so it was a heavy year for a so young girl. I will send you the healing energies you need and I hope the angels will surround you all. Try to keep talking with your kids. They need you very much and you need them. Help them give this lost a place in their heart. I have felt more lonely than I was after the lost of my father and I hope your kids will be spared from this lonelyness. Use your intuïtion more than you ever did and do recognize all signals from your kids. Mourn with eachother. Cry with eachother Be angry with eachother. And give comfort to eachtother. Don't think that you spare your kids by holding back your tears, anger and sorrows. They will feel it and they will feel that they are too much. I will send you energies of love, light and strength as much you need. Blessings, Maaike Seraphilia Aurelia --- On Tue, 1/27/09, Liz W. <lizard_mama9 wrote: Liz W. <lizard_mama9 [CrystalHW] Thank you very much " Group Crystal Healing " Tuesday, January 27, 2009, 5:04 PM I would like to thank you all for your support and healing. My friend who had the cancer died yesterday of a heart attack. So from the time he found out what his prognosis was and to the time he passed was very quick and less painfull than what he could have gone thru. We all miss him. If i could ask one more thing of you all and I will do it myself as well. Could you all send some energies to my mom, kids and family to help the thru the grieving process? My kids are young and are having a tough time. If you all have some advice of what to do for them to make it easier that would be helpful as well. I don't lie to them, i guess i am brutally honest at times. Thank you all again for you love and support. Love and Light Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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