soulmates - to Kay (was marriage) ----Fabeku

[Guest guest]

Kari-

 

Sorry for my delayed replies. It's been unusually busy for me, and I'm

behind on both posts and emails. Thanks for your patience.

 

>

I noticed, however there are some crystal workers now who are starting

to realise that they are working with beings not tools. I know two who

know this.

>

 

Thankfully there are signs that the tide is starting to shift, and

people are remembering the older ways of dancing with and relating to

the Earth Elders. And once you taste the medicine of this road,

everything shifts and a wholly new road opens.

 

>

I like the term crystal worker not healer as it is the crystals who do

the healing not the therapist. I don't mind the term crystal therapist.

>

 

I like the idea of a " worker " much better than a healer. In my

experience, what you said is most definitely true - it's the stone

spirits who do the healing, not us. We act as bridges, facilitators,

dance partners... <grin> And that's beautiful work. It doesn't

diminish our role in any way. In fact, I feel it makes it even more

sacred because it's aligned with right relationship.

 

>

When one looks at ancient European folklore, archaeology and

manuscripts (such as Anglo Saxon medicine) it is quite clear that once

too Westerners worked with spirits and the shamanic medicine path.

>

 

Very true. And there's a part of all of us, an ancestral level, that

remembers this, even if it's buried deep within the bones of our body.

 

>

Oh indeed….the Crystal beings who live with me are teaching me about

themselves and have enriched my life, in fact I would go as far to say

as they have transformed it.

>

 

Time and time again I have seen lives, including my own, completely

transformed through this dance.

 

>

I am finding some of them like to have names and tell me their names!

>

 

Wonderful! Names play such an important part in the shamanic

traditions, and receiving a name is a great gift on so many levels.

 

 

>

I have a place in a centre for a few weeks to practise Reiki and

Crystals (voluntary) to get experience.

>

 

What a nice opportunity for you.

 

>

....asked them if they would be so kind to help the clients who came in

>

 

This line seems particularly important to me. When we approach the

stones as spirits, as Elders, we approach them as we would any other

Elder. We don't tell them what to do, but instead ask them, with an

open and humble heart, if they'd help us. We invite them to the dance,

and when we do so in a good and sincere way they always show up. <grin>

 

>

And the clients and I found the crystals they chose really were what

they needed!

>

 

Always!

 

I am a big believer in the idea that our heart is our greatest vehicle

of listening, and our heart always knows exactly what medicine we need

in each moment. Our head may not have any idea, or may have itself set

on A when, in truth, we need B.

 

If we listen to our heart, and go with what most naturally attracts

us, we're engaged in a type of listening, and that listening will lead

us flawlessly.

 

We don't need big books of " crystal definitions " . We don't need to

memorize complex models that assign stones based on color,

astrological ties, chakras, etc. All we need to do is listen, and let

our listening guide us. It's perfect!

 

>

The Chevron amethyst in it did astonishing things! Like moving in a

spiral from the crown to the feet!

>

 

Quite a dance! <grin>

 

> I would like to ask you some questions if that is ok?

 

Sure. Glad to offer whatever I can. Just know that, at the moment, I'm

behind on replies, so while it may take me a minute, I will most

definitely send a reply.

 

>

I took the beings to the park after so they could sit on the Earth,

and then a nature spirit came to see us!!!!

>

 

That sounds like a beautiful way to end the dance. Indigenous

traditions teach us that when we have received a gift (or even when we

ask to receive one) we give an offering. It can be something small and

simple, but by giving something to the Elders that help us, we keep

ourselves in a state of right relationship, and our dance remains

balanced. We also honor the Elders and their medicine, which they so

generously share with us.

 

After I've danced with the stone spirits, I like to offer some

Cornmeal or Sacred Tobacco or a bit of incense or some quiet time

outside, on the Earth. I Love that you all went to the park together.

<grin>

 

Thanks for your replies, and for your patience with mine.

 

Dancing,

Fabeku

 

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http://www.dancing-dragonfly.com/

 

Original Medicine workshop - September 26, 27 & 28, 2008

* A journey to the heart of stone spirit shamanism *

http://www.stonespiritshamanism.com/

[Guest guest]

" Kari-

 

Sorry for my delayed replies. It's been unusually busy for me, and I'm

behind on both posts and emails. Thanks for your patience. "

 

 

 

 

 

Fabeku, I am grateful you reply to my questions and don't worry about " late "

replies. I have no web access at home, so sometimes don't get online for

days! I know you will be doing another workshop soon, so take your time to

reply.

 

 

 

 

 

 

" Thankfully there are signs that the tide is starting to shift, and

people are remembering the older ways of dancing with and relating to

the Earth Elders. And once you taste the medicine of this road,

everything shifts and a wholly new road opens. "

 

 

 

 

 

So so true! Yesterday with a client, I was holding one of my Fuschite beings

and all of a sudden I saw my Tiger's Eye crystal in my inner vision, but

huge and super- imposed over the wall ( and client's feet) I was gazing at!

I took this as a sign that the Tiger's Eye being wanted to be placed by the

client's feet. So I did so and after we found there was a good reason for

this! I was in awe of this to be honest- that the crystal beings know what

the client needs so well and are so kind as to want to help. My Selenite

wand was so happy to come yesterday and a face appeared in it, which seems

to be staying. I even felt a gentle touch under my right ear and tingling in

my aura as I was holding the being and waiting for clients to arrive.

 

 

 

 

 

" I like the idea of a " worker " much better than a healer. In my

experience, what you said is most definitely true - it's the stone

spirits who do the healing, not us. We act as bridges, facilitators,

dance partners... <grin> And that's beautiful work. It doesn't

diminish our role in any way. In fact, I feel it makes it even more

sacred because it's aligned with right relationship. "

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yes, I told my boss yesterday that if anything in this is the " tool " it's me

not the crystals!

 

 

 

 

 

I am finding some of them like to have names and tell me their names!

 

 

" Wonderful! Names play such an important part in the shamanic

traditions, and receiving a name is a great gift on so many levels. "

 

 

 

 

 

Really? I have read lots on shamanic traditions but not much was mentioned

on names, except for the would be shaman finding their own working name.

Tho, I am no shaman I hasten to add.

 

Getting back to what we said on European ancient ways, I can recommend a

gorgeous novel called The Stone and the Flute by Hans Bemmann ( A German)-

the story has many magical shamanic relationships in it between the

protagonist and animals, trees, nature spirits…he also is given a magical

stone which unlike most tales is one whose colours hold the mysteries…it's

not your standard fantasy tale at all, but reads like a folk tale..you would

LOVE it..you can find it online mega cheap!

 

 

 

 

 

 

" ...asked them if they would be so kind to help the clients who came in

 

This line seems particularly important to me. When we approach the

stones as spirits, as Elders, we approach them as we would any other

Elder. We don't tell them what to do, but instead ask them, with an

open and humble heart, if they'd help us. We invite them to the dance,

and when we do so in a good and sincere way they always show up. <grin> "

 

 

 

 

 

Yes, they are so *not* " tools " !!!!

 

 

 

" I am a big believer in the idea that our heart is our greatest vehicle

of listening, and our heart always knows exactly what medicine we need

in each moment. Our head may not have any idea, or may have itself set

on A when, in truth, we need B.

 

If we listen to our heart, and go with what most naturally attracts

us, we're engaged in a type of listening, and that listening will lead

us flawlessly. "

 

 

 

 

 

Now, you WILL love the novel I mentioned as this is one of the themes in

it..and guess what the main character is called? Listener….

 

 

 

 

 

" We don't need big books of " crystal definitions " . We don't need to

memorize complex models that assign stones based on color,

astrological ties, chakras, etc. All we need to do is listen, and let

our listening guide us. It's perfect! "

 

 

 

 

 

Yes, a bloke I know is gonna spend over a thousand pounds on what he thinks

is a deluxe crystal course which will take him 2 years to complete. I said

he could do the distance one I am doing for under two hundred quid and

listen to the stone beings…but he says they are nothing more than tools..

 

Do you ever work with chakras Fabeku? I do, but let the crystal beings guide

me. I don't bother with astrology tho. Colour yes in a way as I let the

client choose which crystals they would like to work with based on the

colours they feel would help, shape, size etc.

 

 

 

 

 

" I took the beings to the park after so they could sit on the Earth,

and then a nature spirit came to see us!!!!

 

That sounds like a beautiful way to end the dance. Indigenous

traditions teach us that when we have received a gift (or even when we

ask to receive one) we give an offering. It can be something small and

simple, but by giving something to the Elders that help us, we keep

ourselves in a state of right relationship, and our dance remains

balanced. We also honor the Elders and their medicine, which they so

generously share with us. "

 

 

 

 

 

I didn't take them there yesterday as it was so soggy and damp, but I

offered them insense and music and put them on my altar. Tonight I will let

them dance in Frankinsense resin insense as they seem to love that.

 

 

 

 

 

" After I've danced with the stone spirits, I like to offer some

Cornmeal or Sacred Tobacco or a bit of incense or some quiet time

outside, on the Earth. I Love that you all went to the park together.

<grin> "

 

 

 

 

 

Do you literally dance or is that a term for relationship? I plan to take

them again soon, one of my crystals Sparkly, calls them " outings " and he

loves trees, sun bathing and streams. Sparkly is one of my dearest friends

and is very beautiful.

 

 

 

" Thanks for your replies, and for your patience with mine.

 

Dancing,

Fabeku "

 

 

 

Same to you Fabeku, and please no pressure to reply soon and only the bits

you want to comment on.

 

Blessings

 

Kari

 

 

On 5/29/08, Fabeku <fabeku wrote:

>

> Kari-

>

> Sorry for my delayed replies. It's been unusually busy for me, and I'm

> behind on both posts and emails. Thanks for your patience.

>

> >

> I noticed, however there are some crystal workers now who are starting

> to realise that they are working with beings not tools. I know two who

> know this.

> >

>

> Thankfully there are signs that the tide is starting to shift, and

> people are remembering the older ways of dancing with and relating to

> the Earth Elders. And once you taste the medicine of this road,

> everything shifts and a wholly new road opens.

>

> >

> I like the term crystal worker not healer as it is the crystals who do

> the healing not the therapist. I don't mind the term crystal therapist.

> >

>

> I like the idea of a " worker " much better than a healer. In my

> experience, what you said is most definitely true - it's the stone

> spirits who do the healing, not us. We act as bridges, facilitators,

> dance partners... <grin> And that's beautiful work. It doesn't

> diminish our role in any way. In fact, I feel it makes it even more

> sacred because it's aligned with right relationship.

>

> >

> When one looks at ancient European folklore, archaeology and

> manuscripts (such as Anglo Saxon medicine) it is quite clear that once

> too Westerners worked with spirits and the shamanic medicine path.

> >

>

> Very true. And there's a part of all of us, an ancestral level, that

> remembers this, even if it's buried deep within the bones of our body.

>

> >

> Oh indeed….the Crystal beings who live with me are teaching me about

> themselves and have enriched my life, in fact I would go as far to say

> as they have transformed it.

> >

>

> Time and time again I have seen lives, including my own, completely

> transformed through this dance.

>

> >

> I am finding some of them like to have names and tell me their names!

> >

>

> Wonderful! Names play such an important part in the shamanic

> traditions, and receiving a name is a great gift on so many levels.

>

> >

> I have a place in a centre for a few weeks to practise Reiki and

> Crystals (voluntary) to get experience.

> >

>

> What a nice opportunity for you.

>

> >

> ...asked them if they would be so kind to help the clients who came in

> >

>

> This line seems particularly important to me. When we approach the

> stones as spirits, as Elders, we approach them as we would any other

> Elder. We don't tell them what to do, but instead ask them, with an

> open and humble heart, if they'd help us. We invite them to the dance,

> and when we do so in a good and sincere way they always show up. <grin>

>

> >

> And the clients and I found the crystals they chose really were what

> they needed!

> >

>

> Always!

>

> I am a big believer in the idea that our heart is our greatest vehicle

> of listening, and our heart always knows exactly what medicine we need

> in each moment. Our head may not have any idea, or may have itself set

> on A when, in truth, we need B.

>

> If we listen to our heart, and go with what most naturally attracts

> us, we're engaged in a type of listening, and that listening will lead

> us flawlessly.

>

> We don't need big books of " crystal definitions " . We don't need to

> memorize complex models that assign stones based on color,

> astrological ties, chakras, etc. All we need to do is listen, and let

> our listening guide us. It's perfect!

>

> >

> The Chevron amethyst in it did astonishing things! Like moving in a

> spiral from the crown to the feet!

> >

>

> Quite a dance! <grin>

>

> > I would like to ask you some questions if that is ok?

>

> Sure. Glad to offer whatever I can. Just know that, at the moment, I'm

> behind on replies, so while it may take me a minute, I will most

> definitely send a reply.

>

> >

> I took the beings to the park after so they could sit on the Earth,

> and then a nature spirit came to see us!!!!

> >

>

> That sounds like a beautiful way to end the dance. Indigenous

> traditions teach us that when we have received a gift (or even when we

> ask to receive one) we give an offering. It can be something small and

> simple, but by giving something to the Elders that help us, we keep

> ourselves in a state of right relationship, and our dance remains

> balanced. We also honor the Elders and their medicine, which they so

> generously share with us.

>

> After I've danced with the stone spirits, I like to offer some

> Cornmeal or Sacred Tobacco or a bit of incense or some quiet time

> outside, on the Earth. I Love that you all went to the park together.

> <grin>

>

> Thanks for your replies, and for your patience with mine.

>

> Dancing,

> Fabeku

>

> --------------

> dancing dragonfly - stone spirits that support a miraculous life!

> http://www.dancing-dragonfly.com/

>

> Original Medicine workshop - September 26, 27 & 28, 2008

> * A journey to the heart of stone spirit shamanism *

> http://www.stonespiritshamanism.com/

>

>

>

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Kay

you do not have any confidence issues regarding finding your soulmate . He will

come when the time is right .I think if you stopped looking , he will appear ...

xx

 

--- On Wed, 5/7/08, Kay & lt;hottrinbago72_99 & gt; wrote:

 

Kay & lt;hottrinbago72_99 & gt;

Re: soulmates - to Kay (was [CrystalHW] Re: marriage) ----Fabeku

 

Wednesday, May 7, 2008, 7:52 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

I wish I knew what the obstacles are... I desperately wish I knew. Maybe I have

some confidence issues....

 

:-(

 

Fabeku & lt;fabeku@dancing- dragonfly. com & gt; wrote:

Kay-

 

& gt;

Maybe you can tell me which crystals would help me to find my soulmate....

& gt;

 

What do you feel is your single biggest obstacle to finding the right

partner?

 

I'd be glad to offer a few ideas for stone spirits that may offer some

help, though relationships are complex creatures, on many levels.

 

Dancing,

Fabeku

 

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http://www.dancing- dragonfly. com/

 

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* A journey to the heart of stone spirit shamanism *

http://www.stonespi ritshamanism. com/

 

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