Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for listening. Angel in white Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 Ah my heart breaks for you. I can only imagine how you feel. I will send reiki to you. Bright blessings. Christa laney_schultz <laney_schultz wrote: Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for listening. Angel in white Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 I'm sorry Angel. So all was ok until he was legal? Or do you think that he was cheating. Forgive me for being to nosy please. I feel your hurt, and my way is to heal. I'm sitting here trying to say something to you...but words fail. will try to send peace and love your way angel. I'm so very sorry. In Light, Rain - laney_schultz Friday, April 25, 2008 6:12 PM [CrystalHW] husband walked out on me Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for listening. Angel in white Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 I agree with our dear Rose, you need to alert the immigration department, and seek any help they can provide. That way you are covered if anything ever comes of it. Next dear, and most important, remember you are a wonderful person and are greatly loved by more than this one person. you are a divine wonderful child of God, and guess what you are loved by us as well. -- Have a Happy and Keep Smiling TTFN Angelina Thelin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 laney_schultz wrote: I'm sorry for your troubles and hope that we here can offer some ways that crystals can help. In the mundane The immigration department frowns severely on those who marry solely in order to get legal residency or citizenship They can help you get an annulment In any case you should ( in fact MUST) notify them so that they will not treat you as a party to a fraud. Peggy Jentoft > Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could > speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband > told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our > marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a > half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his > green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. > When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced > legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked > out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, > on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls > himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for > listening. Angel in white > > > --- > > The Crystal healing workshop files are online at http://pjentoft.com/0crystal-healing.html > some files, photos, and message archives can also be found At: > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 I am so sorry. This is part of the reason I've decided men are pigs and why I prefer women. I've been with my partner for 25yrs! I will send you energy. If there are any typos, I'm typing with my 13month old on my lap. Blessings, Bobbi ---- laney_schultz <laney_schultz wrote: > Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could > speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband > told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our > marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a > half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his > green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. > When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced > legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked > out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, > on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls > himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for > listening. Angel in white > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2008 Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 I totally agree - tell Immigration immediately exactly what he said. I also used to have a husband whose only desire was a green card, I assume he got it. ((hugs )) Muriel , rosequartz <rosequartz wrote: > > laney_schultz wrote: > I'm sorry for your troubles and hope that we here can offer some ways > that crystals can help. > In the mundane The immigration department frowns severely on those > who marry solely in order to get legal residency or citizenship > They can help you get an annulment In any case you should ( in fact > MUST) notify them so that they will not treat you as a party to a fraud. > Peggy Jentoft > > Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could > > speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband > > told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our > > marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a > > half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his > > green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. > > When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced > > legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked > > out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, > > on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls > > himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for > > listening. Angel in white > > > > > > --- > > > > The Crystal healing workshop files are online at http://pjentoft.com/0crystal-healing.html > > some files, photos, and message archives can also be found At: > > Groups Links > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > Solarraven http://pjentoft.com/index.html > On Skills for the Practical Mystic, Spiritual Healing, Energy work, Reiki, Crystal Healing, Angels, Huna, Digital Art & scrapbooking, and more > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 , Christa Graves <christa.graves wrote: > > Ah my heart breaks for you. I can only imagine how you feel. I will send reiki to you. > > Bright blessings. > Christa > > laney_schultz <laney_schultz wrote: > Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, figured I could > speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband > told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our > marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a > half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his > green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. > When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced > legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked > out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, > on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls > himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for > listening. Angel in white > > > hi laney, I am new to this site so I hope you won't mind my replying to your message, I am shocked at the coldness of your husbands actions, if he had a heart its pure ice. surely you had noticed this coldness in the past? sometimes we overlook aspects of behaviour because we don't want to face the truth about someone we love. (the voice of experience talking here.) He didn't deserve you laney, there will be a better man for you out there (the voice of experience again!) my best wishes for your recovery and future happiness. sues. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 , " epc247 " <epc247 wrote: > > , Christa Graves > <christa.graves@> wrote: > > > > Ah my heart breaks for you. I can only imagine how you feel. I > will send reiki to you. > > > > Bright blessings. > > Christa > > > > laney_schultz <laney_schultz@> wrote: > > Hi everyone....I am new to this. I needed to talk. So, > figured I could > > speak to all of you about the loss I am feeling right now. My husband > > told me that he no longer is interested in putting any effort into our > > marriage. I was devastated! We have only been married for 3 and a > > half years! He is Canadian, and I am an American. The day that his > > green card came....I was ecstatic and rushed into the house with it. > > When I handed it to him, he said, " GOOD, now we can be divorced > > legally " It felt like someone had shot me into the heart! He walked > > out this past weekend. He spent two weeks online, 8-10 hours a day, > > on his vacation. With the door locked. His name is Ben, and he calls > > himself Dr. So if you guys hear from him...you will know. Thanks for > > listening. Angel in white > > > > > > hi laney, > I am new to this site so I hope you won't mind my replying to your > message, I am shocked at the coldness of your husbands actions, if he > had a heart its pure ice. surely you had noticed this coldness in the > past? sometimes we overlook aspects of behaviour because we don't want > to face the truth about someone we love. (the voice of experience > talking here.) He didn't deserve you laney, there will be a better man > for you out there (the voice of experience again!) > my best wishes for your recovery and future happiness. > sues. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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