Stealing Relationship in Marriage

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Namaste,

 

During our basic pranic healing course we were taken

through the character building and told of a situation

when a person comes between a married couple, it is

like stealing relationship. If a women comes between a

husband and wife she is stealing the relationship, but

what about the husband. what should be his conduct?

and what is the conduct advised for wife? What kind of

 

 

karmic lessons can be learnt form such a situation by

the wife.

 

Kindest regards

 

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Dear Varima,

 

Atma namaste.

 

Thank you for your email.

 

The issue of emotional stealing in a marriage setting

is discussed in character building because Pranic

Healing is a scientific practice which illustrates

the multi dimensional aspects of a person. It

demonstrates that the subtle layers of consiousness

(etheric, emotional, mental, spiritual) eventually

affects the material physical body. This is another

example of the profoundness of the practical

applications of the Master Choa Kok Sui Prannic

Healing.

 

The teaching is only to be used to develop and

strengthen one's character or inner self. It may not

be used to judge another person's weakness or failure.

 

In most cultures, a marriage is exclusively between 2

persons at a time but there are cultures which have

within their tradition, marriages with a ratio of more

than 1 is to 1 or marriage between more than 2 persons

at a time.

 

Marriage is a commitment or contract made by a couple

to each other. The commitment made is by 2

individuals to live life as one. In a deeper sense,

it is a practice in the Principle of Oneness.

However, the level of commitment depends on the degree

of development of awareness (physical, emotional,

mental and spiritual)of the individuals making the

commitment. The more mature the development, the

deeper the commitment.

 

To make a marriage work as designed, commitment by

each party to constantly make the effort to create a

relationship that promotes each individual's and the

family's development. Just like in any development,

work is always in progress and requires a certain

amount of time and dedicated effort . A third party

who distracts the couple from this effort drains

energy from one or both parties in this important

creative activity. Since all is energy, whether

anyone of married couple reacts or not, this act of

willful energy draining is also called stealing. In

practical terms, what is the purpose for trying to

steal creative energy from an existing couple, if not

out of greed or self centerdness? Think for a moment,

how many available single persons are there in your

country, continent, in the world ? Billions!!!! Leave

the couple alone to work on their

marriage relationship, their spiritual practice of

learning Oneness. Marital relationship is a a tool

for spiritual development. Therefore, if a person

willfully drains energy or in effect creates blockage

to another person's spiritual development, the karmic

repercussions are quite serious and may not be limited to just

the material financial terms.

 

As for learning a lesson in case of infidelity, it is

just like learning other lessons. Learning from the

experience largely depends on the degree of

development the affected individual's awareness.

Ideally, if

the person's degree of awareness in relatively mature,

the person will be able to introspect and learn about

him/herself : aspects that require more development

in order to be able to experience and manifest the

Principle of Oneness. This is the general purpose of

conflicts in marriage, have a partner with whom one

constantly recreate one's self and as a result learn

to grow deeper in love, understanding and oneness.

 

If the affected person's degree of development is

still in the

early process of maturing outside the lower ego

centric

level, the tendency would be to avoid looking within

one'self, blame others him/herself or events then be

quite miserable. Because of the Principle of Oneness,

anything a person does to another, he does to himself.

 

When a person makes a commitment. The commitment does

not stipulate that it is only valid when the other

party is good, lovable or available. It is basically

based on the strength of the character of the person

making the commitment. Strength is only as good as

the last test for possible weaknesses. Therefore,

when a person is unfaithful to his/her commitment, the

infidelity is to him/herself. The failure to keep the

commitment brings to light a weakness in his/her

character that requires attention for more

development.

 

This is the reason for the student's invocation

" ...for inner strength to continue the spiritual

practice.... " MCKS Pranic Healers are learning and

appreciating through practice that she/he is a

spiritual being learning by experiencing physical

life. Like every experience in life, marriage is a a

tool for spiritual development.

 

Love,

 

Marilette

 

Source: MASTER CHOA KOK SUI - Miracles Through Pranic Healing, Advanced Pranic

Healing, Pranic Psychotherapy, Pranic Crystal Healing.

 

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