personality development - 5 years old

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dear marilitte,

atma namaste,

 

i have done courses till psychic defence and

arhatic prep.my problem is regarding my 5.5 yr old

son.he is at school very talkative and mixes

with his friends and teachers very well.at home also

he is very attatched to both of us,i.e his parents but

the minute he is front of any of our friends he

becomes very quiet and does not even respond to them

when they greet him. same is the case when we go

visiting our friends, even if they have children of

his age,he takes a lot of time to mix with them

even though they are no strangers to him and he clings

on to one of us.Academically is slightly above average

since the time he has started practising superbrain

yoga.every body thinks that he is shy but we know that

he is not,as we have seen him talk and mix very freely

with his friends at school and his teachers and the

domestic help around the house.

Can you pls suggest a protocol on

psychotherapy for him.

thankyou

bina

 

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Dear Bina,

 

Namaste.

 

Thank you for your email.

 

Each person is an individual. Your son is an

individual. This means that although all persons have

the same components of body and soul, the rate and

level of development of each aspect of the bodies and

soul and as a whole are different from one person to

another.

 

At 5 years old, your son sounds like a healthy person,

developing properly. If you sense a reluctunce on his

part to socialize among persons primarily linked to

you, it is probable that he feels awed by your

personality or does not want to disappoint those

persons and ultimately you.

 

Try out this technique:

 

1. Make a list of the positive qualities you want for

your son to develop (spirituality, humility, self confidence, creativity,

honesty, loving kindness, gentleness, harmony, wisdom, good health,prosperity

and abundance, balanced, lower and higher intelligence, clarity, etc.)

 

2. Apply general sweeping and chakral cleansing

on your son before bedtime regularly.

 

3. Both parents practice the Meditation on Twin

Hearts together regularly. During the last blessing

portion, visualize your son as a self confident,

loving and bright person then bless him with the

qualities in your list. Then release and cut the

projected energy.

 

4. Create a positive image. Everytime you think of

him, speak of him to others or interact with him,

affirm the same positive qualities of a beautiful soul

that he is and those qaulities you have in your list.

 

5. Regularly comminicate with him in his level.

Give him a lot of emotional support, hugging and say sweet loving

encouraging words to him often to help him develop

self confidence. Listen to him and reassure him

whenever you sense or whenever he expresses his

fears and worries.

 

Avoid criticizing, pressuring him or expecting him to

do only what you want, even in your thoughts.

 

6. When he is reluctant to interact with others in

your presence, just include him during the

conversation with your freinds and associates so he

can feel part, not apart from the group.

 

Be the positive link. Try choosing to talk about some

of his favorite topics with him among your relatives

and friends so he can feel comfortable around them and

relate with them.

 

7. Although he is a separate individual, he is not a

small adult. He is a young child in the process of

developing his personality. All the positive

exeriences he has with you will help him gain the self

confidence and inner strength he needs to develop his

own personality properly and interact with the outside

world in a balanced healthy manner.

 

Love,

 

Marilette

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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