Guest guest Posted May 28, 2003 Report Share Posted May 28, 2003 Dearest Taeraa, Namaste. Thank you for your email. Love has many aspects and levels because the person who loves is the same. What do you mean by " love " ? In Love and in Light, Marilette , valteira lord terran <ladyvalteira> wrote: > > hi marilette > > i need to ask you a rather theosophical question. why would someone hate to commit to a child.? is love sometimes tough to understand.? > > my father, doesnt seem to understand , what a child's love is like, or how intense it can be, he calls me hysterical. please marilette, i know me and my dad are together for spiritual reasons, and he does a lot of automatic writing , do you think there is some way , where i can connect to them ,or him in order to explain my love for him. to explain that a child;s love is never tamed ? > > why do people fear committing to a child? > > take care > > love Taeraa > > > > > > The New Search - Faster. Easier. Bingo. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2003 Report Share Posted May 30, 2003 dear marilette by love i mean , the love between a child and her father. a father who never gave birth to her body , but gave birth to her soul, who is connected to her and thats the reason why they should be together. when every evidence points towards their love, its just that a child's love is more wild, honest and outspoken than a father who is more sublime and subtle. would one want to reject a child .? this child, who there are soo many ties with . where the child's destiny was triggered by the father's subconscience. why is it scary to commit.?? what is it that holds them back. ? when they feel the love, its obvious its there, but the father being hurt so many times , even by his own parents doesn;t want to except whats happening. he has destroyed himself in all that pain , but he is going to destroy this child by denying her , her home, his love. what should he do ?> love Aarti Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2003 Report Share Posted May 30, 2003 " valteira lord terran " <ladyvalteira Fri, 30 May 2003 03:05:27 -0700 (PDT) Re: Re: commit to a child dear marilette by love i mean , the love between a child and her father. a father who never gave birth to her body , but gave birth to her soul, who is connected to her and thats the reason why they should be together. when every evidence points towards their love, its just that a child's love is more wild, honest and outspoken than a father who is more sublime and subtle. would one want to reject a child .? this child, who there are soo many ties with . where the child's destiny was triggered by the father's subconscience. why is it scary to commit.?? what is it that holds them back. ? when they feel the love, its obvious its there, but the father being hurt so many times , even by his own parents doesn;t want to except whats happening. he has destroyed himself in all that pain , but he is going to destroy this child by denying her , her home, his love. what should he do ?> love Aarti ============================================================== Dear Aarti, Namaste. Love has as many dimensions and aspects as much as the person who loves. Human love, as we know it, exists within each one of us as a reflection of the Divinity within. The love we give to others is the externalization of what lies within. The Law of Karma: " As you sow you reap " . Law of action and reaction: " For every action, there is a corresponding reaction. " If you want to experience love, give love. And since we cannot give what we do not have, the primary step, therefore, is to develop the awareness of Love which is within ourselves. For a person to properly understand the experience of Love, the person starts by developing the proper awareness of the Love that lies within him/herself, loving one's self. Love( and commitment), is given; not demanded, bargained or asked from another. Meditate on Loving Kindness for yourself and all those around you daily. The daily proper practice of the Planetary Meditation for Peace is an excellent tool which Grand Master Choa has generously taught us. Use it to raise your Love consciousness effectively. With Love, Marilette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 Dear Marilette Another thing i have found is that , my dad has alot of migraines and a liver problem too. all related to emoitons.theres alot about his past which hurt him , and he is a very god fearing person believes in god, and i think thats his only friend. even though thats the most beautiful thing , i think its taken him away from me. is it because my life is not reliable. or is he scared of getting hurt ? i have no idea. but even though he feels the love .. he does nt want to except that it exists . it slike " i would be lieing if i said that i felt teh same way as you " or he would playfully say that he is blessed with a daughter like me, does he mock it like a child because he is scared of it ,? or just doesnt udnerstand something he never felt when he was a child. he calls my love hysterical.a childs love is hysterical! should i counsel him , fo rthe pain he experienced in his past? i never demanded commitment, and quite frankly its not about commitment, i think its more about love.. experiencing it without fear,,...which he has. its love . i dont want my father to suffer , i want him to resolve his past, because its eating both of us alive!! how can someone give something they want to give, when they feel guilty , angry ,sad about it. my father wants to express and give himself but he cant , he is too lost. its not about demanding it , its about unleashing what truly exists. isnt it? please let me know take care love Aarti Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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