Very Concerned for My Father's Health

[Guest guest]

My father is diabetic and had a triple bypass in December 2004. Since

the surgery his right side of his diaphram is paralyzed, his left arm

doesn't work, and he has neuropathy in his right leg. We have had a

lot of grief since 2004. My uncle passed October 2004. Then my grandpa

went into the hospital November 2004 and when he came out my dad went

in for his heart attack in December. In January of 2005 my mom went in

for pneumonia. Then in May of 2005 my dad's father passed away. For

the rest of that year and the beginning of this year my mom's dad went

in and out of the hospital until he passed in April 2006. Two weeks

after he passed my mom went into the ICU across the hall from where

her father passed. In July 2006 my mom passed away. I feel we haven't

had time to grieve for any of them. My dad's doctor said he was crying

to much for his family members that passed especially his wife since

1972 so she put him on depression medicine. She also sent him to a

psychiatrist. The psychiatrist told him to find a new wife. My

question to everybody is will this make his health worse? I read in

the post for someone else that you are suppose to grieve. My father's

doctor is not letting him grieve. Will this make his health worse or

even put him in the hospital? Any information will be deeply appreciated.

Thank you,

Jenny

[Guest guest]

Dear Jenny, I'm quite sure you will be receiving a great deal of mail in

response to your very sad story. And before I put my two cents in, I would very

much like to extend my friendship and prayers for your and your family's loss.

But back to your dad...he will know what's right for himself. If he finds

someone(of the female persuation) to listen while he " sounds off " , great!

Because, believe me, men are way, way, different in the way they grieve, than

women. Leave him alone, and just be there for him when he needs you and when he

needs to talk, if he wants to talk. And try not to be judgemental if you does

find someone. Men Are Different !

 

tinkrblee <tinklee wrote: My father is diabetic and had a

triple bypass in December 2004. Since

the surgery his right side of his diaphram is paralyzed, his left arm

doesn't work, and he has neuropathy in his right leg. We have had a

lot of grief since 2004. My uncle passed October 2004. Then my grandpa

went into the hospital November 2004 and when he came out my dad went

in for his heart attack in December. In January of 2005 my mom went in

for pneumonia. Then in May of 2005 my dad's father passed away. For

the rest of that year and the beginning of this year my mom's dad went

in and out of the hospital until he passed in April 2006. Two weeks

after he passed my mom went into the ICU across the hall from where

her father passed. In July 2006 my mom passed away. I feel we haven't

had time to grieve for any of them. My dad's doctor said he was crying

to much for his family members that passed especially his wife since

1972 so she put him on depression medicine. She also sent him to a

psychiatrist. The psychiatrist told him to find a new wife. My

question to everybody is will this make his health worse? I read in

the post for someone else that you are suppose to grieve. My father's

doctor is not letting him grieve. Will this make his health worse or

even put him in the hospital? Any information will be deeply appreciated.

Thank you,

Jenny

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

---hi jenny

the right person can be very uplifting --the wrong one --very

detrimental ---frindship can be very healing ...

 

now to all those people who hav gone to the other side ....

 

it is most important that you come to recognise and realy know that

there is everlasting life

leaving this world and moving on

and you must find the truth regarding this

reomend a good medium and or a spiritualist church ----dig test ask

 

no such thing as death ..i mean think of this who would realy want

to be trapped in a degenerating body racked with pain and ailments

for any lenght of time ...

a lot of people in that state just want to go ...

the other side can be very uplifting and leaves this place for dead

in terms of beauty ......

so thingk of them having a good time and very much alive

and a lot will be allowed to come and see you as well

phil

In , " tinkrblee " <tinklee

wrote:

>

> My father is diabetic and had a triple bypass in December 2004.

Since

> the surgery his right side of his diaphram is paralyzed, his left

arm

> doesn't work, and he has neuropathy in his right leg. We have had a

> lot of grief since 2004. My uncle passed October 2004. Then my

grandpa

> went into the hospital November 2004 and when he came out my dad

went

> in for his heart attack in December. In January of 2005 my mom

went in

> for pneumonia. Then in May of 2005 my dad's father passed away. For

> the rest of that year and the beginning of this year my mom's dad

went

> in and out of the hospital until he passed in April 2006. Two weeks

> after he passed my mom went into the ICU across the hall from where

> her father passed. In July 2006 my mom passed away. I feel we

haven't

> had time to grieve for any of them. My dad's doctor said he was

crying

> to much for his family members that passed especially his wife

since

> 1972 so she put him on depression medicine. She also sent him to a

> psychiatrist. The psychiatrist told him to find a new wife. My

> question to everybody is will this make his health worse? I read in

> the post for someone else that you are suppose to grieve. My

father's

> doctor is not letting him grieve. Will this make his health worse

or

> even put him in the hospital? Any information will be deeply

appreciated.

> Thank you,

> Jenny

>

[Guest guest]

im sorry to hear about your loss, and i hope that you remain strong as you go

through this tuff time, but i remember when i was goin thru a tuff time my

grandmother passed and now my grandfather who is ninety two is dying of

cancer...what is keepin me sane is my daily quest to stay healthy and positive.

watch as many funny shows/movies as possible. also what helped me was drinking

tahitian noni juice, which is made from an exotic fruit from the french

polynesian islands (tahiti) go to tni.com for more info. if you have any

questions about the juice hit me up at ansel_parker

 

linda bowman <isp_linda_bowman49 wrote: Dear Jenny, I'm

quite sure you will be receiving a great deal of mail in response to your very

sad story. And before I put my two cents in, I would very much like to extend my

friendship and prayers for your and your family's loss. But back to your

dad...he will know what's right for himself. If he finds someone(of the female

persuation) to listen while he " sounds off " , great! Because, believe me, men are

way, way, different in the way they grieve, than women. Leave him alone, and

just be there for him when he needs you and when he needs to talk, if he wants

to talk. And try not to be judgemental if you does find someone. Men Are

Different !

 

tinkrblee <tinklee wrote: My father is diabetic and had a triple

bypass in December 2004. Since

the surgery his right side of his diaphram is paralyzed, his left arm

doesn't work, and he has neuropathy in his right leg. We have had a

lot of grief since 2004. My uncle passed October 2004. Then my grandpa

went into the hospital November 2004 and when he came out my dad went

in for his heart attack in December. In January of 2005 my mom went in

for pneumonia. Then in May of 2005 my dad's father passed away. For

the rest of that year and the beginning of this year my mom's dad went

in and out of the hospital until he passed in April 2006. Two weeks

after he passed my mom went into the ICU across the hall from where

her father passed. In July 2006 my mom passed away. I feel we haven't

had time to grieve for any of them. My dad's doctor said he was crying

to much for his family members that passed especially his wife since

1972 so she put him on depression medicine. She also sent him to a

psychiatrist. The psychiatrist told him to find a new wife. My

question to everybody is will this make his health worse? I read in

the post for someone else that you are suppose to grieve. My father's

doctor is not letting him grieve. Will this make his health worse or

even put him in the hospital? Any information will be deeply appreciated.

Thank you,

Jenny

 

 

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