Passing

November 7, 2006

My mom passed away July 8th this year and my grandpa (her dad) passed

away April 29th this year. I know that you have to grieve which I'm

sure I'm not doing properly. My thing is that my dad's diabetic doctor

put him on depression medicine because according to her he's not

allowed to cry. He was crying 5 time a day and that's too much she

said. Then she sent him to a psychiatrist (not sure of spelling). So

this guy my dad went to told him to look for a new wife and to go to

singles search online. I'm not a doctor but I don't think that is

right to tell a man that just lost his wife of 34 years this year to

go find a new wife. My aunt (my mom's sister) heard that and is mad at

him for actually listening to that stupid doctor. I'm sorry but I

think it's way to soon to be looking for another wife already. Anyway,

how is he going to grieve properly if the doctor doesn't let him? Does

that mess with you being put on depression meds when you need to be

grieving? Right now I don't trust those doctors because I think they

killed

my mom. The same hospital my dad is at had my mom on three different

depression meds at high doses and three different morphine meds at

high doses. She went in for a sore wrist and they told her she had ALS

and is going to die before May. I think they scared her to death. They

put a trach on her with the vent in May and told her she was going to

die before christmas. She had breathing problems but she still had

them with the vent. They said her lung kept collapsing and coming

back. They didn't do anything for that. She got pnuemonia (not sure on

spelling) right after the put her on the vent. So when she was sick

they put her on three different depression meds because they said

that's why she can't breath even on the vent. They put her on three

different kinds morphine because the pain makes it so she can't breath

(she never told them she hurt that bad). My mom had a lump on the back

of her neck the doctor said she would check it since she is in the

hospital. They never checked it. One doctor thought they saw a pinched

nerve in the lump the other doctor said no she has ALS. My aunt had

somebody do a reading on my mom. He said she didn't have ALS he just

saw a grey cloud around her wrist. Nobody checked the nerve. My

grandma went in for the same wrist problem, they said it was a pinched

nerve and she is still here today. This same hospital did a triple

bypass on my dad in 2004. They said it was too much of an emergency so

they couldn't fix his fourth artery so they left him with part of his

heart not working. They also told him they cut a nerve in his leg

because they were working so fast and it would heal on it's own. He

hasn't been able to feel his leg since. The doctors changed their mind

and said they didn't cut anything he just has diabetic nuropathy (not

sure about spelling). Every doctors appointment my dad had after the

surgery he told them he can't breath right and when he coughs he can't

breath at all they said he was ok. He got a new doctor same hospital

after my mom died. She found out that the right side of his diaphram

is paralyzed. They aren't doing anything for that. My grandfather that

passed away went to the same hospital. They said he had

pnuemonia(still not sure of spelling). They treated him for it and he

didn't get better. They ended up putting him on the vent down the

mouth. They said he ended up with hospital pnuemonia and treated him

for that but he didn't get better. So they decided they didn't know

what he had and tried different things that didn't work. So we ended

up having to take him off the vent too. These are the reasons I don't

trust this hospital or the doctors that work there.

Jenny Lee

November 8, 2006

Homeopathic ignatia will help with the grief

On Behalf Of tinkrblee

07 November 2006 15:08