Guest guest Posted September 17, 2006 Report Share Posted September 17, 2006 Absence of Light - Remedies for Your Darkest Hour by Donna Cunningham The telephone woke me early this morning -- a woman was calling from abroad who had no idea what time it was here. Like so many people who are calling lately or are writing to my " Dear Abby " type advice column in Dell Horoscope Magazine, she was in the depths of despair. Life had never seemed more bleak or devoid of hope -- painful issues she had struggled with throughout life without improvement now seemed too much to bear any longer. What moves me about these individuals is that they are not drama queens, and they are not indulging in self-pity or bitterness. They are earnest, honest souls who have done all they can to contend with crushing, seemingly irresolvable circumstances and patterns, and now they are at a breaking point. How do I approach them? WITH HUMILITY, for I am old enough now and have worked with enough different healing tools long enough to know there are no magic bullets to resolve such complex, seemingly-immutable, and deep-seated wounds. WITHOUT JUDGMENT, and WITHOUT BLAMING THEM for their mistakes, for I am clear enough now to know that, despite all my own struggles for healing, I have not walked in their shoes and cannot know the karmic and spiritual truths behind the choices they have made. And, most importantly, WITHOUT EGO, for the answers they seek and the healing they need are well and truly beyond me -- beyond any of us who are honest enough with ourselves to no longer be grandiose. Only God and the higher realms hold the Grace that can uplift this world out of the hopelessness that so many are feeling. What Light Can Astrology Shed on the Situation? This sudden upsurge of despair does seem related to the current astrological conditions. As an astrologer who has studied planetary patterns these past 38 years, I am sensitive to the prevailing cosmic winds, especially those shown by the major connections between various planets in our solar system. These transiting positions, some lasting as much as two years, affect and shape our collective experience, and through the changes in the collective, have a profound impact on individuals whose birth charts are affected as well. The current challenge that is facing the collective is that Saturn and Neptune are opposite one another -- in Leo and Aquarius -- in the 360 degree circle of the zodiac. Astrologers of a historical bent find that various angles formed by this pair of planets have been associated with very difficult world conditions, including the fuel shortages and flu pandemics that already seem likely to happen. (Neptune and Saturn were standing together in the sky in 1916-18 when there was a devastating world-wide flu pandemic.) My theory about outbreaks such as these is that world conditions of the particular era can lead to a pervasive sense of despair and powerlessness that, unless counteracted, tends to weaken the immune system. AN IMPORTANT ASIDE: Please note that the majority of people will not be affected directly by this astrological condition, only those with planets in about the 17-23 degree range of the fixed signs -- Leo, Aquarius, Scorpio, and Taurus. If your chart contains important positions -- one or more of the planets, the Sun, Moon, Ascendant, or Midheaven -- in this range, you would do well to consult an astrologer for more personalized information. Find an article I wrote on how to meet its challenges here. http://www.moonmavenpublications.com/freestuff.html To be technical, this opposition is exact three times: on August 31, 2006 at 17 Leo 53-17 Aquarius 53; on February 28, 2007 at 20 Leo-15-20 Aquarius 15; and on June 25, 2007 at 21 Leo 47-21 Aquarius 47. However, its effects can be felt to a greater or lesser degree throughout much of this time span by those whose chart it touches. Sweet Chestnut -- THE Remedy for the Dark Night of the Soul What did I suggest to the woman who called me in such desperate straits this morning? Since we could not arrange an appointment for several days, I told her to go to her local health food store this very day and pick up a bottle of the Bach Remedy Sweet Chestnut. Over the years, I have found that this balm in a bottle has helped to uplift so many of the people who call me in the depths of anguish. Dr. Bach described it as the remedy for The Dark Night of the Soul, but cautioned strongly that it was not for suicidal people because those individuals need immediate medical attention. If you've ever experienced the Dark Night of the Soul, you know exactly what that term means, and you can empathize with those who are there. If not, take your bleakest hour, raise it to a power of ten to get a glimmering of what it's like. Even knowing its description, I have been amazed at the immediate difference this remedy makes for those who need it. Within a matter of days, the despondency begins to shift, and they start to see that something can be done with their situation. They still need the support of an experienced counselor/healer to work through the issues and situations that brought them to the brink, but the light of hope has begun to penetrate their hearts and souls. I, myself, have taken it from time to time, and it provides such a sweet solace. Some time ago, Vibration published an article on the effects of long-term use of Rescue Remedy, (http://www.floweressencemagazine.com/may03/rescueremedy.html) written anonymously by a woman who took it for several months because of a very serious financial crisis. Not only did it keep her calm in the emergency, it brought to the surface and helped her to release some childhood wounds due to family dysfunction. Of late, I have been remembering that article and wondering if a similar deep-level healing might result if Sweet Chestnut were taken for several months by someone in this type of dark passage. What would be the results of taking it over the long haul -- not just for the few days this seeming miracle-worker takes to shift people out of their immediate state of despair? I intend to recommend long-term use to the woman who called me this morning, as well as to others I encounter along the path of this current cosmic current. If anyone who reads this tries it, I would appreciate hearing what happens. EDITOR'S NOTE: See an additional article about Sweet Chestnut here. http://www.floweressencemagazine.com/nov04/sweetchestnut.html Other Bach Remedies to Counteract Despair and Inertia There are, as you will have learned by perusing this and other issues of this ezine, many different brands of essences with important contributions of their own to make to our field and our times. What I am about to say, I say as an individual and a long-time clinical practitioner, not as the editor of Vibration Magazine, and so you should not take this as representing Vibration's editorial policy. When it comes to healing despair, I focus first on the remedies developed by Dr. Edward Bach for several reasons. First, they are the most widely available to the public and can be found in most health food stores and New Age shops. Second, they were developed and extensively researched during the Great Depression of the 1930s -- another historical era when there were difficult Neptune-Saturn aspects -- and thus, this set of remedies arose to meet the needs of a time of widespread despair and anxiety not unlike our own. Third, the collected case studies of Dr. Bach's individual remedies represent the most extensively documented of all the vibrational products available, and is the collection I most often call upon to address very serious levels of emotional difficulty. (The version of these 38 remedies I personally prefer is made by the company Healing Herbs). Here, very briefly are some other remedies that Dr. Bach and those in his lineage have found helpful in extreme emotional distress of the type we are discussing here. Naturally, Rescue Remedy (and the crisis formulas developed by various other makers) is useful in an immediate crisis, helping those affected to center themselves and calm down enough to function. (See case histories on Rescue Remedy here. (http://www.floweressencemagazine.com/feb04/rescueremedy.html) I never leave home without it, for I often seem to come across people who need immediate help. If the situation accompanied by despair is complicated by the tendency to do things that are harmful to oneself, read detailed descriptions of Bach's Cherry Plum to see if it applies to the urgency of the situation. Understand, no practitioner should EVER claim that flower essences alone will stop someone who is suicidal. Know when you are in over your head and insist that the individual seek medical help. Vibration's special theme issue in November, 2005, (http://floweressencemagazine.com/nov05/) on the power of intention contained much that is useful in moving out of places where you are stuck, but you might read my article on Bach's Wild Rose (http://www.floweressencemagazine.com/nov05/wildrose.html), as it is amazingly helpful in off-setting the despair and apathy that has grown out of long-standing obstacles. This, like Sweet Chestnut, is an essence you might consider taking on a longer-term basis and perhaps as a single essence, rather than in combination. (See an article here that discusses how many essences should be taken at one time and why an essence taken singly can prove surprisingly potent.) What Other Essences and Lightwork Have to Add While Bach remedies like the ones discussed in this article can help lift someone out of that Dark Night of the Soul, what comes next? That's the point when both remedies by more modern companies and lightwork become important. In my experience, lightwork plays an essential part in clearing out the dark and toxic emotional residues most of us have accumulated in our lifetimes. Additional forms of vibrational healing like essences and energy work like Reiki, MariEL, or The Reconnection help move any residues out of our energy fields and bodies more quickly and gently. In the other articles in this issue, you meet many essences based on light and hear about how their makers have combined these two modalities to boost their healing powers. EDITORS' NOTE: For a collection of articles on astrology and essences, http://www.essences.com/vibration/astrology/ ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Donna Cunningham, MSW has a master's degree in social work and many years of counseling experience. She is the coeditor of Vibration and a long-time educator and writer in the fields of astrology and flower remedies. She has written 17 books on metaphysical topics and has columns in each issue of Dell Horoscope Magazine and The Mountain Astrologer. To see her ebooks, visit Moon Maven Publications. http://www.floweressencemagazine.com/aug06/absenceoflight.html *** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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