For Kai Reading needed about summer love

[Guest guest]

Kai, I started this before I knew your birth time.

It still stands.

 

Hello can someone do a reading for me about my love relationships?I was wondering if there would be love for me this summer or fall, I am looking but not having any luck. Here is my data: female 03-31-71 birthdateariesborn at 9:50 pm

 

Kai, Totally apart from any astrological

considerations, most people have much better

"luck" with love when they are happily

involved with life in general.

 

Please. Stop "looking".

Start Living, celebrating and contributing as if

being single was perfectly OK.

 

There is no single person out there who will make

everything alright.

 

Suppose for whatever reason you were destined to be

without a partner for life.

What would you do to give meaning to your life?

Start doing some of those things.

 

Paradoxically, you are more likely to

attract a mate that way.

 

This has nothing to do with astrology.

Just your basic "Dear Abby" kind of wisdom.

 

Now, astrologically.....

 

You are a complex individual with many

conflicting needs and drives.

No single individual will ever be able

to give you exactly what you need to

feel complete.

 

Keep your girlfriends!

 

 

Again, this goes for anyone, but

more so for some.

 

Your Scorpio Ascendant craves a stable,

possessive, sensuous earthy partner.

When you find such a person, your sociable

Moon in Gemini feels stifled after a while,

and your restless Sun in Aries wonders

if this is all there is.

 

As an Aries you have powerful Yang

energy.

Have you claimed it for your own,

or are you searching for it through

the men in your life?

 

Your romantic streak is shown by Venus

in Pisces, which longs to yield to, merge with,

and serve the beloved, and a Neptune/Jupiter

conjunction in the first house, in square

to Venus.

This is gobbledegook, hang in,

all will be explained.

 

Neptune is the planet of divine homesickness.

It symbolizes our deep longing to merge the

self with a greater Whole.

 

We all have Neptune somewhere, but it is

very strong in your case.

 

When the deep longing for losing oneself

to the Divine gets mixed up with the

very human desire for a life partner,

we have a problem.

 

No human being can possibly live up to

the exalted ideals you have of the

perfect union.

Anyone who is merely human is likely

to disappoint after the initial glow

wears off.

 

With Jupiter in the picture as well

the whole pattern becomes magnified.

Am I wrong, or are you a bit

of a drama queen?

 

At the same time, with Sun in Aries

opposing independent Uranus, you desire

freedom and independence.

 

Aries thrives on new challenges and

new beginnings.

 

Are you sure you want to be tied down?

Perhaps you attract men who are not

quite available in some way, or who

keep leaving you.

 

If this is the case,please realize

you are attracting an important part

of your own energy.

 

As for the timing, this is a good summer

for exploring Inner Space.

If you have ever considered any form of

therapy NOW is the time.

 

Or rather, some form of direct experience

workshop, like shamanic soul retrieval.

Why?

Because transiting (the one in the sky)

Saturn, the planet symbolizing your

fears and blocks, is in the eighth house

of personal transformation.

 

There is no better time for facing

your deepest fears, for traveling

into the underworld of your soul

so you can re-emerge with the treasures

of understanding.

 

You have just lived through a period

of emotional drought, that left you

unsatisfied with life as you manifested

it so far.

(Transiting Saturn square to Sun

and opposing Mars)

 

Your life energy was likely low during

this period. You felt as if your

efforts to assert your will ran into

resistance.

 

Men in your life may have been a source

of stress.

 

You are starting to leave that behind.

Saturn is still in Cancer, but it

is moving on and does not affect you

as strongly.

 

However, with Uranus, the Great Awakener,

moving back and forth over your Venus and

IC, the Root point, life is likely to

remain unsettled for a while.

 

If you do encounter love, it will most

likely come from unexpected quarters,

and be the kind of straw-fire that

burns bright and hot but short.

 

Prepare for the unexpected in the next

few years. Stay fluid and open to new

experience.

At the same time, keep some common

sense and don't give away the farm so

to speak.

 

Actually, with solid, practical Mars

in Capricorn in the second house of

personal worth you are likely to have

a good practical head on your shoulders

when you care to engage it.

 

This is a good grounding energy that

sops up the sentimental excess of

Venus in Pisces.

 

When you feel blue, go do something

useful. You'll feel better.

 

Either playing with children, or

expressing yourself artistically,

is also life enhancing for you.

 

Try forms of art that combine

fire and earth, like pottery and

sculpture.

 

Speaking of Earth, I'd better go

do something in my own garden.

This machine can eat my life if

I let it!

 

Your life is likely to be full of

surprises in the next few years.

Fasten your seat belt, and enjoy

the ride.

Remember you signed up for it!