Witnessing vs judging

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ayurveda , " Janel Martin-Miranda "

<janel_miranda wrote:

 

> As a third party, we can be the first to truly acknowledge THEIR

> experience. Our intentions, of course, ARE to be non-judgmental,

> compassionate, gentle, loving, etc. AND, to witness when they have

> experienced something that harmed them so, or disrupts their

> ability, or separated them from the mother, they need to have

> ACCURATE REFLECTION of that. Accurate reflection is acknowledgement.

> We will always have some level of judgement depending on how we have

> or have not dealt with out baggage from our earliest experiences.

> Witnessing without judgement is a skill and action.

 

Dear Janel...

Thank you for this thoughtful explanation on " witnessing " .

 

Just would like to pass on another idea for communicating with babies.

Besides YL essential oils, I use flower essences when I am doing

healing work. I ask the client for permission to connect with their

" higher self " and check using a dousing method if I have been given

permission. Last week when I was helping the woman from South America

with her breastfeeding concerns, she shared with me that vacuum

extraction was used at the hospital to birth her baby and also that

the baby was taken to weigh, measure, etc. before being given to her.

I asked the baby if he gave permission for me to speak with his

higher self and I did get a confirmative " yes " . He was sleeping.

It's not necessary to apply flower essences to babies orally, so I

placed portions of a drop on his forehead after asking his higher self

which essences were needed.

 

To Ysha.. I wish I had had Young Living Gentle Baby with me. The ones

that I had in my purse weren't appropriate - went out the door

grabbing the wrong bag. Would Trauma Life applied to the soles of the

baby's feet be appropriate in these situations. You may have already

suggested this and I may have missed that post. I checked our notes

(oh, how I wish they were indexed!) and I checked the EODR but didn't

find anything specific to babies. It just makes sense to me that this

would be appropriate use. Had I had some, I could have checked with

his higher self. Trauma Life will be on my next order.

 

Thanks so much, Janel, for going into such detail to explain to us

more about your work with babies who have experienced trauma.

 

Saroj