[mindmastery-essentialskills] I had to get up & walk out of the room before I started crying like a baby

[Guest guest]

People talk about it (being empathic) like it's a curse sometimes, BUT I've

NEVER had a time where it was a negative thing. It's ONLY ever happened when I

was able to connect with the person in a way that I could send or offer them

some comfort:

 

1) The tax guy who fucked up and gave MY tax forms to someone else -- I saw his

scrambled energies, and mentally projected help to him -- he stopped, got a

strange look on his face, took a deep breath, and relaxed.

 

2) The woman in the hospital waiting room whose husband was about to go into

surgery when she got a call that her house just burned down. I " became her " for

a moment, and mentally gave her assistance, calmed TW, and focused on " what to

do now " . She even turned and looked at me " weird " after she calmed down in just

a few seconds after being hysterical.

 

3) The guy who was stooped over in Taco Bell -- and his wife -- I mentally

connected with him, did EFT for " Even though I can't stand up straight... " and

then I noticed that even though she loved him dearly, she was ASHAMED at being

with him, afraid everyone was staring at her / him / them. So I sent her mental

suggestions AND used language patterns for break states. They both enjoyed the

conversation, he left standing up, and she left with a SMILE on her face.

 

4) Images of children and mothers suffering after the tsunami a couple of years

ago, so I mentally projected comfort to them, in the way I knew best at that

time.

 

5) Other numerous times when I just " sense " something about someone, and I

mentally send them compassion, thoughts of caring, assistance, or whatever I

sense is right for them, sometimes accompanied with spoken language patterns,

sometimes not.

 

This of course, is not what I normally do -- I usually want people to get out of

my way. LOL

 

And there have been times when I was " accidentally " drawn to some event based on

my own attractor fields, where I experienced someone else's pain or suffering

and " couldn't " do anything about it because I needed to learn something about my

own choices.

 

But every time I've had an " empathic " connection with someone, it has NEVER been

a negative or painful thing. I have ALWAYS had that connection BECAUSE I was

there and was able to DO SOMETHING to offer some sort of assistance.

 

I got to help someone else along their path, and I also got to practice and get

better at real good skills I've learned.

 

I'm real glad you posted what you wrote to them, Doc. Thank you.

 

Jim

 

 

 

 

 

>kahunamaker <kahunamaker

>Jun 20, 2006 5:17 AM

>mindmastery-essentialskills

>[mindmastery-essentialskills] I had to get up & walk out of the room

before I started crying like a baby

>

>--- " vanadeux " <vanadeux wrote:

>>

>> There are some people who are referred to as 'EMPATHS' they seem

>to be wired differently and are far more sensitive to discordant

>energies that others maybe would not notice and certainly would not

>be affected by in a negative way.

>>

>> Does anybody here recognise themselves as emapthic? I am not

>saying that these qualities make an empath a 'better' person..quite

>often I find being empathic in nature makes life quite tiring and I

>wondered if Donna recognises this issue?

>

>Hi Anna,

>

>Yes Donna recognizes this issue. Donna is an Empath, among many

>other things.

>

>I remember about 8 years ago I was filming for her and David, and

>the damn tripod wouldn't work so I had to hold the camcorder steady

>for 3 solid hours. I became the tripod.

>

>And my back was hurting, but me being the macho dude I am I

>pretended I was okay.

>

>Donna did say a word, but walked up to me and began massaging my

>back in the exact location I hurt. The pain went away immediately.

>Now, since that could have been because she also sees energy, I'll

>give you another personal example.

>

>I was a Trainer's assistance about 5 years ago, and Stephanie (our

>team leader) gave us a drill to do. And I thought, " what bullshit " ,

>but did the drill because Stephanie asked us to.

>

>About 1/2 through the drills, when we were all sharing, I noticed

>(FINALLY) that the drills was REAL, and I was just so damn armoured

>that I " thought " it was bullshit.

>

>It really struck me deep and I was afraid I was going to

>start " balling " infront of all those women. So I pretended nothing

>was going on.

>

>Donna walks into the room, looks at me and tears came into her eyes.

>Damn it! She knew! She starting tearing up, while looking at me,

>then everyone else in the room also knew. I had to get up and walk

>out before I started crying like a baby...and I'm the guy that

>hasn't cried since I was 9 years old, no matter what happened.

>Divorce. Broken back. Death of a loved one. Operations. Blab, blab,

>blab.

>

>So, yes Donna is also a Empath. And that is added, HER WAY, to all

>that she does and she teaches.

>

>Sincerely,

>

>