When to help, or not.

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--- " weisha7 " <weisha7 wrote:

>

> A very very dear friend recently revealed that he has been

> experiencing the following for some time: feeling of a lump of

bread

> dough at about the end of his esophagus and in his throat, nausea

in

> the mornings aided by food, decreased appetite, having several

good

> days of energy and then feeling whacked for several days, wanting

> naps. He feels better in the evenings but still has a reduced

> appetite. He has blamed it on working in the sun (retired, lives

in

> the tropics), a bad batch of x or y, other things. He is a

lifelong

> smoker (cigs and pot), drinker, and his cholesterol is likely

through

> the roof - it was high years ago, and he continues to eat things

high

> in animal fat, insufficient veggies, etc, although he is good

about

> fruit, since there's so much available where he lives. Family

> history, father died of cancer (also a smoker and alcoholic),

> siblings all have substance abuse problems. He does exercise,

> swimming, hiking, and yard work.

 

Hi Weisha,

 

Sorry I didn't reply earlier, but I was busy finishing up my

last " training intensive " , and now I'm done for 2 weeks.

 

I know he's your good friend, and I also know that self-

responsibility comes mainly from the inside, especially after the

age of 12. He's way past 12. So after the age of 12, for attitudinal

change to occur, he must face a major scary significant event. This

might be " enough " so he will do what is necessary.

 

But I doubt it from what you gave in your original post.

 

I also know that many of the conditions you are refering to need

major detox, behavioral changes, changes in attitude FIRST for

anything else to work.

 

Him eliminations! We are talking about 15 colonics over a period of

30 days! Just to get his long term poisons out of his system, out of

his colon, out of his liver, out of his lymphatics, so he can start

fresh.

 

His assimilations! Without the colonics first, his assimilations, no

matter how healthly they are (his aren't), are absorbed through old

toxic feces.

 

His daily 30 minutes of persistent exercise! (a minimum). His 3

minutes 3 times a day to help clear up his lymphatics! His education

into what Energy is, what the fields are, and how they can help him!

 

One place where you can jump start his health is to focus on his

spine and his neck. The lymphatics around his spine, the meridians

that go into his spine...The simple sublucation corrections that

happen when you do a spinal flush, and body roll, and the lower

spine and neck stretch.

 

Another place you can start is to work on his being " afraid " of

what " they " will find out if he does go in for a physical. I

personally dislike going to allopathic MD's. They are trained

incorrectly for how I live and define health. But they do have a

necessary part in the health model. Especially when you find one

that is more aware of what we do.

 

So maybe a reframe, and a referal to an MD that is more open to what

energy healing is all about?

 

The goods news is, no matter where you start on your healing energy

skills with him, you are probably going to be correct. The rest of

the story is, " he's got to do his part " ...then miracles can and do

happen.

 

Personally I choose NOT to accept clients for more than 4 visits

unless they are doing their drills at home to augment the work I am

doing with them.

 

I care for them so much that I choose NOT to waste their time and

their money if they choose not to work on their own health and to

take self-responsibility for their own health, welfare, and

happiness.

 

But that's just good old huggy feely me.

 

The good news is, after 4 good sessions with them, you then really

know if they are going to help in the process, or not. By then, they

are either with you 80%-100%, or they think that you are a wacked

out freak, and go and take an Mitol instead of doing the drills.

 

Then need to make at least an 80% commitment for things to happen. I

am talking about a real commitment " all over the board " .