Your process is to validate what you think and to condemn others ...

[Guest guest]

Hi Karen, you are new here and probably don't yet realize how and why Doc posts.

 

In his posts he normally gives a minimum of 2-3 different slants on

the topic he is covering. He normally does it in story form so that

people can relate to the emotions in the story with their own emotions as they

live his posts.

 

So to read his posts correctly you need to first step into the idenity of

Jackie, and notice her beliefs, values, rules structures, past learning,

traumas, etc. Do not make any value judgements. Just notice what Jackie notices.

 

Then you need to clear your state, and after clearing your state you

need to step into the story Doc tells from his viewpoint, using the

same idenification process. And again, do not make any value

judgements. Just notice what Doc notices.

 

There is a third part that you have done, and that is you have now

assigned your values and beliefs as truth, and any difference you have with Doc

you has assigned that as evil(that leaves you cold).

 

That is a self-defeating process as far as learning more about

yourself and more about others.

 

Your process is to validate what you think and to condemn others if

you disagree with them.

 

A very self-defeating process in the long run, but you can feel very

smug and proud in the short run.

 

Doc purposefully tells those stories so that many different emotions

can and will arise from your subconscious mind. Normally the negative emotions.

Why the negative emotions? Because the negative emotions are the ones that cause

all the diseases, all the pain, fear, anger and depression that lead to physical

diseases.

 

All of the above illnesses are causes from within and not from

without.

 

There is a weakened immune system first, that that which is outside

can affect that which is inside.

 

Learn your unconscious snap judgements that cause your negative

emotions. The ones that you believe are right, correct and accurate.

 

Once you notice where your own incongruences are, then you can take the proper

technologies from Doc, or some other trainer and enhance them, or evolve them to

your new and better choices.

 

Now the 3rd part that Doc recommends we do after we've done the above two

positions, is to then run that same exact movie from your own perspective, and

notice what you notice about yourself.

 

Because you've spent the time in the other positions, now your own

position has comparision values that you can either use or not use,

but then it is choice and not a robotic response built into you by a

demanding Mother where you were two years old. " Karen, always share

and play with others because that's what good people do " .

 

I do love your response and I admire the Wood Element in you that

defends to the Death your Earth Values, values that most of the population do

not have.

 

Barbara Ann

 

, Karen Phillips

<karen_p12020 wrote:

>

> I have a little different spin on the story.

> If she had grown up with Christmas and as an adult has chosen not

to participate, perhaps there is a hurt there that she is shielding,

maybe her family is gone or doesn't acknowledge her this time of year.

> By not giving her your gift you are going against your own values

regarding the holiday and the whole " spirit of giving " and are letting

your ego take over. The point of giving is not in the return you get

for your ego's satisfaction, but from the good feeling you get inside

for sharing with someone you care about. Chances are that had you

given the gift to the intended person there might have been more

appreciation than you had expected. This story leaves me cold.

>