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Okay, group, and all you people that desire to help people heal...

 

....what behaviors are different between what Joe did and what Jim

did?

 

This is real important " if " you want to interact with them in a way

that causes them to feel better, vs feeling worst.

 

 

 

, Joe

Wadsworth <joewnews-3> wrote:

>

> Great state breaker.

>

> Here's how NOT to do the same thing. A couple of years

> ago, I saw a coworker (and friend) was obviously

> distressed while talking to someone else. I put on my

> sensitive hat and I went over and asked her how she

> was, and lightly touched her shoulder. She instantly

> started crying. So I took a bad emotional state,

> accelerated and anchored it. Dumbass.

>

> She even admitted later that I made it worse.

>

> - Joe Wadsworth

>

> >A guy came in to work tonight all grumpy and spaced

> >out...didn't look like his normal self. Got all

> >pissy when I tried to talk with him.

> >

> >So I got this new toy from the grocery store that is

> >a fake lighter with a battery in it that shocks

> >people.

> >

> >I walk over to him and look all excited and >go,

> " Man! I got a new lighter for my collection! >This

> one is really cool! " I set the " lighter " >down. And

> I held a mental picture of him taking the >lighter,

> picking it up, and trying to light it as if >it were a

> normal lighter.

> >

> >He picks the thing up, and it shocks the holy hell

> >out of him. But instead of getting pissed, he

> >started laughing, his spaced out look is long gone,

> >and for almost 30 minutes now, the guy has been

> >joking and carrying on (and as far as I can tell

> >still hasn't actually done any work), but he's >his

> " normal " self.