Good TRAINING in NLP is a MUST for anyone in healing energies!

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, " Elizabeth

Sleight " <esleight@s...> wrote:

> I trained in NLP but several years ago and I really want to spend

>some time going through all my notes, handouts etc. again to get

>back >up to speed. I do use NLP in several ways. I try to help

>people form >positive outcomes through how I use language with them

 

Actually take the Clarity Model (does someone want to REPOST it over

here for these folks?)...

 

....and use that CM on yourself first, with your own work.

 

Get clear about " what " you are doing, and the " ideals " behind that

work.

 

It's very powerful for ANY decision making process.

 

AND use that CM with your clients.

 

Learn how to do it in conversation.

 

Once you can do that, your help to them as a catalyst will MAGNIFY

immensily.

 

>and, of course, I use NLP rapport techniques.

 

Which ones?

 

There's a reason for this question.

 

So, which ones?

 

> In one case I actually used " parts " work to help them sort through

>a healing conflict they were having around emotional issues,

>overzealous parts running the show.

 

Are you talking about the 6 step reframe that they elicited from

Virginia Satir?

 

Or, are you talking about Bandler's Parts Integration " Squash " ?

 

> I also use reframing techniques to help them see things

>differently.

 

Can you give me some examples of these reframes?

 

And if you can make them isomorphic to what you do, then it will

actually help those on this healingenergies group.

 

Thank you VERY MUCH in advance.

 

Sincerely,

 

Ps. GROUP, why do I state that a working knowledge of NLP is

mandatory for any healingenergies therapist?

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Get clear about "what" you are doing, and the "ideals" behind that work.

 

Yes, I need to work on this but it has come a long way since I first started. It's very powerful for ANY decision making process.AND use that CM with your clients. Learn how to do it in conversation.Once you can do that, your help to them as a catalyst will MAGNIFY immensily.>and, of course, I use NLP rapport techniques.Which ones?There's a reason for this question.So, which ones?

 

Starts with careful listening then using language patterns (I am trained in LAB, Language and Behavioural, Profiling), body language, pacing and leading .. > In one case I actually used "parts" work to help them sort through >a healing conflict they were having around emotional issues, >overzealous parts running the show.Are you talking about the 6 step reframe that they elicited from Virginia Satir?

 

Yes, the 6 step reframe. I didn't do it that well, it had been a long time and my client was laying on my treatment table at the time. However, I did have her identify the part that was blocking her emotional healing and had her find it's intention, thank it and suggest more appropriate times for it to jump in. I also used a mental clearing technique that I believe is called "Focusing", I'll have to see if I can dig out the book, where as issues come into your mind you put them to one side or wherever mentally is appropriate with the intent to come back to them later. It is a gentle way of quieting the mind and allowing felt sense to come to awareness. > I also use reframing techniques to help them see things >differently.Can you give me some examples of these reframes?And if you can make them isomorphic to what you do, then it will actually help those on this healingenergies group.

 

I'll have to think on that one but basically I have taken a self criticism of a behaviour and reframed the behaviour into a circumstance where it could be useful. It changes them from being hard on themselves to seeing value. Does this help?

It is strange how all my trainings from the past - NLP, Reiki, Energy Awareness, Bowen etc. are all of a sudden coming together. There are no coincidences and everything happens for a reason even if we can't see it at the time

 

Elizabeth